I would agree with prof X here.
My theory on women who say they don’t don’t like big guys is the same as guys who say they don’t like girls with big breasts (yes they do exist!). Put them in front of a girl with huge tits and you can guarantee they won’t be able to stop looking!
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[quote]DJHT wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
2010 FTW.
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Yea finally 2009 is better than the worst.[/quote]
Are we 09’ers forgiven yet?
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I still think 09ers are worse. The influx of moronic nonsense during the first half of 09 was unbelievable.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]silverhydra wrote:
[quote]DJHT wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
2010 FTW.
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Yea finally 2009 is better than the worst.[/quote]
Are we 09’ers forgiven yet?
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I still think 09ers are worse. The influx of moronic nonsense during the first half of 09 was unbelievable.[/quote]
Damn. Well just have to keep waiting. Maybe one day.
Women want a guy who can look deep in their eyes and recite a Shakespearian soliloquy while banging them in the butt.
Doesn’t matter how you are built.
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I asked god. He said Vernon Davis.
Guys, stop kidding yourselves. Most women [I said most] don’t find the hulked out look attractive. Not that it would automatically eliminate the guy from getting a date with said woman, but a womans idea of “muscular” is way different from ours. I’m not huge by any means [5’9 180lbs] but I’m lean and look like I workout [whatever that means] and I get complimented on my physique pretty often. Not saying that your average woman couldn’t/wouldn’t appreciate the level of work and commitment that a man puts into his body, but there reaches a point where a woman [again, most women] find too much muscularity unattractive. Guys get huge to swing dicks with other guys.
Are you saying Professor X is a swinger?
I have to agree with X. And I think a BIG factor most guys overlook is personality, pure and simple. Most people, including we ourselves, tend to define themselves by one aspect of themselves as opposed to developing into a whole person who is made up of many different facets. But that actually requires growth, which is not an easy thing for most people.
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[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
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[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
Guys, stop kidding yourselves. Most women [I said most] don’t find the hulked out look attractive. Not that it would automatically eliminate the guy from getting a date with said woman, but a womans idea of “muscular” is way different from ours. I’m not huge by any means [5’9 180lbs] but I’m lean and look like I workout [whatever that means] and I get complimented on my physique pretty often. Not saying that your average woman couldn’t/wouldn’t appreciate the level of work and commitment that a man puts into his body, but there reaches a point where a woman [again, most women] find too much muscularity unattractive. Guys get huge to swing dicks with other guys.[/quote]
Most women you deal with. Most women I deal with love my size and muscularity. But then, both our perspectives are skewed by our past experiences and women who are attracted to our differing physiques. My basic point, telling us about what women who are physically attracted to you like is about as valid as me telling you what women who are attracted to me like.
What I can say is I have been found attractive by women who swore up and down before they met me that they would never want to be with a man my size just as I have met plenty of non-black women who swore up and down before they met me they would never date a black man. If you know who you are and are confident and are strong (physically and mentally) women will find you attractive, period.
[quote]lewhitehurst wrote:
[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
Guys, stop kidding yourselves. Most women [I said most] don’t find the hulked out look attractive. Not that it would automatically eliminate the guy from getting a date with said woman, but a womans idea of “muscular” is way different from ours. I’m not huge by any means [5’9 180lbs] but I’m lean and look like I workout [whatever that means] and I get complimented on my physique pretty often. Not saying that your average woman couldn’t/wouldn’t appreciate the level of work and commitment that a man puts into his body, but there reaches a point where a woman [again, most women] find too much muscularity unattractive. Guys get huge to swing dicks with other guys.[/quote]
Most women you deal with. Most women I deal with love my size and muscularity. But then, both our perspectives are skewed by our past experiences and women who are attracted to our differing physiques. My basic point, telling us about what women who are physically attracted to you like is about as valid as me telling you what women who are attracted to me like.
What I can say is I have been found attractive by women who swore up and down before they met me that they would never want to be with a man my size just as I have met plenty of non-black women who swore up and down before they met me they would never date a black man. If you know who you are and are confident and are strong (physically and mentally) women will find you attractive, period. [/quote]
Like I said, your size didn’t automatically eliminate your chances. But, if you were to poll most women they’d say that they generally don’t find the “huge” look attractive. And yes, we can argue about being honest during a poll or whatever you want, but it’s the truth. But, I’m glad you could sway 'em and get your dick wet man.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
The one with the:
-biggest bank account
-most celebrity
-the one who their girlfriends like so they can make them jealous
-the one who lays the pipe the best
Women do NOT judge strictly by appearance and never have. That is why asking which physique works best for women is a waste of fucking time.
I have heard the following from a woman when someone just a little bigger than Vernon walked by:
The guy - “I want to be that big”
The girl - “No you don’t, that is unattractive”.
The guy was out of shape…so how is the guy in better shape less attractive?
