DAN C: The only thing he’s got going for him is his tips on confidence. I think David DeAngelo is much better, in terms of not relying on deception and also in terms of giving somebody useful info they can use in just about any social situation. I really don’t think NLP or Eriksonian hypnosis is really useful in the real world anyway, unless you like people to look at you like you’ve got something crawling on the top of your head.
greekdawg: Many guys don’t naturally have the knack of talking to females such that they don’t come off as a) major dorks, or b) really great friend material.
I second Stella’s call. I lost it at 16 to the local community bicycle. Regretted it unitl the next time, when I was with a girlfriend who I was in love with, which I was determined to wait for and came 3 years after the first. Then of course I went to university and lived in residence so my ‘only those you love’ plan went all to hell after all-night drinking binges but what are you gonna do eh!!! It’s the thought that counts…
To put things in perspective;
Morg, you need to read the ladder theory.
If anyone else hasn’t, do yourself a service and check it out!
I guarantee you the way you look at the other sex will change forever after this site.
don’t you think he’s fucking with you guys? With all the other dickheaded comments on numerous other thread, do you really think he’d come out and say this?
This isn’t 100% on topic but touting virginity as laudable because you avoid STDs that way is like staying small and puny because you can get hurt lifting weights. Living has it’s risks. The more living you do the more risks you incur.
Wear a condom, wash your hands, wear your seatbelt, wear your helmet on your motorcycle but for crying out loud don’t sit at home playing with your dick in front of the TV because you might get hurt doing something else.
Right on Steely. I can respect someone’s choice to abstain if they want to wait for marriage. My grandparents both did and they’re happy 50 some years later. They got lucky though. I’ve dated girls that I became great friends with but they just didn’t do it for me physically, aka sexual incompatability. Just seems like good sex is a critical component of a healthy lasting relationship. It’s not everything, but it is important.
And what about the people who married their first love/highschool sweetheart who stray because they’re always wondering what else is out there? You’re not going to make a very good spouse if you’re constantly feeling like you need to sow your wild oats. I’ve seen it happen and it’s sad. Everyone’s different though I guess. People have different sexual appetites. Take Hugh Hefner, for example. I’d have to guess that he will die a happy man.
But something needs to be said about the person who holds out for one person and stays with that person forever. I’d love to marry a virgin. I just haven’t met one since high school.
Oh, and I don’t believe you either Morg.
why don’t you believe me? You’d think if i was gonna make shit up, I’d say something cool. I’ve never even kisses a girl.
It actually kinda hurts that people wouldn’t believe me. Like I’m such a loser that it’s beyond belief.
sniff
If you want to stay a virgin, thats cool, but apparently you aren’t too big of a fan of being a virgin…
You can do the “Stick-n-move” approach where you bullshit the ladies in a bar so heavily that eventually one of them goes home with you, which a lot of guys do and have some success.
You can be the sensitive, DMB listening, goona-try-to-be-your-friend-but-all-I-wanna-do-is-poke-ya kind of guy… I don’t know about you all, but I’m always annoyed by this type of dude.
I’m sure we all know the type.
You can be the “bad boy” or the “rebel,” but usually you’ll only bring home the girl who’s mad at daddy, or is so lacking in self confidence that clinging to you feels like the right thing to do. You might be able to nab the occasional freak who is just as bad if not worse than you, but if you aren’t truly a “bad boy” she’ll see right through that shit, probably before you even get any.
Or…
You can be a T-man,
In shape, confident but not a cocksucker, funny, articulate, opinionated yet not overbearing, proffesional in the workplace, crazy in the party-place, well read, decently dressed, and in posession of a silent integrity that tells a woman that you’re safe, and fun, and complex enough for her to brag about you to her friends the next day.
Thats what I think anyway…
B.
Brad: Wow, that’s a great definition of a T-man.
Merlin
I’M neck deep in the panzy shit you craped all over the place …what the hell is the mater with you people.
Half of you seem to be freakin religious fanatics “saving myself for the right girl i saw on dawson’s creek”!!!
BTW you can come over to my house and fuck my sister…
Hey Morg
Don’t worry about being a virgin.
There are plenty of female virgins too that do wait till they find the right guy. There (from my opinion only) seems to be more girls than guys that worry about finding that guy, that one love, that soul mate especially when they pass about 26 years old.
The thing is, girls like this are not so worried about loosing their virginity, they are more concerned about finding…well,…YOU!
Think more like a female. Don’t Worry about loosing you virginity. Think about finding her and you will discover her.
Talk to girls that you are attracted too, practice on ones you are not, get a routine so that the girls you like are in your life somehow every day, it will be easier. Shyness is hard to overcome, but women do like this innocence, especially the innocent ones!
Quality over quantity. Never have sex with someone just for the sake of getting laid. Make sure that you either, A. Really like/love that person, B. Find them so sexy that you really want to shag them or C. Both A and B(the best choice!!)
Is there anyont you have mind and are just too shy/ unsure to do anything?
Hey Retard,
The name fits!
'nuff said.
OK OK
I just realized that i was being a tad of a coldhearted sob… mea culpa
That being said you should really think about a hooker. Not one of those cheap street ones, more like the kinda that you order by phone and comes over to your house. The only thing different from a one nighter is that you’ll pay her, which, all things considered, is’nt that bad.
If you aren’t confortable with “sex profesionnals” you could also order a russian bride via internet. I hear they are great in the sack. It’ll cost ya tho, but fear not caus it ain’t prostitution at all!.. it is considered more like slavery.
Hope this helps ya
The Retard
Wow, I think the Retard has managed to shock just about everybody on this forum. Where do you think this shit up?
I had a terrible childhood
Hey Morg, Lemme tell ya something.
I am a very happily married man with an pretty cool sex life. I love my wife very much and she LUUUUVES me! One of the coolest things she ever gave me was her virginity. I was her first. It’s really cool to me becuase it was a one time thing, something she could only give once and to only one guy.
It means alot to me.
Problem is, I couldn’t give her mine back.
I gave mine to some bimbo when I was a kid. Didn’t mean nothin’ to her or me.
A wasted gift.
I would love to have been able to give my wife myself as a pure man, without another woman’s memory, but I can’t.
Don’t waste your gift.
In faith, Billy