Nate D Baby! You are so right…if we are the only ones this dude can talk to…then we might be being a bit unfair. However, as I stated, all my barbs come with some good advice, so I have no guilt…its kinda like if you discussed an issue with the guys in the locker room…don’t expect it to stay 100% serious!! All I can say to curious…after 31 years on this planet…is the RIGHT one will not have your guts in a knot about her past…the RIGHT one will find time to spend with you…not be “too busy” because she will want to be with you as much as you her. For myself and the Vixen…we have been together for many years now…and you know what…we still miss each other during the workday…and she still is the happiest woman in the world when I come home at night. When I travel on business…we end up on the phone til 2am (and after midnight…none of our conversation is better than “R” rated…lol!) and we still chase each other around the house. We never played those “too busy” games and never told each other what they wanted to hear…we were totally honest. In fact…it is because of that that I got serious into bodybuilding. Her first hubby was naturally well built…never touched a weight (Rat bastard…lol). For me…that could have lead to two things…insecurity…or a challenge. I told her early on that I wanted…when her girlfriends asked her…“who had the best body of the guys you dated or were married to”, That she said…BY FAR my husband now. It took about a year and a half to two years…but one day she said, “you know (her ex) doesn’t hold a candle to you physically anymore” Since then I have gotten even bigger…and she LOVES muscles. The most important thing to me was that she 100% UNDERSTOOD my issue and my ego…and she pushed me…and supported me…as opposed to saying…“oh honey…your just the best of EVERYTHING in EVERY department” and blowing smoke up my ass. And for me…that is were a lot of my respect for her comes from…because I know she will never tell me just what I want to hear…she will tell it to me like it is. Now I really didn’t want to get too much into my life here…but I have…all I am trying to say Curious is that when Ms. Right comes…you will know. I feel so sorry for so many married couples I know because they settled for OK instead of PERFECT. I was lucky…I found PERFECT (the second time around)…but all I am trying to say is don’t settle for OK bro. Nuff said!
Whopper/NateDogg - fellas, I gotta admit that I’ve been laughing my narrow arse off over this!!! Curious, don’t take it to heart man.
Oh, but guys, if Curious’ gal ever makes it to Australia, don’t bother following, she’ll have already fallen into a ‘temporary pleasure induced coma’ after I’ve had my evil way with her… [evil grin] Cheers fellas!
OK Curious…I have been thinking about this.and I think Nate, myself and the Vixen are actually HELPING you out here. Look, let us know where she lives, and let us go for it. If she resists all of our combined charms, then you know you can trust her…see…we are doing you a FAVOR…we are being NICE here…so give us the info bro, and out of the goodness of our hearts, we will do this for YOU bro!!! LOL!
Whopper, you are the man. You’re lucky to have what you do with your T-vixen. I think all of us want the same thing. But like you said, a lot of people will settle for something less than what they should. How you described things between you and the little lady is exactly what I hope to have one day. And I don’t mind waiting until I find that one person. I’ve had quite a few relationships, and each one has been better than the last. But I haven’t found the “right” one just yet. And I’m not in any hurry. I’m only 26, and I am actually enjoying being single. It has always seemed like I’ve always been in a relationship. And my friends pointed that out to me as well. I broke up with someone last April, and I was down for quite a while. But my life is great now! I’m so much happier with myself and everything going on. And just being able to meet new people and date whoever is great! But once I find the right one, I’ll be sure to hold on tight! 
Mark, way to keep the thread going bro!!! LOL! I’m glad you’ve enjoyed me and Whopper’s posts on this one. So you think Curious’ girl will be set if she pays you a visit in Australia??? Looks like we have some competition Whopper! LMAO!
Doggie dog…competition? Three of us versus one of him…naaa…don’t take it wrong Mark, but ya aint got a prayer…besides as I said in my earlier post…Nate and the two of us aren’t doing this for OURSELVES (of course not…lmao) we are doing this to assure curious…we are doing a fello T-bro a FAVOR (in fact we should be reimbursed our travel expenses…yea thats it…and our hotel room…yea…and our meals…thats the ticket!!) The things we do to help…sigh
Jeezus, will you guys end this fuckin thread already??
I dont know pu55y, I am having fun tearing up this post…but it is wearing a bit thin…first tho I must check with the doggie dog…yo bro…have we stuck a fork in this one considering Curious isn’t coming up with the goods after our GENEROUS offer??
Based upon another thread reguarding people being nasty (or the perception thereof) Whopper has decided to become kinder and gentler. Therefore and forthtowith, I reply, Dear Curious, I am deeply saddened my your overwhelming insecurity reguarding your significant others previous sexual partners. Perhaps this is a psycological manifestation of an earlier childhood incident in your life. As a fellow poster, I would like to extend my sympathies, and state that I am here to help you in your time of need. To determine if 8 is a large amount, you must look at the cultural norm in your area based upon her upbringing. It is possible that based upon the major life events that have shaped her psyche, eight is actually a low number based upon other females with the same upbringing and life events. After you have culturally profiled her, you must look at your own cultural upbringing and the events that have shaped your emotional needs for a potential partner to have fewer sexual encounters. Once you have looked at both factors, I would suggest both of you consulting a professional in the counseling arena to help you work thru these issues. I hope this has been of help to you, and I hope you are comforted by this post. Sincerely, the kinder and gentler Whopper.
