Ive just started talking to this girl. Shes honestly the most beautiful thing ive ever seen. She won the miss Petite GA contest two years ago and competed in the miss international petite contest and made the top five. We have been talking a whole lot lately and i honestly didnt know where it was going. Shes coming here to cheer next year so i didnt want to come on too strong and make things weird for the next year. so weve just been hanging out and stuff over the past month or so. Weve hung out the past three weekends and last weekend she invited me to her graduation and the graduation parties. then on sunday we went to the Braves game. I ended up staying until kinda late on sunday night. Then yesterday i was talking to her online and she told me how her parents really liked me and how i was in “good shape”. Then she asked me to come back over yesterday. we ended up watching a movie and then when it was over i asked her if i could kiss her. She told me that i wasnt supposed to ask that i was supposed to just do it. so i said ok ill do it. and it was a pretty good kiss. Now im sitting here thinking what i should do next. This is where i usually screw it up. I havent talked to her today and was contemplating staying really busy today so i couldnt talk to her. That way she kinda has to wonder. What do yall think? What should be my next move?
Give her a call.
I think you did good on asking for the kiss, when I’ve asked for kisses usually I got silence or the same response as you, tho eventually it led to a kiss, sometimes more. As to what to do… dunno… good luck.
Call her. Be casual. On one hand, don’t act like a raging hard-on, but remember there’s a difference between acting cool and acting disinterested. If you kissed her and are obviously acting like you’re too busy, well gee wiz, maybe she’ll think that you’re acting like you’re too busy because you aren’t interested, then some other guy will strike when the iron is hot.
Hmmm…wait…nevermind, don’t call her at all. Where does she live?
I have no good advice to give. Just wanted to express my congratulations and envy.
WTF!? She obviously wants you dude! Are you waiting for her pussy to slap you in the face and say, ‘fuck me’?
Good God, this sounds like jr high! I seriously thought this was a jr high or high school post until I saw the sig. Goldie, you should know better. Is this the keeper? You did right by going to the 'rents. Just keep the contact (call her already!), and go on a few dates. Jeez, and I thought I was inept.
Flash her mother!
“Miss Petite”? What would that be, something like “pocket vagina” expression used where I live? 
Goldie, aren’t you in college? About to graduate? Geez, you sound like a high school kid who is all giddy b/c the pretty girl likes him. From your story, it is obvious that she likes you. Don’t ask for a kiss in the future. Most girls like a confident guy. Also, don’t play games. Don’t NOT call her just to see if she’ll call you. Stay busy, but make time to see her or go out with her. After another date or two you should get a good idea of how much she likes you and you like her. If you really like her, let her know. If she wants to play games, my opinion is that she is too imature to date. But remember one thing, she’s just coming out of high school and most girls tend to “explore” when first going to college. Good luck man and take it slow.
Hey, I’ll pass her a note for you in gym class… he he he. Okay, just having some fun. Seriously? - CALL her. Contact her. {{{pat on the butt}}} now, do it.
Get alone with her and fuck her. She is gagging for it. Next time if you want to kiss a chick just do it. If you feel you must ask, say ‘so when are you going to kiss me?’
You want a date with “Miss Petite”? Is that even legal in your state?
i agree w/ the previous replier. a girl definately likes a guy that is confident. she is expecting that from an older guy, i.e. a college man. you’re really never too old to get the gitters when you really dig a girl. i would not let the titles intimidate you. i have won several shows and nothing has changed. i still like the girls the way i always did before. the only differnce she’s won a title ot 2. if that gets in the way of her personality then do yourself the favor and save yourself a hell of alot of time and don’t even go there. remember she has made comments about your physique too…
“Ask” her if you can stick it in her pooper.
Good for you! I think it’s sweet when a guy asks before the first kiss. Plus, if that was her answer, you know she was totally dieing to kiss you too! grin Call her and ask her to go do something. Not ‘dinner and a movie’, go do something fun and hang out just like you have been. the added bonus now is you can hold hands and be all disgusting and cute. snicker
If you 'play hard to get' now, she may think you kissed her and decided you didn't like her. Go for it!
Gotta agree with brider and Machine. Goldie, you don’t “ask”. Just do what comes naturally. If she’s got an objection, she’ll let you know.
Now, in return for all of the good (well, maybe except for Avoids’) advice that’s been posted, I think you owe the Forum near-naked pictures of this chick. Don’t let us down.
All i can say is two in the pink and one in the stink.
I knew i would get flamed by some of you. And yeah she is a little younger than me. But she seems cool with that part. She sent me an email today that was pretty good. I havent talked to her yet but im sure i will later. Just about all of you are right in the things you said. My confidence is very low with girls because ive had some really bad relationships in the past. But this girl seems different than the rest so im really putting a lot of pressure on myself to do everything right. And Patricia if you could pass her a note that would be great! I would really appreciate it. hehe.
You didn’t attend her HIGH SCHOOL graduation did you? Don’t be a cradle robber.