Ended up just doing a back day (crushed some pullups though), so maybe I’ve totally fallen off the Dark Horse train - that would be like half a program completed, if so. Discipline, thy name is not TfP. We’ll see what attitude tomorrow brings.
Total arbitrary thoughts coming, so beware. I think like 3 people read this, though, and we all seem to be of a mind, so it’s probably safe.
Reading the other thread is kind of interesting with the way we debate these days. It’s a lot of “if it was your priority…”, which is probably true, but it’s the wrong question.
I get it. When I was 25, I intended to die overseas. Straight-up LT Dan style, and it didn’t bother me at all, but since that was my priority, I built my life differently. I was in incredible shape, I trained for that very specific goal all the time, but I had no thoughts of long-term health. I drank like a fish, lived on energy drinks, and probably found every long-haired diversion on every continent I could feasibly do so. My priority drove my actions.
Then I got married. Spending time with her, when I was home, became a priority - the other diversions, obviously, had to cease. But I still didn’t care about my health; I intended to be dead long before 40.
Then reality hit: sometimes you don’t get to die a hero, you just kinda limp off into the sunset. So now I have no purpose, and I get fat and sloppy and cranky.
But I had kids! Everything changes. They are absolutely my priority in life, and I work everything around them. I also learn to be a better person - it turns out I can spend time on me to be in shape and have a better attitude, even if my job doesn’t require me to run. On the other hand, I’m not going to spend so much time I don’t see them; things have to become a balance. I make many decisions this way - I’m fortunate enough to be able to choose to give up some money to spend more time at home, but not all the way on either end of the spectrum.
The important note here is the priority drives the activities, but I can still “want” other things: I want some challenge at work, and I want to drive strategies. I have goals in the gym, and I obviously still want to spend time with my wife. One day, I might even feel like making a friend. None of these things trumps my priority, which is my children, but they live together.
When I read the things like “if it’s a priority, you’ll make it happen,” it’s 100% true; the problem is the context. When we say something like that, we know full well what we’re really saying is “you won’t hit your goals because you aren’t committed.” When we’re talking about getting lean for an Internet challenge, we’ve got to put that into perspective: if that’s your priority over your family, you have something to fix (and it’s not your diet). In this case, we have to help balance our “wants” with our priority in a practical way.
On the other hand, if your priority is to be a Navy SEAL (or whatever we all think we’re doing nowadays) or an NFL draft pick and you’re running around with girls on the weekends or don’t feel like getting up early to run, now you’re a turd.
I don’t know what my whole point is, other than we seem to want black-and-white soundbites nowadays rather than applying our own thought process. I say this as a reformed 25-year-old who operated the exact same way.