Thanks to all those that said some nice things. I appreciate it.
And to those that don’t believe me…oh well. I don’t know why you think I would be dishonest.
morg, maybe you should have been playing with this when you were a child instead of GI Joes.
C’mon, your virginity is a gift? Fucking is an activity. You don’t wear pieces of either of you off. Is the 1000th time you shake somebody’s hand any less sincere or important than the first time you did it when you were five years old and your dad introduced you to someone?
The sex I had this morning with my wife was just as sincere and special as just about every other time. The first time was not the hottest sex on the planet but it was very damn special and neither of us were virgins, or married.
It’s not the fact that you’ve never touched another pussy that makes it a big deal (unless you really do something weird she’ll never forget) it’s the emotion, intent, and commitment behind that particular time.
Personally I’m glad I made all my rookie mistakes and blunders with women I don’t have to live with forever, but that’s just me. The way it worked out is that I have my wife fooled into thinking I’m a really great fuck. Oh, but wait, she’s fucked other guys before and can tell a good lay from a run of the mill one.
There is more than one way to look at virginity. I look at it as plain old inexperience like every other first time you did something.
But Steelyeyes, Making all those rookie mistakes with the same woman you’re with now is part of what makes intimacy. Not just carnal knowledge but sharing something funny and kinda embarassing when you where pretty much innocent. just my opinion, Bud.
Billy
in order to fuck them, you might have to talk to them…it’s that simple
it’s not that bad…just try iy
you CHOOSE to remain a virgin, because you have no “game.”
I could understand if you were waiting for spiritual reasosns, etc. Then I might have some respect for you.
But simply put, you let the fear of rejection control you, and for that you get no sympathy my man…
the other option is not talking to them and still fucking them…but then you would be a rapist.
Okay what did Colin say that was so bad?
I nut undreadstannd. I be stuppeed. Yeap reel deem. Aye fruckugakin strepad. Mee soo deemayest!!!
Seriously what did he say and explain…reeember mee rejaemeteetated!!!
Umm theeeks. 
do girls actually talk to you (beyond friends)? if not then try working on that first before addressing the whole virginity issue.
everyone has a hit/miss ratio… if yours is low then that just means you gott try more often than others. eventually you’ll find someone.
if you’re waiting for the perfect girl or something like that… then you’ll be waiting forever.
SteelyEyes, don’t you have a STD? Can you honestly say that is worth it over being a virgin?
Might as well go ahead and get it over with i waited for the right women and she wound up being a whore! Its hard to find a women that will deserve your virginity. Most probably wont do u either if u tell them u are, they dont want that on their heart.
I’m a virgin…well a foursome virgin.LOL!
i was a virgin once…thats right ONCE!!! and it was the best damn 100 bucks i ever spent…i mean she spent…
The problem is I don’t talk to any women. Ok, I’ll put it this way. I have two friends, and both are women, and both are taken. Those are the only people I talk to. Ok, and these are online friends. I’ve met both of them, but they’re online friends.
I need to join a club or something. I should look into something that I would have fun with. Any suggestions? I’m perfectly fine at talking to women when it’s just friendly stuff. But once it’s not friendship, I sorta freak. So I just need to put myself in a situation with something I like and where I would just be able to talk to women. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
morg you need to go out more man. i’m not trying to be an asshole but being anti-social isn’t very healthy. what about at work, at the gym, at school or even your neighbors. Just start talking to one of them. Move to ny i’ll bring you out, we can get sloppy and hit up some girls. ha. you have to make an effort. no girl is going to run to your hosue with her pants down and say slip it in, esp. if they dont even know who you are.
What about the gym? There’s always little hotties runnin around there. Where do you live?
Crap. I lift at home! I’ve lifted at only two gyms, but godamn, I couldn’t get anything done. Do you guys think that joining a gym would actually be worth it to meet some women?
Never been much for chatting at work, either. The one REALLY hot engineer comes to mind, but she’s married. There was another women in accounting that was cute, but again, married. Both of them weren’t very chatty, and since I’m not either, we never said much (I talked to both a little, though).
Just go after a pig to get your confidence up. Trust me, just like riding a moped:
Sure it’s fun, but just don’t let your friend’s see ya doing it.
SteelyEyes, don’t you have a STD? Can you honestly say that is worth it over being a virgin?
Hey! Who told? Had is the operative word. Yeah, I contracted an STD or two back in the 80s, so? Did I use condoms then? No. Would I now? Sure. HIV wasn’t even heard of then because only a few people had it and it hadn’t been identified yet. So the risk factors then were a bit less severe. So was it worth it?
Well, I got STDs from about 5% of the women I had sex with. The disease itself was a minor pain and was 100% curable. I’ve had food poisoning that was worse but I didn’t give up food. I shattered my left tib-fib skiing in 1988 but I still ski. I’ve broken the same toe twice and nearly had my nose removed from my face by equines of various types (horse, horse, mule) but I didn’t sell my ponies and retire to the sofa. So are you asking me if living is worth the cost of admission? Fuck yeah.
You can avoid risks if you want. Don’t ski, don’t ride motorcycles, forget surfing, scuba diving, rock climbing, hiking, riding horses, riding women, hang gliding, etc. That’s cool. You might not live longer but it sure will seem like you did.
Billyboy is awesome. I agree with him.
dude,
you really need to get out…the two people you talk to are online friends??
You need to “unplug” and get the fuck outside now. There are women everywhere…malls, grocery stores, etc.
You can’t meet new people sitting in your room all day.