Woman Beaters=Cowards

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[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
Vermont? Reading Comprehension Fail
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This will be my last response to you on this subject. Because if you honestly think that I am a coward because I wouldn’t hit a woman, I just don’t know what to say to you. You are a lost cause.

Vermont came from the name VTballa34. I apologize to the good people of Vermont for including you in their citizenship.

I called you a kid, because it is pretty obvious that you have zero idea how to act like an adult male, let alone a man.

No, I would not hit a woman. No I would not stand there and let her beat on me.

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[quote]anonym wrote:
Lonnie123 wrote:
When did anyone ever say they would sit there and let a woman beat on them? I think they have all said they would night HIT a woman. In my opinion, you use the minimal amount of force necessary for the specific situation… Whatever that happens to be.

If a woman is coming at you with a knife with intent to kill you, I dont know how many of these people that would NEVER hit a woman would really live up to that. Probably a rare situation, but im sure it happens.

If your girlfriend is throwing a hissy fit and slaps you in the arm, go ahead and brush that one off…

Seriously. If a chick is coming at me with a screwdriver, you better believe I’ll be too busy worrying about not getting stabbed to think “shit, I’m not a man if I actually hit her!”

I would lay the bitch out. With a blunt object if one is handy. But I wouldn’t sit there raining fists on her face just for the hell of it. I would do exactly what I feel I need to do to in order to resolve the situation while minimizing the risk to myself.

If my girlfriend is slapping my chest because she is having a tantrum about me leaving the toilet seat up… yeah, I’m a big boy. I can deal with that without resorting to violence. But once my health and well-being is actually in serious jeopardy… I don’t care WHO is on the other side - they’ve lost their right to my being ‘chivalrous’.[/quote]

Agreed, life and death situations are different.

I doubt there are very many women out there who are going to kill you with one punch, there are some, but I doubt I would date them.

How could you have sex with a chick that scares you?

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[quote]countingbeans wrote:

Shut the fuck up. lol… Maturity, sweet.

I do understand your point of view, i just don’t agree with it.
YOU are the one who doesn’t comprehend my point of view.

You’re point of view is it is okay to beat a woman if she hits you first. What don’t I comprehend again? [/quote]

You apparently don’t comprehend the English language.
“Your” not “you’re”. If you want to pretend to be mature and all high and mighty, at least use proper grammar and syntax. If you don’t, well i just might not take you seriously.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
If the fact I refuse to violently attack a woman means I’m on a high horse, so be it.

No, hitting a woman makes you a child. Reacting in a non-violent manor makes you a man. You have it confused.[/quote]

I didn’t say you had to attack her. I am talking about defense.
Where did this rule come up that if someone attacks you, that it’s OK? I treat ladies like ladies. If they act like animals, I am going to treat them like one. Just cause someone has a pair of tits and a vagina doesn’t mean they can do whatever the fuck they want.
Why is that so difficult for you to understand?

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Who have I lost creditability with? Those of you who think hitting a woman is acceptable behavior? That is fine with me. You fuckers can hate me all you want.[/quote]
With me? Wasn’t that obvious?

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What if she’s into BDSM and that’s what she likes and WANTS you to do? :slight_smile:

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[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:

You apparently don’t comprehend the English language.
“Your” not “you’re”. If you want to pretend to be mature and all high and mighty, at least use proper grammar and syntax. If you don’t, well i just might not take you seriously.[/quote]

LOL! Your ability to form a paragraph or a coherent post leaves something to be desired. You may want to refrain from pointing out the fucking grammar errors of others.

And normally that means your argument is fucked anyway if you have to resort to it.

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I didn’t say you had to attack her. I am talking about defense.
Where did this rule come up that if someone attacks you, that it’s OK? I treat ladies like ladies. If they act like animals, I am going to treat them like one. Just cause someone has a pair of tits and a vagina doesn’t mean they can do whatever the fuck they want.
Why is that so difficult for you to understand? [/quote]

I would imagine you are strong enough to restrain a woman correct?

That is what I’m saying dude. I’m pretty sure we aren’t as far apart on this as it seems. Some crazy bitch is punching you, by all means hold her down until she calms down. Shit, sit on her and drop a protein fart in her eye for all I care, but don’t hit her back. You can handle the situation without beating her.

And again, for the 3rd time, if it is life or death it is a whole different story. But a closed fist punch or a slap is not life or death.

(This whole conversation makes me thankful I have successfully avoid crazy people in my relationships.)

