You Versus Someone Better Looking For A Girl

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[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
Don’t get it twisted, I’m not ugly by any means. I’m 6’3 215lb and have been with my fair share of women. I’ve never had to “try” with women, so when a better looking guy enters the fray I just naturally prefer to go to the next one where I don’t need to try as hard. Does that make sense?

However, I really like this girl. I really appreciate the replies so far. I think the tough love has motivated me to go for it. I’d say the only thing holding me back now is the fear of rejection. If I swing and miss I fear our entire friendship will collapse. Maybe I should just send subtle hints, judge her reactions and wait for her to move?

[/quote]

if you care about your friendship then I would strongly suggest that you avoid making any advances…

romance is the greatest way to destroy friendships[/quote]

For once I can agree
[/quote]
It definitely can, but it won’t always. It really depends. Friendships with latent infatuation only last so long though. It comes down to what dissolves first.[/quote]

I agree with this extrapolation.

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[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

perhaps… but Stephan128 agreed with me so I know it’s not just the girls I know…

the problem is systemic, not localized to my area[/quote]

Oh it definitely isn’t localized.

P.S. it is Stefan128*

Come on now. Haha

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
Don’t get it twisted, I’m not ugly by any means. I’m 6’3 215lb and have been with my fair share of women. I’ve never had to “try” with women, so when a better looking guy enters the fray I just naturally prefer to go to the next one where I don’t need to try as hard. Does that make sense?

However, I really like this girl. I really appreciate the replies so far. I think the tough love has motivated me to go for it. I’d say the only thing holding me back now is the fear of rejection. If I swing and miss I fear our entire friendship will collapse. Maybe I should just send subtle hints, judge her reactions and wait for her to move?

[/quote]

if you care about your friendship then I would strongly suggest that you avoid making any advances…

romance is the greatest way to destroy friendships[/quote]

For once I can agree
[/quote]
It definitely can, but it won’t always. It really depends. Friendships with latent infatuation only last so long though. It comes down to what dissolves first.[/quote]

I agree with this extrapolation. [/quote]
Yeah the foci is fixed around myself, but I’m certain it’s invariably true.

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Much like you get annoyed when people who don’t use or know nothing of steroids give advice Walkway, I get extremely annoyed when people who don’t use or know anything about pussy give advice on how to get it so sit this one out please.

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

you seem to not understand…

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[quote]Waittz wrote:
Much like you get annoyed when people who don’t use or know nothing of steroids give advice Walkway, I get extremely annoyed when people who don’t use or know anything about pussy give advice on how to get it so sit this one out please. [/quote]

i know far too much about pussy… that’s the problem.

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[quote]Waittz wrote:
Much like you get annoyed when people who don’t use or know nothing of steroids give advice Walkway, I get extremely annoyed when people who don’t use or know anything about pussy give advice on how to get it so sit this one out please. [/quote]
You think he’s standing?

I don’t disagree with your point though.

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

There’s the issue, all these guys that do what was mentioned before always get all the “ass.” The nice guy is too nice and is only seen as a friend. I have heard most people on this board say be in a way controlling and dominant. But if you aren’t those things you’re beta and will not get women.

Right now at age 21 I am not looking to sleep around but rather find my wife. I want to get to know the person first. Obviously if I see a sexy ass woman, in my head I am like damn, I would tear that up, but I am more into their personality. I do not want to be a man whore and I feel like at my age women aren’t also looking for their future husband, more of having a good time.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

you seem to not understand…[/quote]
I think the fundamental difference between your and Ryan’s viewpoints is the concept of wiring. Yep seems that way.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:
Much like you get annoyed when people who don’t use or know nothing of steroids give advice Walkway, I get extremely annoyed when people who don’t use or know anything about pussy give advice on how to get it so sit this one out please. [/quote]

i know far too much about pussy… that’s the problem.[/quote]

Did you learn it from a textbook?

