If shes 18 its all good.
From my point of view it seems like she likes you. So go for it and ask her out.
ok, I couldn’t help myself, I looked up Miss Petite Georgia 1999, 2000, and 2001…if it’s any of those girls, you’re a lucky little bastard. OK, so you’re a lucky BIG bastard 
Unlike most of the guys here, I think it was totaly cool that you asked the girl to kiss her, and if they don’t think so, then they obviously didn’t read what you wrote about her reply. She sounds like a real sweetheart. May or may not be the love of your life, but just call her and continue with exactly how you’ve been. Obviously, if she didn’t like who you’ve been so far, she wouldn’t have said what she said or did what she did. Don’t try to pretend to be anything because you think it would be a better way to handle a girl than what you’ve done. You’ve shown interest, you’ve received interest…everything else is chemistry, biology, and maybe a little physics.
Of course, you realize that if this works out, even for a little while, I WILL vomit for about two straight weeks over the damned cute petite cheerleader/beauty queen meets big athlete male cheerleader love story…it’s like some shitty Freddy Prinze, jr. movie with muscles…
Oh, let me clarify…when some sniveling pre-pubescent weasel asks a girl if he can kiss her, it might seem pathetic. When a well-built, athlete, ‘jock’ type asks a girl if he can kiss her, it breaks expectation, and demonstrates a little bit of class in a world where such qualities are as rare and radiant as a maiden whom the angels named Lenore (sorry little literary side-track). I vote that it was a good move. Not necessarily any better or worse than a well timed unasked kiss, but certainly by NO means a bad move. Don’t ruin it by turning into a pseudo-bad boy who won’t call the next day.
Still doesn’t mean I won’t vomit if this crap works out.
Well Goldie, I think you’ve done just fine so far. She certainly sounds interested in you, and why wouldn’t she be? You sound like a great guy. You showed respect for her by asking for the kiss, and even though she wanted you to just go ahead without asking, I’m sure she appreciated the gesture. As for her interest, given her age–well, most high school girls dig university/college guys because the boys their own age are incredibly immature. Not all girls entering college want to experiment, either. Some are happy to be in committed relationships. I think you should call her and hang out together doing fun things. Keep doing what you’ve been doing, in other words, but add a little bit of intimacy because she obviously doesn’t mind that. Do not overwhelm her with a flood of affection all of a sudden, just keep up what you have been doing and you should be fine. Do show her you are interested in more than just being friends–hold hands, kiss her, now and then bring her a flower (just because), plan some surprise dates (girls just love that!). Good luck. I think this is so cute!
you mean those pictures?
www.bethanysalem.org/ MGMBP2001/AgeDivision4.htm
hmmm, lucky bastard indeed…
No, char-dog, I DON’T think it was a bad move to ask for the kiss. In fact, I think it was the PERFECT move. THE AGE OF CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD!
The question is what do you want to do with her? If you want a long term relationship with her then you have to be more of a challenge. Think about what you said “Now im sitting here thinking what i should do next. This is where i usually screw it up.” If you are consistently screwing up then you have to change your approach.
What you’ve done is let her have control of the relationship, you need to have control. I’m not saying be an asshole or violate your personal ideas of integrity, but what you need to do is raise her level of desire for you. You do this by making her want you, by being a challenge. So I say find a way to keep her guessing. If she is so hot, then she knows that she can have most any guy - she will be looking for someone to do something unique. You can differentiate yourself from all the other guys that have come and gone in her life if you make yourself a challenge.
Miss Petite Georgia, not Petite Miss Georgia…damned prevert
Find her best friend. Ask her if she likes you or likes you likes you. (jeez, this is like the freakin’ Wonder Years)
Yall are some funny bastards. I talked to her last night and things are going good. She is going to come down here this weekend and stay for a couple of days.
Goldie, I didn’t know you were a faig!
I bet he wouldnt call me a faig to my face. haha.
I’d call you Freddie Prinze, Jr. to your face…of course I’d be buying you a beer at the time…
I meant agree in that it sounded a lot like Jr. High or something. Agreed with Machine that asking for the kiss was a bad idea . . . although I have to admit that the point raised about it’s being different for a huge guy versus a small guy is a good one. Hmmm… Well, whatever. If it’s going well for you, Goldie, great. But we STILL WANT THOSE PICS! (Or a URL. We aren’t picky…)
I’d like to second char-dawg’s request.