Ok, all you guys out there. I was just wondering what you find more attractive in a female. Would you be more likely to notice a athletically fit and attractive female, or an attractive, skinny female with little or no muscle?
i’m 5’5 or so -all i ever want is a short athletic girl-who keeps healthy and worksout
Aria Giovanni & Veronica Zemanova
Maude Flanders with a sex drive like Jenna Jameson.
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Amy fahdli over pam anderson any day of the year.
What sort of a response do you expect on this forum? This subject has been discussed many times in the short time I’ve been on this forum. It is pretty much unanimous toward the more muscular woman – has shape, not just thin. However, there’s a lot more involved in the “attractive” quality of a woman that just their build – eyes, self-esteem, carriage, skin tone, etc. I’ve found some very out-of-shape women very attractive, and some very in-shape women very unattractive.
A little muscle, but not too much. If her arms are bigger than mine, then no dice. I definitely prefer a girl with a little extra fat as opposed to one who is painfully skinny. Also, if her hygiene isn’t in order, forget it. But that’s just what catches my eye. Conversation and personality are MUSTS.
For me a girl’s face is the most important. This however, is closely followed by the need for her not to be fat. Though I do prefer a girl with some muscle over the one that is just plain skinny. I also prefer blondes. A girl does not have to be as pretty facially or have as good of a body if she is blonde. Why I don’t know? But that is just what I’m attracted to. One more thing, the best feature on a chick’s body to me, is her butt, I am definitely a butt man. Now you don’t have to have a great one but as long as it ain’t flat or fat I can live with it. But that anna falichi chick or whatever had a great ass, the one TC posted a few months ago in the atomic dog. That is almost perfect. In summation the face will win out over a body, provided she is not fat, anytime.
i prefer a girl with more muscle than the average girl but not noticable to the point where you look at her and say “damn, that is one muscular girl”. if a girl has some muscle on her i assume that she does some sort of weight training or sport other than just aerobics or the thigh master, which is more of a turn on. also, a fairly attractive girl can make up for any minor physical flaws by being more sexual. i’d take an average looking nympho over a hot girl that isn’t as sexual anyday.
Okay, this is going to be a long answer, but it will be detailed. I’ve dated some thin girls, and I’ve dated some girls with some meat on their bones. I’ve dated girls with small breasts (A-cup), and I’ve dated girls with large breasts (DD). Yet, I have never dated what I would consider my ideal. For me, an ideal girl would have some muscle on her. She would be built like a gymnast, soccer player or fitness babe. She doesn’t have to be super lean and have cuts like a bodybuilder, as I prefer the softer look. But it’s nice to see a girl who is strong and has some shape.
Like Steve, my first attraction to someone is in the face. I go for eyes and lips. And I’m more of an ass and leg guy, so that gets my next look. I could care less about breast size. I would actually prefer someone with average breasts (B or C-cup). I love shorter girls, but most of the girls I’ve dated have been my height or an inch or two taller.
But I have no problem dating a thin girl. Like Nic said, I'd rather have a girl with an average body and looks who is a nympho in bed. And there is something I've noticed about many "hot" girls. They think that because they are so hot, that they are automatically good in bed. This is not true. I've been with some average girls who have rocked my world. And I've been with some pretty girls who were on the boring side. So don't think that being "hot" makes you good in bed.
I also agree with Demo Dick about hygiene. Ladies, if you want to keep a man, make sure you are very clean down below and either trimmed neatly or completely shaven. Hey, I keep myself trimmed at all times, and I’m very clean. There is no reason for a woman not to do the same. Also, a nice little “strip” or a totally clean shaven girl is a hella turn on!
Now, I recently met someone who is more like my ideal. She has the pretty blue eyes and an awesome body. She is strong (can do bodyweight pullups), fit, and has some good muscle on her and low bodyfat (14%). I was quite impressed with her arms. They aren't big, but nice and muscular, the way they should be on a girl. And she is actually 4 or 5 inches taller than me. I'll have to let you know how things go.
As for hair color, I have always been more attracted to brunettes. But I have dated an equal number of blondes. The new girl is a blonde, and yes, I am quite attracted to her. Another great thing about her is that she is very affectionate! I love girls who are touchy feely. Because I am very touchy feely! So that is a good thing! 
If I remember a few other things, I’ll be sure to add them! Hope that helps you out Haley!
i hate skinny chicks. everyone considers me black(im not racist). i love women with big hips, a huge ass. muscular(a lil) is ok.
Amy Fahdli. The perfect body with the perfect face…perfect…oooooook, I have to go jerk off now…
You have all my respect in the world for being able to date a chick taller then you. I cant stand my height(5’5) if one more girl tells me i’m to short i’m going to go nuts-I have gentically broad shoulders which is good b/c i look taller from far but ahhh as soon as a girl is next to me i’m a fucking migit-so did a girl ever tell you, you were to short??
Strictly talking about physical characteristics (we all know that there are certain personality traits that can make any girl almost irresistably sexy), I prefer a vixen who does is obviously fit, but does not possess too much muscularity. The waif look ala Kate Moss is quite unactractive. My perfect female would be 5’7", flat stomach, extremely tight ass, nice c cup, brown or blonde hair and green eyes (pretty close to the description of my current girl, man what am I doing typing right now!) CYA
Actually, the last long-term, serious relationship that I was in, the girl was 2 inches taller. And we almost didn’t get together because I was shorter than her and she felt odd about dating someone shorter. Once she got to know me, the height thing was no longer an issue. But I have had others who have said that I was too short for them…but nothing recently. So it’s no big deal. I don’t usually try to approach taller women.
The one I met was a different situation. She came to the party we had on Friday night. She didn’t know anyone, I thought she was very attractive, so I spent the evening talking to her. We have many things in common, so my brother (who has class with her) sorta set things up for us to talk again. She came over on Sunday night to grill out. We talked more and have continued to do so. She’ll be coming with me this weekend to the wedding. So it’s all good. By the way, I’ve had a few friends who dated taller girls. And even though the girl thought it was awkward at first, it didn’t matter once they were together.
Fit. Visible muscularity. Those skinny, jiggly girls just don’t do it for me.
As for the outside appearance,I go with Steve. I don’t really dig athletic women so much, which is strange because I am a real pacient when it comes to my body. There is something in wider hips and behind that makes me crazy. J.Lo is a perfect example of my ideal woman. I can be pretty bossy person, yet I hate women whom I can boss around too much. She could be a Cindy freakin’ Crawford, but if she is “too easy to handle”, she might as well be a guy.
I like the swimmer’s build myself. Don’t care about hair color - though I’d like to try a blonde or a redhead someday, with medium sized breasts. My girlfriends have always been large breasted brunettes who were short. Poor me, I know.
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