[quote]Haldor wrote:
[quote] Everyone that is bigger and stronger than little guys who think they are “hard-gainers” (whatever the fuck that means) is apparently on steroids.
I mean for christ’s sake, I get asked if I am taking anything on a regular basis. I am normally about 215 without abs, and barely deadlift double bodyweight haha.
The truth is that the general public is pathetic, and that if you crack 3 plates on a bench for a few reps, or 4 plates for a few reps squatting/deadlifting, you’re on roids.[/quote]
This is truth. I remember the first time I saw a guy squat 5 plates and I thought he was on roids and he would always say how he’s not that strong. Now I understand how strong strong is and I’m not that strong either, 370-265-460 is ok, yet average gym rats in my school gym saw me grinding out my 390 defict deadlifts and they ask me what I’m taking and I’m like what do you mean, this is baby weight. One of the reasons I don’t go to my dank as university gym anymore, my gym has guys putting up some great numbers and it’s soooooo much better to train with dudes stronger than you. We’re kind of like a ghetto brotherhood now that we forged by giving each other spots and head nods as we walk by.
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Yeah, and all the assisted dudes I know still give me respect despite my average lifts. It really just comes down to how bad you want it and how far you are willing to go for what you want.
You can tell when someone is the real deal, and when they are just there to look at girls who wear yoga pants so that guys will look at them so they can act offended and feel good about themselves.
To the OP…If you haven’t hit a PR in a few months with your shitty hardgainer genetics, then aim to break some blood vessels in your eyes for a few weeks in a row and eat some pizza/chocolate milk. The rest will happen. Maybe not to the Dan Green/Ed Coan/Bill Kazmaier level, but SOMETHING will happen.
If you are so worried about your health, then go play call of duty or ride a bike or some other shit.
The truth is that we weren’t all meant to do this sport, and it doesn’t sound like you are willing to do what it takes and be accountable.