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[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Claudan wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:
Can’t help, I’m always the other guy.

Make more money then him, it’s your only hope seeing how you have no confidence. A Porsche can fix that. [/quote]

You are in la-la land and you pick a PORSCHE? Don’t get me wrong, the car is beautiful and I admire it, but every porsche I see is driven by exactly the type of people who are 100% see-through in their choices.

I’m old as fuck, fucked up hairline and wrinkles, lemme get a Porsche because “it can fix that”.

m3 is where it’s at(if we are talking less than… you know 80k cars). [/quote]

Because I drive a Porsche. I’m under 30 and have a full head of hair so fuck your assumptions.[/quote]

Waittz I don’t really keep tabs on the cliques and shit around here or what else you’re involved with, but between the skinny jeans thread and this one you’ve given some great advice that has also cracked me up. Keep doing you man.

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[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

There’s the issue, all these guys that do what was mentioned before always get all the “ass.” The nice guy is too nice and is only seen as a friend. I have heard most people on this board say be in a way controlling and dominant. But if you aren’t those things you’re beta and will not get women.

Right now at age 21 I am not looking to sleep around but rather find my wife. I want to get to know the person first. Obviously if I see a sexy ass woman, in my head I am like damn, I would tear that up, but I am more into their personality. I do not want to be a man whore and I feel like at my age women aren’t also looking for their future husband, more of having a good time. [/quote]

That’s how I was/still and honesty I have no problem with women and have never had a “loser” portraying those qualities steal a woman from me or anything like that. Never had a problem getting to know someone before and during dating.

Don’t come out and say you are looking for prospective wife that might be freaky right away :slight_smile:

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[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:
Much like you get annoyed when people who don’t use or know nothing of steroids give advice Walkway, I get extremely annoyed when people who don’t use or know anything about pussy give advice on how to get it so sit this one out please. [/quote]

i know far too much about pussy… that’s the problem.[/quote]

Did you learn it from a textbook? [/quote]

Lolzy

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[quote]Nards wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
Just ask her out.

[/quote]

Oh man what’s with bringing in the simple, logical stuff? You trying to kill this thread early with sound advice??[/quote]

Oops, sorry.

Obviously I’m doing it wrong.

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[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Nards wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
Just ask her out.

[/quote]

Oh man what’s with bringing in the simple, logical stuff? You trying to kill this thread early with sound advice??[/quote]

Oops, sorry.

Obviously I’m doing it wrong.[/quote]
Yeah man. All those little nibblets you have running around and that women in your kitchen are clear markers of your failures with women.

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

There’s the issue, all these guys that do what was mentioned before always get all the “ass.” The nice guy is too nice and is only seen as a friend. I have heard most people on this board say be in a way controlling and dominant. But if you aren’t those things you’re beta and will not get women.

Right now at age 21 I am not looking to sleep around but rather find my wife. I want to get to know the person first. Obviously if I see a sexy ass woman, in my head I am like damn, I would tear that up, but I am more into their personality. I do not want to be a man whore and I feel like at my age women aren’t also looking for their future husband, more of having a good time. [/quote]

That’s how I was/still and honesty I have no problem with women and have never had a “loser” portraying those qualities steal a woman from me or anything like that. Never had a problem getting to know someone before and during dating.

Don’t come out and say you are looking for prospective wife that might be freaky right away :slight_smile:
[/quote]

Haha, oh I know that. I am just stating that college girls for the majority are super slutty and that in a way is accepted or seems to be. For that reason I do not even bother with the whole thing.

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[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
Part of the reason for me starting up this thread was because I thought many guys here have been in similar situations where they’ve had to compete for a girl’s affection. It would be interesting to hear some stories instead of pages of anecdotes (which have definitely helped me start changing my belief system).[/quote]

Being infatuated with a girl you are “just friends” with, leads to the threaded status of a Beta orbiter.

A cuddle bitch.

