morg, odds are you’re at home now. Where do you live? What type of girls are you interested in, or do you just want to work on your skills? I’m not interested in girls that aren’t mentally stimulating, so that knocks out many options for me. You may want to try malls, underground concerts, or parties. Get away from the computer. After you’re comfortable and have self confidence around the women who you are interested in, you may want to read about it. Don’t start with reading books about talking to people though, start with talking to people. You wouldn’t read every article on T-mag before you started training if you already knew what good form is, but reading them later and continuing training will help you even more. You may want to read about the psychology of smooth and NLP. Don’t be in such a hurry to lose your virginity. As SteelyEyes sorta implied, sex without connection and spirituality is not that great. I’d say it’s devoid of everything beneficial and sacred about it. Getting off is over-rated; I’ll back that up if enough people disagree with respect.
I can’t believe this thread is still up
Buy a cat dude, they are nice and stuff.
The meat is also very tender
Actually I implied that sex is just as good with that special girl even if you have sex with other girls first. Sex in a relationship is the very best but recreational sex isn’t terrible; in fact it can be very memorable in its own right.
I wouldn’t run a scam on a chick or try to reinvent who I am to get laid. Just try to be the best you that you can and unless you have a lingering odor of urine you can’t get rid of eventually someone will want to fuck you. The key is to socialize with the opposite sex (you know, if that’s your thing) in real life, face to face, not on the web.
damn…I can’t remember when I was a virgin, that was like 10 years ago. Wow, to think of all the chicks I’ve been with…it’s a wonder I just got my bloodwork back and I’m squeeky clean…lol. Thank goodness b/c there is a gorgeous naked 18 year old in my bed hahahahahah. Ah, but she’s my gf, so it’s all good. Hopefully she’s the Last of the Mohicans 
Steelyeyes
By “special girl” you mean the kind thats in a wheelchair and can only move the left part of her body, right?
Nope, the kind that mean more than just a good time for a four hours or a few dates. I think you knew that but the name Retard does kinda make me feel like a clarification may still be in order.
I’m thinking about something and your mama is involved, guess what it is!!?
Hey Nephorm did you actually try that double your dating? What does it tell you to do? Dress nice, smell nice and talk to women? Does it actually give useful information?
I haven’t bought the program, but I’ve read his newsletters. It’s actually some good advice, mostly showing how men cause women to NOT be attracted to them by their behavior… and what to do instead. Of course, any of these courses is going to tell you to be confident, but he actually follows through by showing what actions, etc. actually demonstrate confidence, and which ones make you come across as a wimp. Many people don’t realize how they come across.
Thanks Steele!
Billy
hey guys, there’s this cute girl in the supplement section at whole foods. i think i might be able to ask her some questions. whaddya think? it’s a start.
Cool. Ask her about two supplements and then ask her to have a latte with you. Make sure you brush your teeth after the tuna and mustard and before you talk to her, skip the onions entirely.
Go Morg!
I’m a little late posting to this thread, here’s a point:
Some guys have no control over whether or not they have sex.
My problem is just meeting women. I’ve been in Baltimore for more than 2 years now, and have met 2 girls that I could have possibly gone out with, but it didn’t work out. I also went out with someone I had met from an internet dating site, but I screwed everything up.
If you want to meet women you have to go where they are. I think one of the best places is at community colleges. Take a night class once in a while, something with paper, pencils, and books. Classes like auto repair or welding are to be avoided…unless you just want to learn to weld. If there’s a way to get into a class required for nursing I’d definitely look into that. I know a few female nurses and found them to be…well, more fun to go out with.
The way it works is the women won’t generally come looking for you so if you want to meet one it’s up to you to put yourself in a female rich environment.
Yup, that’s the problem - where are the women?
The taking a class idea is good, others have suggested that.
Another place I’ve heard of but have no experience with (I’m a heartless asshole) is volunteer work. I’ve seen quite a few women on the crew of habitat for humanity house projects. I’m sure there are more in other places as well.
I’m sorry I didn’t see this thread sooner. . .I haven’t been around the forum as much since I’ve been leaving the house more lately.
I’m not big on using the word “virgin”. . .I feel like it implies that people who haven’t had sex are totally alien and abnormal. . .like they’d give birth to the baby Jesus or something.
I usually avoid the topic because my sex life (or lack thereof) is just a small part of who I am. . .I’m not gonna let other people define me by it. But I don’t hide it or lie about it either: I haven’t had sex. And I’m 24.
It’s not like I haven’t had the opportunity. . .I’ve had a few girlfriends who I dated for a few months but they weren’t right for me and a dumped them. And since I’m not bad looking and can string together a coherent sentence, I’m sure that if I wanted to have sex with some party bimbo I could manage that too.
I think it’s kind of fucked up. . .most people, if they found out I haven’t had sex, would respect me less. But if I had sex with any of the women who have asked me to have sex with them, I would respect myself less. I’m man enough to care more about how I feel about myself than about what other people think about me.
Morg. . .just get out of the house more. . .try new things. . .if you don’t meet some women, at least you’ll improve your life in other ways by developing new interests. If going to rock concerts doesn’t work, try rap concerts or even the opera. . .nothing wrong with expanding your horizons. Take classes. Join a club. Read a book when you’re riding the bus or subway, and strike up a conversation with a chick who’s reading something you’ve read. I wouldn’t recommend advertising that you’re a virgin. . .you’re probably more attractive if you leave some parts of your life a mystery, at least until someone gets to know you deeply.
And to anyone who calls me a homo: that’s not true! Most homos I know have gotten way more pussy than I have!
so morg, have you made any progress these last couple of days? keep us updated, man.
Morg
The way I see it you have several options:
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Get a hooker
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Meet a nice girl.
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Meet a not so nice girl.
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Stay a virgin.
I’d assume from your posts that #4 is not an option.
You seem emotionally vunerable so I wouldn’t go for #1 or #3. Unless you think you can deal with losing you’re virginity in that way. If it is just a matter of losing your virginity i would say get a hooker. If you would feel cheapened then don’t, invariably you will always be ashamed of what you did.
#3 Meeting a not so nice girl could also leave you feeling emotionally hollow.
I would suggest then that the best course of action for yourself is to meet someone who is at a similar level of experience to yourself and won’t turn the whole experience into something you will regret.
That seems to be what you are doing so good luck and persist! It’ll happen for you.