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Thanks Idaho! Staying sharp has been tested CONSTANTLY with my car insurance. From top to bottom its become completely clear they have no intention of handling this competently. They intend to bully me to submission.

To start they had offered a settlement for my car. I accepted this, the day I sent in the paperwork hours later the police found my car. I informed the
insurance agents of this and they instantly reneged on my settlement. That’s part one. I had done EVERYTHING they told me to do including sending my title, other legal documents, and all copies of keys.

Part two. The found car was sent to a tow yard. It was undriveable- no gas- and I had no keys because they were mailed to my insurance. The claims guy went ahead and inspected it and deemed the damages were all cosmetic- IE a $150 detail cleaning was all that was needed. I asked him if he had started it, he said, well no I don’t have the keys. I said what if it doesn’t start??? He sied I can have it inspected then by a mechanic. He held firm in his appraisal though, insisting I had been lucky. He did say he noticed a new battery under the hood and made sure to tell me this.

It should be mentioned that to start this conversation with me he just HAD to comment on how strange my name is and wanted to joke with me about it.

Not very professional for talking to someone about the status of her only car, that had been stolen and missing for over 2 and half weeks and who had paid for comprehensive coverage on her 19 year old car for 11 years with the company he worked for because if it was stolen it would devastated her home financial status. Let’s joke with her first–about her name.

He then submitted this claim for damages, he took pictures of the inside and outside of the car. Without even starting the car.

While battling the first part of the problem they car was in the tow yard for 4 days. Day five comes and they ask me to get a place to tow it too. I give them the addres of where I wanted it towed. The tow company meanwhile calls my cell phone 4 times while I’m at work and unable to get the call.

They leave a voicemail. The tow company had been directed to pick ME up at an address I had no clue about thinking I needed emergency road side assistance and not a tow from a tow yard. The claims agent had arranged ALL of this. He had contacted the tow company.

I tell them no, its at a tow yard. They can’t find the tow yard!!! I’m at work on my cell phone looking it up for them on google maps!!! The claims agent should have told them the address!!! The tow company should have know where tow yards are in town!!!

Because of this mix up the drivers run out of time to tow the car, the tow yard was closed. So in my insurance eyes they keep this
“totally fine” perfectly driavable car from a customer another day–
its now been well over 3 weeks–because they can’t give the right directions to a tow company.

Also during this time when the tow guys are calling me at work, my insurance is calling me too. I missed 2 calls then answered one. The insurance agent was asking me to give direction to HER for my car’s tow yard!!! They all work at the same agency!! Why am I telling her where my car is!! She had been called by the tow company while they were looking for me on the side of the road thinking I was on the side of the road!

It was then re scheduled for tow for the next day- yesterday - at 1pm. My claims agent had directed me to text him about issues and I did. I texted him the whole time the tow company was confused about where my car was. he did not answer. Not unprofessional texts, but asking him to call the tow guys! I was at work!

He finally answered my texts yesterday asking if they picked up the car. I told him no, that I had contacted HIM about this and he probably needs to contact the tow company again over this. He texts back “ok I will”.

The car gets to where I wanted it- a residence and they unload it off the truck. The first thing my sister sees is the thieves had pulled out part of the fuses under the steering wheel! She opens the hood and checks the oil–NO OIL! It was dripping oil on the tow truck! She notices MANY things–just by looking at it!

My claims guy had eyes too but negledcted to see a bunch of messed up fused pull out??? Under the steering wheel?? The undercarriage was messed up too, they had driven over something and pulled part of the rear wheel. These were all seen before turning the keys in the car- which the car did not start. The fuses were blown.

The claims guy tried to close him claim! For finding what he say, $150 worth of detailing to clean the inside needing to be done.

I instantly call him. I get his voicemail saying he is out of the office today and friday–he texted me hours before this. I call him again. I call him again. He calls back and in a seriously aggressive voice says he’s received 3 calls from this number and who is it?!! This is the number he gave me to call!

He gets combative with me when I tell him about the condition of the car, starting it off by slaying he’s not in the office today. Why did he text me then? How am I supposed to know this unless I call him!? He tells me I need to call another agent who is handling this while he is out of the office. By this time its 3:45p. I call this other guy to arrange an inspection and of course get voicemail twice. And of course he doesn’t call back.