An emotional tampon.

A friendzoned zombie that becomes part of her little social army.

Plus, looking good means shit.

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[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

There’s the issue, all these guys that do what was mentioned before always get all the “ass.” The nice guy is too nice and is only seen as a friend. I have heard most people on this board say be in a way controlling and dominant. But if you aren’t those things you’re beta and will not get women.

Right now at age 21 I am not looking to sleep around but rather find my wife. I want to get to know the person first. Obviously if I see a sexy ass woman, in my head I am like damn, I would tear that up, but I am more into their personality. I do not want to be a man whore and I feel like at my age women aren’t also looking for their future husband, more of having a good time. [/quote]

That’s how I was/still and honesty I have no problem with women and have never had a “loser” portraying those qualities steal a woman from me or anything like that. Never had a problem getting to know someone before and during dating.

Don’t come out and say you are looking for prospective wife that might be freaky right away :slight_smile:
[/quote]

Haha, oh I know that. I am just stating that college girls for the majority are super slutty and that in a way is accepted or seems to be. For that reason I do not even bother with the whole thing. [/quote]

The majority in some circles are and the majority in others aren’t. I think almost half of my current med school class is married or had a long term relationship so they weren’t being slutty…or maybe they were as walkaway I am sure will say. So I think you can find a solid woman in undergrad. But I do agree they can be or at least seem a bit slutty but there can be lots of that after undergrad as well.

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]anonym wrote:
I don’t care what anyone in this thread says, you should try and do the whole “good looking” thing ASAP.

Makes life just so much easier.[/quote]

this, however, since we are talking about attracting women in this thread… my advice to OP would be to do the following:

-quit your job
-drop out of school
-drink heavily and do drugs
-treat females like shit… be blunt and brutal. call them “bitches, whores, c*nts” etc. be very controlling and demeaning… consider physical abuse
-consider contracting std’s, they give you an element of “uniqueness”

you will have more pussy than you will know what to do with. [/quote]

Hahaha, even though he catches shit for this it is so true of women around my age group. I am 21 btw. Now when women reach the ages of like 25 or so, this probably changes.[/quote]

Seems like you need to elevate the women you hang around if that’s what they are into
[/quote]

Haha, I never said I hang around them. I just know of people from my old high school and the college I am currently attending that date these “losers.”[/quote]

Time to introduce em to a winner then [/quote]

There’s the issue, all these guys that do what was mentioned before always get all the “ass.” The nice guy is too nice and is only seen as a friend. I have heard most people on this board say be in a way controlling and dominant. But if you aren’t those things you’re beta and will not get women.

Right now at age 21 I am not looking to sleep around but rather find my wife. I want to get to know the person first. Obviously if I see a sexy ass woman, in my head I am like damn, I would tear that up, but I am more into their personality. I do not want to be a man whore and I feel like at my age women aren’t also looking for their future husband, more of having a good time. [/quote]

That’s how I was/still and honesty I have no problem with women and have never had a “loser” portraying those qualities steal a woman from me or anything like that. Never had a problem getting to know someone before and during dating.

Don’t come out and say you are looking for prospective wife that might be freaky right away :slight_smile:
[/quote]

Haha, oh I know that. I am just stating that college girls for the majority are super slutty and that in a way is accepted or seems to be. For that reason I do not even bother with the whole thing. [/quote]

The majority in some circles are and the majority in others aren’t. I think almost half of my current med school class is married or had a long term relationship so they weren’t being slutty…or maybe they were as walkaway I am sure will say. So I think you can find a solid woman in undergrad. But I do agree they can be or at least seem a bit slutty but there can be lots of that after undergrad as well.
[/quote]

And that bothers me… Cause I am religious and I have no problem with waiting till marriage to have sex… I know this has been discussed before but what do you guys think about the sexual past of a girl you start to date? Does that have any bearing on the relationship? I have a feeling it would bother me but I don’t know.