Women tell guys what they think we want to hear. They also speak publicly in ways that they think most people think they should speak.
If you ask a woman in public if she likes rough sex, she will likely deny it depending on who she is sitting near. I am betting you would see a different reaction if you were alone with her at night.
Save yourself some trouble here, guy. Lift weights FOR YOU. If you are confident and successful, they like that no matter how big you get.
Your muscle size is NOT the issue some of you make it out to be.
Women are also not going to turn down some built guy no matter how much they lie about it in public unless it is truly extreme like maybe Ronnie Coleman over 300lbs.
You can bet someone the size of David Boston at his biggest was not getting turned down for sex.
Women lie…and the ones who don’t more than likely don’t really know what they want.
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TESTIFY!!!
Is that how you do it in TX?
I’m a little guy, somewhat muscular but very lean. My buddy DF is damn strong, big as an ox, and looks like he can pull a tractor, but is not very lean. Females surround me on a really hot day, but ultimately, they all go home with him at night. If MusicianIan is around, they don’t bother with us at all. Not a muscle to him, but he utilized the English language in ways that DF and I cannot. I say, build yourself an armor of muscle to show the world what you can do and bring them in with your cunning wit once they are within grasp.
When I weighed around 165-170, women asked why I would want to get any bigger. Strangely (or not), at 200-205ish [and I’m a midget], I get nothing but compliments from them. Just saying. Last weekend I lost count of how many times the woman told me I was “so fucking sexy/hot gorgeous/whatever” during sex…so I’m pretty sure they like it lol.
The important thing is to remember that, barring fetishes, muscles are no substitute for confidence and a charming, witty, funny, quirky, yet strong, personality. They are just one of many many factors that women look for.
It’s not like women look at 2 guys, one with 18" arms and one with 19" arms, and the 19" arm dude wins by default. Seriously, wtf people? Get out of the gym from time to time and into the real world.
as far as the brad pitt/fight club thing
I think women are drawn to the idea of men with emotion/mental issues that they identify with. women often have more than one role to fill and they sense the same need to unleash as the character in fight club.
show me a moody dude with an identity issue and that’s a dude chicks will go apeshit for
ttest it out
tell a girl you are unsure of what or who you are and you just want to get away from it all…she’ll dentify and latch on to you
sorry to drop this here but right now Twilight is playing the fuck out of this identiy crisis thing…its why girls love it and guys dont get it.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
The one with the:
-biggest bank account
-most celebrity
-the one who their girlfriends like so they can make them jealous
-the one who lays the pipe the best
Women do NOT judge strictly by appearance and never have. That is why asking which physique works best for women is a waste of fucking time.
I have heard the following from a woman when someone just a little bigger than Vernon walked by:
The guy - “I want to be that big”
The girl - “No you don’t, that is unattractive”.
The guy was out of shape…so how is the guy in better shape less attractive?
Women tell guys what they think we want to hear. They also speak publicly in ways that they think most people think they should speak.
If you ask a woman in public if she likes rough sex, she will likely deny it depending on who she is sitting near. I am betting you would see a different reaction if you were alone with her at night.
Save yourself some trouble here, guy. Lift weights FOR YOU. If you are confident and successful, they like that no matter how big you get.
Your muscle size is NOT the issue some of you make it out to be.
Women are also not going to turn down some built guy no matter how much they lie about it in public unless it is truly extreme like maybe Ronnie Coleman over 300lbs.
You can bet someone the size of David Boston at his biggest was not getting turned down for sex.
Women lie…and the ones who don’t more than likely don’t really know what they want.
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I don’t see why there was any more posts after this one. Sums it up.
[quote]drdude720 wrote:
I’m a little guy, somewhat muscular but very lean. My buddy DF is damn strong, big as an ox, and looks like he can pull a tractor, but is not very lean. Females surround me on a really hot day, but ultimately, they all go home with him at night. If MusicianIan is around, they don’t bother with us at all. Not a muscle to him, but he utilized the English language in ways that DF and I cannot. I say, build yourself an armor of muscle to show the world what you can do and bring them in with your cunning wit once they are within grasp.[/quote]
Then roast her on a spit with paprika and a nice Chianti? Jesus dude.
Gotta agree with X on this one. Build your body because its what you want to do. We all know it takes a lot of hard work, dedication and not everyone will appreciate it. Its hard ass work and sometimes its hard not eating those chocolate chip cookies.
Women love the money and the words. If you doubt me, take a look at rock stars or modern day poets, if that what you wanna call them. They get bootie thrown at them all the time and I have yet have been inspired by what they accomplished physically. Except maybe David Lee Roth.
Who care’s what they want.
Let’s say your brad pitt size. If vernon forest walks by your girlfriend in his underarmour, your going to feel some kind of way.
Do you think someone vernon forest size is going to feel the same way when you walk by?