I’ve called him twice already today in business hours. No word back still. I plan on calling every 30 minutes. Its Friday and seeing how these chumps operate I bet they are going to push me off until closing hours today and then I’ll be stuck again in this limbo until Monday.

In the mean time the paperwork I had sent in was not returned to me with my keys. I called to ask why and they agent says he doesn’t know–I later realize it he was the one who sent the stuff back to me! I asked for it back and he replies they might not have it! These are documents that are important!!! He is the one who sent it!! And they just loose it???

In the mean time I’ve contacted the state regulatory agency over all of this. I’ve filed a complaint, I have an agent working with me on this. I’m keepig copiaus records.

This has been a big enough hassle for me but I KNOW that this company has done to others before who did not know to fight back --or where to overwhelmed and exhausted!-for what the services and insurance they have paid for.

Besides the completely railroading effect on someones’ life loosing a car, the guys you’ve paid for years to cover this are incompetent, or just flat out not doing their job. And using bullying tactics, aggressively changing tone whenever you try and push for what you paid for!

I’m not giving up. This is so stupid. At first it really over whelmed me and I felt powerless, now seeing all the fuck ups I’m just pissed. And I won’t roll over on this.

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Today
stepmill x 30 minutes

First, I am not a lawyer, so, any advice I give, take with a grain of salt.

Did you sign a settlement contract or document? if so, they are in violation of breach of contract and can be sued. They have no authority to renege on the settlement.

You cannot inspect any vehicle with starting the engine, that is asinine. If you have voice mails from this idiot, keep them and get them transcribed.

Make sure you record this, exactly as he said it. Totally unprofessional but we can use that later.

Again more ammo. Record this, especially the “perfectly fine” auto.

The vehicle was never inspected. Do not accept your car if there is a massive oil leak. Something is seriously blown, my guess: they blew the engine doing “fast and furious”.

He never inspected the car. No not take this car. A rear end problem is a bad as a blown engine.

More ammo for later.

Great move. Keep all records and voicemails.

Its time to get dirty. Make a call to both the regulatory agency and google up the president of what ever insurance company you are using, find his main office number. Call them both and state,

" I have done everything in a professional manner, but, your company and this agent are discriminating against me because I am a woman" "He has treated me in a condescending, aggressive, manner and made sure by both his actions and his demeanor, that I , *being a woman, am nothing but a second class citizen."

" I have paid your company premiums for 11 years, never knowing your company discriminated against women. I have already contacted the state regulatory office and my next step is to tell my story to the media."

" I have never felt so belittled in my life , starting with your company’s representative, mocking my name. You would never do this to a man. Doesn’t your company have any professional ethics on how you treat women? Do you actively, aggressively, discriminate against women?"

My 2 cents.

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What a nightmare! I would have already lost it! Hope you get this worked soon.

Thanks Chicken!! My god…its a question of endurance.

Thank you Idaho! Those a great points and think a lot like my family. LUCKY for me I have enlisted help from my family on site! My dad is a retired contracts specialist for an aerospace manufacturer and is ALLL over these chumps. He is speaking to them on my behalf-for each part of the continuing cascade of problems and has stated this do them that it is because they have been so aggressive to me I asked him too.

We’ve progressively gone up the food chain speakin with these chumps. So stupid.

So I get in touch with the claims agent who had been given my claim since my original claim agent was out the office. I did indeed call him every 30 minutes and didn’t reach him.

He finally calls back and explains to me that he isn’t the one who would organize the tow, ( agent who I spoke to yesterday TOLD ME when he was being pissy about not being in the office that this guy was who I called to arrange the tow!) and that I would have to contact the original claim agent I had reported my theft to need to get a tow!

This guy had no idea about my case which he admitted to me since he was just covering for the other guy and wasn’t even going to be at a computer to look it up all day!!! How was he ever going to be able to help me?

So we call the original claims guy who I have started this whole thing with and had my dad deal with since he is an asshole. He says No, the claims agent who I just talked to has to do the tow arranging!

Its midday Friday, these knuckleheads were passing the buck, being idiots, or waiting to get off for the weekend. Each time! My dad tells him what the fill-in claim guy had told me. So original asshole claim guy gets everyone on a three way call to hash it out. No one knows what they are doing!!!