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With me? Wasn’t that obvious?[/quote]

lol, and I’m not laughing at you in a “fuck you” way. It made me laugh in a “that is actually humorous way.”

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[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Annihilator wrote:
countingbeans wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:

I do have respect for myself. I don’t know about that

I don’t give a fuck who you are. You try to target my nuts, i am going to lay you out.
It’s called not letting people walk over you. OH SHE’S A WOMAN SO IT’S OK FOR HER TO INFLICT BODILY HARM ON ME.
Cause being a man means allowing crazy bitches to do whatever the fuck they want, right?
There is never a reason for anyone to hit you. If they cannot have a civilized conversation, i don’t see why i should have to. Then you are a child. I assume you are roughly 16-22 years old? I can’t even continue to communicate with you about this at your maturity level. You can’t comprehend my point of view.

I never said her hitting you was okay or excusable, I said a male that hits back is a boy and a child, not a man. A man does not retaliate against a weaker foe with violence just because he is attacked first.

Then what can you do when some crazy bitch assaults you? You can’t defend yourself, the cops will laugh at you, so the only thing possible to do is just letting her to attack you? You can’t always talk your way out, rationnally at least. You still can run away, but when some bitch can rightfully leave you with the only option of getting the fuck out whenever she pleases, there is a problem.

Saying that woman should not meet the consequences of attacking someone is like saying that they are too dumb to understand what they are doing, therefore shouldn’t be held responsible for their actions, just like someone with schizophrenic disorders. I believe that this is bullshit, and even feminists would agree.

Of course I’m not trying to spread misogyny here, most women aren’t crazy bitches, it’s just that we are left with no solution to solve these kinds of issues.

Not dating nut cases would be the first step in preventing this situation from occurring.

I would imagine most men could restrain a woman without beating her.[/quote]

Of course there’s a difference between beating up and restraining someone, but even restraining could get you problems.

About not dating nut case, it is true, but it’s not the point. If you’re in that situation, what do you do? It’s like answering “how survive to a bear attack” by saying “don’t go in the woods”

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i slapped my mom once and she deserved it

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My friend is friends with a girl who had a boyfriend with brain damage from an accident. She got mad at him and punched him in the head and put him in a coma. Just thought I’d share that.

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[quote]belligerent wrote:
i slapped my mom once and she deserved it[/quote]

I kicked my dad’s ass once just because there was too much testosterone in one room.

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[quote]Sosruko wrote:
Hes now blind in one eye and partially sighted in the other, I cant make my mind up whether i would get involved does that make me a coward?[/quote]

Sorry but yes it does. Being brave is doing what’s right when looking into the face of fear.

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[quote]Annihilator wrote:

Of course there’s a difference between beating up and restraining someone, but even restraining could get you problems.[/quote]

Yeah. the situation fucking blows dude, no doubt. But at least you’d be able to look yourself in the eye when you are 60 knowing that you held her down, not punched her square in the nose.

It’s not like we are talking about getting a sugar cone v. getting a waffle cone with your icecream here, lol. Yeah it sucks. You hold the bitch down until she calms down. Then you promptly pack your shit and leave. And never, ever be alone with her again.

The fact is though, I’ve always talked to anyone I’ve dated extensively about our relationship, and if it ever got to this point. And we have always treated each other with enough respect when things were good to not get to the point where physical violence was even a thought when things were bad.

Communication is how you weed out the nutcases…

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[quote]countingbeans wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:

You apparently don’t comprehend the English language.
“Your” not “you’re”. If you want to pretend to be mature and all high and mighty, at least use proper grammar and syntax. If you don’t, well i just might not take you seriously.

LOL! Your ability to form a paragraph or a coherent post leaves something to be desired. You may want to refrain from pointing out the fucking grammar errors of others.

And normally that means your argument is fucked anyway if you have to resort to it.

I didn’t say you had to attack her. I am talking about defense.
Where did this rule come up that if someone attacks you, that it’s OK? I treat ladies like ladies. If they act like animals, I am going to treat them like one. Just cause someone has a pair of tits and a vagina doesn’t mean they can do whatever the fuck they want.
Why is that so difficult for you to understand?

I would imagine you are strong enough to restrain a woman correct?

That is what I’m saying dude. I’m pretty sure we aren’t as far apart on this as it seems. Some crazy bitch is punching you, by all means hold her down until she calms down. Shit, sit on her and drop a protein fart in her eye for all I care, but don’t hit her back. You can handle the situation without beating her.

