[quote]mombasa333 wrote:
Gotta agree with X on this one. Build your body because its what you want to do. We all know it takes a lot of hard work, dedication and not everyone will appreciate it. Its hard ass work and sometimes its hard not eating those chocolate chip cookies.
Women love the money and the words. If you doubt me, take a look at rock stars or modern day poets, if that what you wanna call them. They get bootie thrown at them all the time and I have yet have been inspired by what they accomplished physically. Except maybe David Lee Roth.[/quote]
Uh, that has almost nothing to do with their “words”. Being rich and famous trumps anything else in the world of getting pussy. If you happen to be handsome, well built and charismatic on top of that then you’re playing with a stacked deck my friend.
I thought chicks were creaming their panties over Johnny Depp. Every time I go shopping I see Johnny Depp on the cover of all those gossip mags at the checkout line.
I remembered asking the women I worked with what man they liked, and all of them said this one guy. This guy is a cocky, skinny dude who never smiles and is nothing special in the “looks department”. He’s just really confident, and they said that there’s just something about him they found irresistible. Even the ones who said that they hated his personality said that they would “shag” him lol.
White, you’re missing my point. How many times have your seen an ugly retard walk away with beautiful women, simply because they have a way with words. And nothing else! You have seen it more than once, I am sure.
You’re right though, rich and famous does trump anything and everything. LOL.
Its_just_me…you’re right also. I was just told of this guy who goes to school with my son. He does not speak and has his head down most of the time in class, scared of his own shadow. The teenage girls find him fascinating.
Women, or people in general, have no idea what lifting makes you look like. They think you’re one step away from looking like a dry, super lean, on stage bodybuilder; and that is exactly what I think most women absolutely find unattractive. Not to say that all do.
I also think what is probably more attractive about a strong guy is it’s representative of something else: hard work. Just don’t define yourself purely as a gym guy (or by any one thing); it’s not good for peace of mind, and it’s not good for attracting females.
Lewhitehurst nailed it: “Most people, including we ourselves, tend to define themselves by one aspect of themselves as opposed to developing into a whole person who is made up of many different facets” Perhaps that dry super lean look is perceived as a sign that the person is one dimensional: all they care about is the gym.
Different women like different body types. We don’t have a hive mind.
For instance, height has never been an issue for me. I dated a guy who was 5’4" and it never bothered me at all but I remember some of my girlfriends pulling me aside and asking “OMG, how can you date him? He’s soooo short.”
One of my friends only dates really skeezy looking tall guys who probably weigh about 120 pounds soaking wet. OK, that’s not true at all. SEVERAL of my friends only date that type. A couple of my other friends like fat guys and some of them like the Chippendale’s dancer look. Then there are the ones that like a “big” guy. They don’t care if he’s carrying a little extra fat as long as he’s BIG.
Bottom line, stop trying to conform to what women want because “women” don’t want anything. A trait one woman will love you for, another will despise you for so just do your thing and stop worrying about it.
[quote]MarvelGirl wrote:
Different women like different body types. We don’t have a hive mind.
For instance, height has never been an issue for me. I dated a guy who was 5’4" and it never bothered me at all but I remember some of my girlfriends pulling me aside and asking “OMG, how can you date him? He’s soooo short.”
One of my friends only dates really skeezy looking tall guys who probably weigh about 120 pounds soaking wet. OK, that’s not true at all. SEVERAL of my friends only date that type. A couple of my other friends like fat guys and some of them like the Chippendale’s dancer look. Then there are the ones that like a “big” guy. They don’t care if he’s carrying a little extra fat as long as he’s BIG.
Bottom line, stop trying to conform to what women want because “women” don’t want anything. A trait one woman will love you for, another will despise you for so just do your thing and stop worrying about it.[/quote]
You mean people like different things? Perish the thought.
Another thing which was mentioned is that a man should not define himself according to the gym which I think is right. I would add that I do not think a man should move like the stereotypical, ridiculed meathead if he wants to appeal to a larger audience. Stretch regularly so he does not look all ILS cramped up and tight with a robotic gait. I think women pay more attention to this whole ‘carrying yourself’ than men do and the movement of the said body may be as important as the shape of the body.
exactly…thats why women love gangsters, they carry themselves well lol jk
but seriosuly…that post about the twilight shit…haha im sure most guys arent gonna change into this moody dick who is confident just so girls can find him interesting. Not many girls like a goody 2 shoes, like marvel girl said…just do your thing, never change yourself for a girl, be yourself, do your thing…and there will a time where a girl likes that shit about you, and she just might be the right one for you as well.
as for the monster boob comment…not all guys love monster tits…they ARE fun to look at, they look GREAT in t-shirts especailly with cleavage…but sometimes when they are out n about…especially if they are fake and huge…not that attractive to me, and some girls who have big tits they are sloppy, and a bit more than a handful is good.
Again thats my personal opinion…just like everyone else here/girls will like a different guy. Some guys are crazy into asian girls…me I could care less.
Back to the topic though, vernon fuckin davis haha.