While original asshole claim guy was speaking to my dad he stated to my dad that he was not going to send the documents I had signed back - a signed by me title transfer, a signed power of attorney! a signed statement proof of loss! a copy of my driver’s license, these were the idems I had put by his instructions in the original package with my keys and title that were not returned - because “they are Geico’s property”. What? If they don’t need them since the reneges the settlement WHY do they need them?

So now my dad starts speaking with more and more higher up people about the asshole claim guys statements. Finally when an agent heard about asshole saying he’s keeping the documents he goes “What?!! We will be sending those back to you.”

Asshole claim guy! He originally said when asked where the paperwork was that it might be gone ! Then he says he won’t seed it back because its their property! Then the guy above him is surprised and flumuched over everything!

Its a complete fuck up. From top to bottom.
My car did get a tow, and it is at the shop getting inspected- a dealership that knows exactly what they are doing. Or fuck, I hope so. I have no idea what they will find. I do know they will draw up an estimate and take it to my insurance and have the original claims guy --who stated my care only needed a detail clean- for approval.

It’ll be a month Sunday that my car was stolen. Thursday I found out my sister’s pet scan showed no cancer in her body. The day before that I had found out a coworker’s sister had succumbed to cancer.

A lady stopped me today at the gym and told me "You are stunning! A lady in the hot tub complimented me on flipping the stuffed animal like tires. A guy complimented my lifting - when I said thanks he told me I had earned it. Compliments for stuff I didn’t feel impressive about–that is nice!

Today
fs 45x5, 155x3, 185x3, 205x3, 225
mp’s 45x3, 55#x3, 65#x3, 70x 3
bb power clean’s 75# x 10 x 5 sets
power clean 95#, 115#, 125#
trap bar presses empty bar x 10, plus 10# x 10, plus 20# x 2 sets of 10
trap bar rows bar plus 20# x 10, plus 40# x 10, plus 50# x 10, plus 70# x 10, plus 90# x 10
trap bar carries bar plus 180# x distance of turf x 2 total of 3 trips
pushed the prowler type apparatus x 2 trips
flipped the stuffed animal tires (170# and 220#) x 2 trips each
db benching 37.5# x 10, 40’s x 3 sets of 10
db clean and press 15’s 5 x 10
some misc rear delt machine stuff
hot tub

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That is good news and a contact specialist is exactly what you need. I have dealt with insurance companies before, but, this reads like a bad movie script.

You deserve everything they said, In my opinion you are the hardest working woman on this site. My condolences to you coworker.

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Thanks Idaho!! I really appreciate it! Kinda a flash in a few perspectives- I’m dealing with stupid car stuff, but in the big view its just that. Stupid stuff. I’m not giving up on it yet there’s far more to be cheerful about then pissed in my life.

And its Monday, who know’s what’ll happen now??

Today
hook grip dead lifts 45x5, 155x5, 205x3, 225x3, 245x3, 265, 285–> pleased the grip wasn’t so bad but I figured i hit my limit
t bar dead lifts 77x5, 167x5, 257 x2, 307x5 x5 sets
ssb wlaking lunges bar plus 40# x 50 feet, 50# x 50’, 60# x50’, 70x50’ 50x 50’
sand bag carries 150# x 100 feet x 5 trips
car dead lift x10, plus 50# x 5 x 10
ghr’s 2 x 10

I gotta figure out how to fit in that car deadlift thing to training. There is just SO MUCH strongman stuff to try training!!! I supposed I could just pick one and do it for a few weeks then cycle others. HA HA! Its so much fun!!! I know its getting more and more popular but why isn’t everyone doing it!!!

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Today
fs 45x5, 155x3, 175x3, 195x3, 215x2
bb power cleans 65#x3, 85#x3, 100x3, 115# x 3
ss with pull ups 8, 4, 4, 4
trap bar press bar x10, bar plus 10# x 5 sets of 10
zerchers from safeties switching wide and narrow stance 95# x 10 a set each stance, 135# x 10 a set each stance
smith machine fs ( I’m going to pretend its a 45# bar because it doesn’t really matter the wt anyway but I can remember it easier doing it for keeping track) 95x10, 135x20, 185x15, 155x15
leg press x 1 minute x 2 sets
misc party glute machine x 2 sets of 10 per leg ( its a machine mimicking donkey kicks with wt added to it)

My leg strength has diminished but I’m not angsty over it. This means I can do some volume stuff , its been a while but I DO LIKE IT ALOT!!