And again, for the 3rd time, if it is life or death it is a whole different story. But a closed fist punch or a slap is not life or death.

(This whole conversation makes me thankful I have successfully avoid crazy people in my relationships.)
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There is nothing wrong with the way i form my sentences.

We’re talking about justifying women ass-kicking. Obviously restraining is the ideal solution but that’s not really the topic at hand.

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[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Annihilator wrote:

Of course there’s a difference between beating up and restraining someone, but even restraining could get you problems.

Yeah. the situation fucking blows dude, no doubt. But at least you’d be able to look yourself in the eye when you are 60 knowing that you held her down, not punched her square in the nose.

About not dating nut case, it is true, but it’s not the point. If you’re in that situation, what do you do? It’s like answering “how survive to a bear attack” by saying “don’t go in the woods”

It’s not like we are talking about getting a sugar cone v. getting a waffle cone with your icecream here, lol. Yeah it sucks. You hold the bitch down until she calms down. Then you promptly pack your shit and leave. And never, ever be alone with her again.

The fact is though, I’ve always talked to anyone I’ve dated extensively about our relationship, and if it ever got to this point. And we have always treated each other with enough respect when things were good to not get to the point where physical violence was even a thought when things were bad.

Communication is how you weed out the nutcases…[/quote]

Yeah, you can deal with this with a lot of precautions, but I think that it shouldn’t be that way. We have to be in control, planify our relationships and figure everything out, avoid some people, use good communication and use limited and calculated force because our society sets double standards won’t do its job when it comes down to violence perpetrated by women.

In those cases, not only do we have to face a crazy bitch, but the cops and the whole judicial system are on her side.

That’s where the major problem is.

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yeah a guy who hits his girlfriend for any reason other preventing her from doing some real physical damage to him is a faggot and a pussy.

and a woman who will stay with a physically abusive guy is damaged goods.

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[quote]Annihilator wrote:

In those cases, not only do we have to face a crazy bitch, but the cops and the whole judicial system are on her side.

That’s where the major problem is.[/quote]

I don’t disagree with that at all… BUT I don’t see how physically beating on someone weaker than you, even if provoked is going to help the situation. Nor do I think pushing to have that be socially acceptable is a quality move either.

It is one of those double standards that we just have to work around.

Shit girls bleed for 5 days a month, and my biggest pain in the ass is shaving my face. I’ll take dealing with crazy bitches over bleeding every month anyday.

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[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:

We’re talking about justifying women ass-kicking. [/quote]

Right, and I’m saying outside of your life in danger, it is never justified.

[quote]Obviously restraining is the ideal solution but that’s not really the topic at hand.

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Sort of, because again outside of your life being in danger it is the only course of action that you should take IMO. Beating up a woman is not justifiable outside if she is going to kill you, or it is some kinky sex game :wink:

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[quote]Davinci.v2 wrote:
Sosruko wrote:
Hes now blind in one eye and partially sighted in the other, I cant make my mind up whether i would get involved does that make me a coward?

Sorry but yes it does. Being brave is doing what’s right when looking into the face of fear.[/quote]

If you think stopping a woman from taking a few hits is OK while you go blind in the process, then you are, without doubt, the dumbest fucking guy in this thread.

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[quote]countingbeans wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:

We’re talking about justifying women ass-kicking.

Right, and I’m saying outside of your life in danger, it is never justified.

Obviously restraining is the ideal solution but that’s not really the topic at hand.

Sort of, because again outside of your life being in danger it is the only course of action that you should take IMO. Beating up a woman is not justifiable outside if she is going to kill you, or it is some kinky sex game :wink:
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So what if it was a small and weak man?

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When you see her being beat, run up behing the guy, rear naked choke, then run. It gives her time to get away, he can’t take his anger out on you with a knife because he’s passed out, the cops have time to show up, and you haven’t permanently hurt the guy.

And it would look funny as hell. Other onlookers would be pretty confused.

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[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:
Davinci.v2 wrote:
Sosruko wrote:
Hes now blind in one eye and partially sighted in the other, I cant make my mind up whether i would get involved does that make me a coward?

Sorry but yes it does. Being brave is doing what’s right when looking into the face of fear.

If you think stopping a woman from taking a few hits is OK while you go blind in the process, then you are, without doubt, the dumbest fucking guy in this thread.[/quote]

Another coward. Who’s to say I would go blind in the process? My fate in that situation isn’t predetermined. Pussy.