[quote]Rockscar wrote:
We must not look to others for our own salvation.
Insecurity typically equalls Lack of Confidence.
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“He is my rock and my salvation;
he is my defence; I shall not be moved.”
- Psalms 27:1
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[quote]eengrms76 wrote:
rrjc5488 wrote:
Bigbigsize wrote:
Waaaaaaaaaaahhhhh!!! I’m a bitch!! Waaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!!
What the fuck?
Yeah seriously WTF? If you expect us to take you seriously try to not act like that in the future.
As to your problem- you are dating right at or just out of your league. If she was in or under your league, you wouldn’t be so worried about it. Try dating an uglier chick.[/quote]
EDIT: I deleted my post becuase I read something very wrong. If anyone read my post before I deleted it I apologize for the misunderstanding.
Maybe because you post pics of your girlfriend’s saggy ass for all of T-Nation to make fun of her?
[quote]lostinthought wrote:
Like quoting Rivers is going to help this guy…
Actually nothing on this site and no posts from anyone are going to help this guy. If someone is insecure about themselves they’re damn sure not going to solve their problem by asking guys on this website.
No offense to anyone here, I think all the advice is good…I’m just saying being insecure is a deep, internal condition that won’t be solved easily and not on here. [/quote]
You’re absolutely correct, there is nothing that will be said here that will help him. There are options, however.
- Cognitive therapy
- ‘talking therapy’
- Drugs (the legal, fuck-you-up kind, not the illegal, fuck-you-up kind)
- Dealing with it and not allowing it to spill into his behavior.
But if it’s bothering him this much, he probably needs to talk to someone who isn’t responding to him over the internet.
[quote]apayne wrote:
I knew you’d be a Weezer fan.[/quote]
Because I have excellent taste?
You don’t own anybody no matter how much you worry and get jealous relationships can end, or they can last for a long time.
It sucks.
Jealousy is the worst! It’s extremely intense.
All I can say is this, if she deserves your trust and you know she won’t cheat on you, there’s really nothing to worry about if she mentions that this or that guy looks good, or whatever.
Don’t you still see other girls that you find attractive? I sure hope so. And does it really affect your relationship with your girlfriend? Hopefully not, if you’re committed to her, there’s really no risk and it’s no big deal if your eyes happen to catch a pretty girl here and there.
[quote]nephorm wrote:
apayne wrote:
I knew you’d be a Weezer fan.
Because I have excellent taste?[/quote]
No, because you look like Buddy Holly muthafucka! I can see you digging their lyrics, that’s all. Maryland loves Weezer!
Anyways, off to drink my bottle of Stevens…
[quote]X-Factor wrote:
For starters don’t EVER let her know you’re insecure, can you say, turn-off? Girls hate that shit. You’ll like a needy fuck head. Whenever this bitch thinks that you are “insecure” or needy or anything, she is gonna cluster-fuck the next group of guys she sees. As for you, you’re being a whiny bitch, if you are good looking, well built, have everything going for etc. Then why do you even GIVE A SHIT if she dumps you. Her loss. Fuck she should be worried about you leaving her ass in that case. If I were you I would get some female friends and start hanging around with them. That’ll put her mind on trying to keep you rather than not letting you know she’s fucking your brother. AND if she is cheating then you have a support network of vaginas with interwoven labias ready to catch you and lubricate your broken little heart with a beautifully pheromoned liquid ecstasy. Does’nt that sound nice. Now shut up and stop fuckin crying. You know thereis nothing to worry about you just want us to tell you that.[/quote]
X-Factor knows his shit. This is good information. But jealousy isn’t the same as being a needy loser. You can be jealous and NOT be insecure, granted you have good reason to be jealous… for example, you KNOW your wife is cheating on you.
But ya, always arm yourself with backup ladies just in case shit falls apart. That’s what I do. If the girl starts fucking around too much, you have a back-up plan.
Sometime your feelings are wrong, and sometime they are absolutely correct, alot of times I should say.
If you have never gotten this feeling with someone else, it is likely you are getting screwed.
It might be the way she acts around you, the way she looks at you that shows you she is not all the way there.
Either accept it, hire a PI and find the truth out, or get the hell out of there.
Somebody needs to lay of the clomid.