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Awesome!

How long it takes you to do a routine like this?
Today
fs 45x5, 155x3, 185x3, 205x3, 225
mp’s 45x3, 55#x3, 65#x3, 70x 3
bb power clean’s 75# x 10 x 5 sets
power clean 95#, 115#, 125#
trap bar presses empty bar x 10, plus 10# x 10, plus 20# x 2 sets of 10
trap bar rows bar plus 20# x 10, plus 40# x 10, plus 50# x 10, plus 70# x 10, plus 90# x 10
trap bar carries bar plus 180# x distance of turf x 2 total of 3 trips
pushed the prowler type apparatus x 2 trips
flipped the stuffed animal tires (170# and 220#) x 2 trips each
db benching 37.5# x 10, 40’s x 3 sets of 10
db clean and press 15’s 5 x 10
some misc rear delt machine stuff

Amazing as usual

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Thanks trtoldman! Usually I’m in and out within 45 minutes. I go to lift when there is no one else there so that helps a ton.

Car insurance is continuing to be a massive pain in the ass. Today however because of an interaction between the original asshole claim guy, he got himself booted off my claim and it’s been reassigned. HE was that beligerant.

This is incredably frustrating. Each step I am being blocked, railroaded, or given the run around getting anything done. M car still sits in the mechanics WAITING for permission from x y it z to move forward.

I CANNOT express how slimey they are. Or totally incompatant.I’m consulting lawyer. It’s that bad.
UGGHHHHHH!!!

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I hate “insurance”.

Think about it: first, you have to be lucky enough to get past the unwillingness of the insurance company to pay anything that is not “by the book”; then, they try their best to steal the money back anyway by raising your rates, because…

There was a YouTuber who had to help a friend of his raise money for an operation for a brain tumor. His friend had “insurance”, but under the (comprehensive) health coverage he thought he had, the operation was “not covered”. We are talking a six figure operation. This dude got lucky, because a channel with millions of followers picked up on his cause, and the story was outrageous enough, that he actually got enough money (from what I understand) to help pay for the operation.

Your story is horrible, hang in there best you can. But unfortunately, I’m sure that it’s not all that uncommon.

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Punnyguy, I agree. From how adept these guys are at being intentionally obstructive and slimey they have to do this all day long. I know I’m not the first or the last. It’s disgusting.

I found out today not one but two members of the claims team ( original asshole and his SUPERVISOR ) admitted to uninlaterally taking the settlement “off the table.”. They explained that they did this above board by simply writing “void” on it in black pen. I should mention “void” was spelled “woid” on one piece of the contract then written over the w to make a v .

Injustice! I was so mad today my heart was racing. I do think my kindness – or openness-- can be mistaken for weakness by people with a low opinion of me. However they arrived at this low opinion I can only surmise at it being my tendency to be nice therefore being weak.

People’s opinions of you always show themselves. What you say to others matters.

It matters when you get in situations like I am in now and are down, or need help. The people who care about me will stand up for me and help. The others are danger and a liability who can and will put you down, can and will take everything away from you, can and will try and make you believe you some how are at fault for someone else’s actions and words. They will try and deny it ever happened and only fess up when you refuse to back down. They will deflect any responsibility for their own actions.

They will throw you under the bus, they will not have your back when you’ve done nothing wrong. They will disrespect you – after you forgave them !- in front of friends and family for the sake of a joke. Then they will try and deny it having any effect on you. They will deny saying it to start( they didn’t REALLY mean that…even though it’s exactly what they said). They will deny the relevancy of you feeling the effects of words they spoke. Until you refuse to back down. Maybe not even then. These are the people to swiftly kick out of your life.

How you treat others matters. Stuff you say matters. It should if who you are talking to means anything to you and you to them.

I’m sure these slimey insurance guys don’t lead the happiest of lives. They can’t if they have any conscience or they are far gone in delusion of what their boss’s tell them is fair. I can only image being involved in the medical insurance part where it’s not cars but people’s pain and suffering and actual lives on the line.

