[quote]gerardmarceau wrote:
novagreg wrote:
First off, the front, side, and back shots that are set up side by side are relaxed.
And did you honestly fucking tell me I should stop wanting to gain more muscle? This is a fucking bodybuilding website, and while my primary focus is fat loss, gaining muscle is what got me into lifting in the first place.
If the coaches thought I wasn’t doing any work, they would have booted me out of the PC long ago, and I would have shipped back all my supplements.
You’re just another nameless face making criticisms without any advice about perhaps what has worked well for you, and maybe offering some helpful words of encouragement. I have a friend who for all I know might be dying, and I really don’t need your bullshit.
Has my transformation in this time period been close to that of Gus or Bartl? Fuck no, I’ll be the first one to admit that. But the premise of the PC is self improvement, making myself better, and not being wrapped up with someone else’s results. Gus and Bartl are two of the main people I communicate with via PM and they have offered me many words of encouragement during some of the hard times I’ve had recently, and I’ll always appreciate that.
I’m not sitting around looking for people to tell me I look shredded now, or that I’m going to be ready for my IFBB pro card in another two years. I’m just looking to reach the finish line of the PC, and to continue to make progress once it is completed.
Greg, I mean relaxed as in…relaxed. Not,“hey, I’m flexing my bodyparts like I’m in a comp being relaxed”. Just fucking stand there, stop shaving, changing positions, etc.
And yes, you should stop worrying about building muscle. You’ve built maybe 2 or 3 lbs of muscle in the last 5 months, so it’s that mentality of being big that had stopped your fat loss progress. You’re thinking about whether you got enough nutrients /calories to ensure muscle growth. If you didn’t worry about that, fat loss would be the only issue.
I see it with guys all the time. They get into this quasi-fat loss mode and the minute they look flat or small, they increase their food intake. When dieting, it’s about being anti-catabolic not anabolic.
If I’m nameless, then you’re faceless, pal. Funny enough, my handle is my name.
Advice: stop worrying about losing muscle. Face the fear of being under 200 lbs. You can build up later doing a clean bulk. You can be big again.
more advice: calories in vs. calories out. Sure, a calorie is not a calorie, but if you take more in than you expend during the day, you’re not going to lose weight, and depending on those calories, you may just stay at the same weight. It’s thermodynamics.
Helpful words of encouragement: be realistic. Grab that fat, realize it ain’t muscle. Stick your stomach out, see how the fat isn’t contributing to your bodybuilding goals. Lose it. Hunger doesn’t mean you’re losing muscle, it means that your fat is scared of leaving you. You’ve been friends for a long time, you took care of it by feeding it, and now it’s getting the boot.
You’re either the missing link or you ate too much to allow for fatloss to occur for months on end. Your progress is that of someone who didn’t do the work. You body wasn’t stubborn, your fat loss hadn’t stalled- you didn’t do the work. You know it and I know it. You made your bed tough guy, you’re gonna sleep in it.
I’m not comparing you to Chris or Gus. Those guys did what they did. You had a diet of, correct me if I’m wrong, 1900 calories at one point, low carbs, 2 cardio sessions, a fat burner, and weight training and it still wasn’t coming off? I would have gone to the doctor at that point.
I’ll go further than Shugs did: I know you didn’t stick to the diet. I know you ate extra food. I know you were hoping to come out of this with an extra 20 lbs of muscle and the fat would just come off.
I don’t like liars. I don’t appreciate people being deceptive, non descript, phoning it in, when they’ve been given an amazing opportunity.
I love this site and I have lots of respect for the people on it. I don’t like seeing people being taken for a ride.
And finally, out of respect for your friend, be a man. Don’t ever bring him into this again, you asshole. [/quote]
Well, Shugart told me to try to open up to people about what goes on in my personal life, so if I’m an asshole in your eyes for that, so be it.
I’m sorry we’re not on the same page and you think I’m lying to you, but I’ve been telling the truth the whole time, and certain diet and training protocols don’t work optimally for every single person across the board.
Parts of what you wrote, I was under the impression you were actually offering me sincere advice, and then the last few things you wrote, the complete opposite. It felt like you just wanted to take more shots at me, just for the sake of taking shots.
And for the record, my friends illness is NOT an excuse for periods of lack of progress during my PC. I’m sure a ton of people for whatever reason would have liked to have seen me pack it in about 8 weeks ago, but regardless, I’m ending this thing up on a good note. In a few days it’ll all be over, and I’ll be back to paying for my Biotest supplements just like everyone else.