[quote]gerardmarceau wrote:
Greg, I mean relaxed as in…relaxed. Not,“hey, I’m flexing my bodyparts like I’m in a comp being relaxed”. Just fucking stand there, stop shaving, changing positions, etc.
And yes, you should stop worrying about building muscle. You’ve built maybe 2 or 3 lbs of muscle in the last 5 months, so it’s that mentality of being big that had stopped your fat loss progress. You’re thinking about whether you got enough nutrients /calories to ensure muscle growth. If you didn’t worry about that, fat loss would be the only issue.
I see it with guys all the time. They get into this quasi-fat loss mode and the minute they look flat or small, they increase their food intake. When dieting, it’s about being anti-catabolic not anabolic.
If I’m nameless, then you’re faceless, pal. Funny enough, my handle is my name.
Advice: stop worrying about losing muscle. Face the fear of being under 200 lbs. You can build up later doing a clean bulk. You can be big again.
more advice: calories in vs. calories out. Sure, a calorie is not a calorie, but if you take more in than you expend during the day, you’re not going to lose weight, and depending on those calories, you may just stay at the same weight. It’s thermodynamics.
Helpful words of encouragement: be realistic. Grab that fat, realize it ain’t muscle. Stick your stomach out, see how the fat isn’t contributing to your bodybuilding goals. Lose it. Hunger doesn’t mean you’re losing muscle, it means that your fat is scared of leaving you. You’ve been friends for a long time, you took care of it by feeding it, and now it’s getting the boot.
You’re either the missing link or you ate too much to allow for fatloss to occur for months on end. Your progress is that of someone who didn’t do the work. You body wasn’t stubborn, your fat loss hadn’t stalled- you didn’t do the work. You know it and I know it. You made your bed tough guy, you’re gonna sleep in it.
I’m not comparing you to Chris or Gus. Those guys did what they did. You had a diet of, correct me if I’m wrong, 1900 calories at one point, low carbs, 2 cardio sessions, a fat burner, and weight training and it still wasn’t coming off? I would have gone to the doctor at that point.
I’ll go further than Shugs did: I know you didn’t stick to the diet. I know you ate extra food. I know you were hoping to come out of this with an extra 20 lbs of muscle and the fat would just come off.
I don’t like liars. I don’t appreciate people being deceptive, non descript, phoning it in, when they’ve been given an amazing opportunity.
I love this site and I have lots of respect for the people on it. I don’t like seeing people being taken for a ride.
And finally, out of respect for your friend, be a man. Don’t ever bring him into this again, you asshole. [/quote]
This is an excellent post for the most part, until one reads the final word. Calling someone an asshole takes the steam out of what had been a thoughtful, informative post.
Also, if you’d really been reading NG’s PC thread, you’d know that his very ill friend is female.
You give very, very good advice. Couching it in a little class would make it perfect.