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Today
atlas stone loads 108# x 10, 150# sand bag load x 10, 167# stone x 10, 205# x 3!!! 167# x 7
timed rigshaw carry 220# x 5 minutes, total of about 900 feet with some drops
sandbag carry 150# x 100 feet x 2 trips, x 200 feet no stop
swiming
pushed the tank thing (prowler type device) x 4 trips low to higher wt

I’m so pleased I finally got the 205 loaded! Here’s a video

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Congratulations!

Thanks Chicken! I appreciate it!

Today
log clean and press 67#x5, 77# x 5, 82#x5
big log clean no idea wt x10, plus 5# x10, 10#x10, 20#x10, 25# x5, 40# x 3
empty log press x reps 67# x 10
t bar rows 77#x10, 97# x 10, 117# x10, 137#x10, 157# x 5
db bench 35"s x 3 sets fo 20
6 way shoulders with 5’s and 7.5#'s 5 x 10
car deadlift empty x 20
reverse hyper- not experienced on this at all so I tried 5 x10 misc at the most was 60#
triceps 5x10
hanging leg raises which I suck at 4 x7
oh yoke carry empty yoke x 50 feet x 4 trips
then oh yoke hold x about 45 seconds

I am feeling my need for ab work. My appetite has been on and off which is very abnormal for me. Typically eat not matta what even if I have no appetite this time its been harder. Stress over the car, stress over a break up. Its normal a normal reaction. Gotta ride it out.

The car situation has been a time consumer and once its resolved–whenever that will be- it’ll be back to me figuring out my goals. One for sure is get out of town for a vacation. Its been since 2010 since I left the state and its high time for a visit to my family in Los Angeles…as much as don’t like Los Angeles!

I need one vacation before I get back to settling down again. This single lady lifestyle doesn’t suit me. I like taking care of someone at my home.The next goal will be to find another companion- human or animal- to take care of and they take care of me. I’m a good partner to the right match dog or person, so here’s to seeing how I can make that happen again.

I bit the bullet and ordered a replacement lifting belt and some figure 8 straps to use for dead lifts with the double overhand/hook grip!

Lifting goals will be lifting for me. Not exhausting myself to stifle the angst inside me or pushing the limit because I feel I have no other outlet over internal turmoil, but enjoying being able to lift because its THAT COOL!

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It’s done! Car drama! They suddenly changed their position-- a free pretty headed conversations involved before this and Geico was notified the state regulatory agency AND seeing how trashed my car was–and my car was deemed a total loss. The original settlement suddenly was offered again, and that’s that. Phew!!!

In celebration I took my sandbag out for a spin!! I think it’s about 90# since it’s not all the way full. I went to the park and did a timed carry x 5 ish minutes. One or two repositions but and also a free drops.

3 mile walk in the nice weather
Stepmill x10 mins
Rope climb machine x 5 mins different degrees tension. I like this thing! It’s a triceps eater!!!
Glute party machines

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Yay! Finally! Glad you got that car stuff over with, and got to try out your new sandbag!

Just awful. Dang. Glad the car saga got sorted out.

About all the rest. Love to you.

@ visiting SoCal. If you’re down my way and have the time, please message me. Would love to get to train with you, Brute.

PUFF!!! Thanks for stopping by! And thank you for the love I hope to get a whirlwind visit to Cali- Long Beach area. Its a lot to take in. I haven’t lived there since 2002 and even then it was a shock, even a brief visit I forsee will be tiring. A different kinda culture which exhausts me!

Every time I get to the flight stuff online …I just stop! I just do NOT like that place- Southern California… If I can get a time when most of my family are at an event that’d be perfect. They all have kids so that might not be so hard once graduation season comes around.

Today
hook grip dl’s 45x5, 135x3, 185, 225, 265, 290, 310
t bar dl’s 167x5, 231x5, 297x5 x 5 sets
clean grip reverse alternating lunges 85# x 10 / leg x 2 set
zercher reverse alternating lunges 85# x 10/ leg x 3 sets
sand bag carry 150# x 200 feet, x 100 feet x 3 trips
pull downs 5x10
revere hyper figuring it out x10-20 with 40, 60, 80#

Felt great!!

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awesome!!