PS I hope my previous “uncivilized posts” did not damage your id,ego or superego too much. It was simply my inner child reacting to previous negative events in my life. I will try to seek some counseling myself to resolve these issues.
to Whopper:
smack
Dearest Michelle, I am certain that your attempt at physical violence towards me was meant to incite a testosterone based response, resulting in me reverting back to my old ways. However, I am trying to change for the better here. In fact tonight, when the T-Vixen is dressed in her favorite silk teddy, and attempts to incite a sexual response from me by using those green eyes in a subliminal “come hither” manner, I intend on sitting her down and explaining that our frequent need to procreate is obviously based upon mutual psycological needs that could be more sutibly met by determining their root cause. Hopefully she will agree and we will have a delightful evening of sipping tea and discussing our underlying issues. One thing I have been very interested in noticing, is that since I have become kinder and gentler, in just a few hours my arms have atrophied almost two inches, my chest has shrunk, and my waistline has increased substantially. Obviously this is due to the self realization that my previous testosterone based behavior caused physiological changes which reflected my insecurity about my physical condition. Now that I am at inner peace, my body no longer feels the need to display such physical size, and is instead redirecting the nutrients I take in to more suitable areas, such as my brain. I truely hope all t-men can find this inner peace and harmony…all thanks to that post that made me address my inner issues. Michelle, I truely hope you find peace, and are in no way offended by my post. K.G. Whopper
Whopper, you’re too much. I think the smack was a kiss, rather than a slap ;-).
no…it was a smack…like with my hand grin
smack snap out of it man!
Whopper my man, you never cease to amaze me. You didn’t have to get all psychological on my ass! LMAO! Yes, I do think we have beaten this topic into the ground. What else could we possible add? Anyway, I think it’s time that we let this one fade into the black hole of the forum. And we can find other posts to add our wit, charm, advice, humor and personal opinions and objections to. How about that? As for Michelle smacking you around, that turned me on. Hey Michelle, since your man is away on business, can I come over and play? You can smack me anytime baby!
John a.t. hats off to ya man. Your the only one here that makes any sense. As a man, I would rather stay single my whole life than have some guys leftovers.
Lets look at this from a different perspective. Having “sex” is lustful, shallow and lacks any sort of redeeming value (well, maybe your T-levels will raise a notch). Making love is a completely different phenomenon. You really bond and unite with your partner. I mean, guys look at yourselves! When it comes to bodybuilding and health we forgo giving in to our lower desires… like eating candy and ice cream. We take the high road and eat food based on its nutritional value, not on how good it tastes. But what do we do whenever it comes to sex? We basically eat what tastes good alot of the time.We could care less about entering into loving relationships. Lets try to be a little more introspective and not give in to every whim.
I’m sorry, this post has been shut down. The last two views are narrow-minded and absolutely absurd. I’m surprised people really think this way. Okay, can we end this one now?
I think some of you need to seek professional counseling to deal with your self-esteem issues. “Banging” a lot of chicks doesn’t make you a man. Bragging to your friends about it doesn’t make you a man. Putting those same women down by callling them sluts, whores, or “unclean”, doesn’t make you a man.
Its funny how everyone wants to be a “T-man” yet very few seem to want to be a “man.” Unless a T-man is nothing more than a pumped up, immature, dick slinging man-child with a High School locker-room mentality. Since this is an exercise forum, I’m going to prescribe a routine to help a few of you out. First, reach between your legs and pull your head out of your ass. Since its been stuck there for so long you may need to do this several times a week for the next couple of years. This will help you stand up like a man and will allow normal blood flow to the brain, which will let you think like a man. Now, walk over to your woman and look at her and realize that she’s a person who’s had to deal with living in this fucked up world the best she could, just like you, asshole. Forgive yourself for your own mistakes. Forgive her for hers. Get on with your life. Be responsible, love and protect your family and those close to you, contribute to society, help those less fortunate. Now you’re on your way to being a man. This exercise program is difficult, as you can see by the lack of real men in our society, but stick with it, its worthwhile. The gains you make day-to-day may not be noticable, but in 10 years you’ll be much better off than if you hadn’t tried this program. Think I’m a castrated pussy? Better start praying now that when you have children, you don’t have any daughters. And that, if you do, that they don’t get involved with assholes like yourself. And if your not the kind of man you’d want your own daughter to find and marry, what kind of man are you?
Hell yeah, tell it like it is eag!
Man, you’re just asking for trouble. If you ask, then its gonna bother you. Most guys ask because they want that little virgin they can teach. But, lookout if she gives the wrong answer, like in your case. Hey, I slept with a different woman every weekend for an entire year (that’s 52)when I was 18 (I graduated at 17). It started out as a coincidence, then ended up being a combination of a dare and a challenge. I couldn’t tell you how many one night stands I have had over the last 23 years (I’m 41 now). But, a female was involved (hey, I don’t swing that way) and If she did it with me, she could have done it with someone else too. All that matters is, if you make a committment to that person to see only each other, then it stops. The good news is that if she is experienced, she might do things you never knew existed. Have fun. If it works out, it works out. If it doesn’t, there are more out there. Just don’t let it affect your mind. If it does, it doesn’t matter if it was one or 50. You’ll always wonder how you measure up to her previous.
Nate- I suppose Plato, Aristotle, Ghandi, Mohammed, Christ, Buddha, and Socrates are all narrow-minded. And what even is open-mindedness? A good guess might be not wanting to hear oter points of view, not wanting other thoughts to, say, dominate a particular post. Yes, open mindedness can only be achieved by shutting down a thread because it conflicts with your “open mind.” Move over 4,000 years of philosophy. Move over eternal wisdom. You’re no match for Nate Dogg.