i have been with this girl 2 years and it was the best 2 years of my life and shes left me because of an argument we had about pictures she was in with other guys anyway i just need advice because i dont care how this sounds i adored the girl and i cant stop crying i sound like a girl but i dont care its affecting everything in my life i dont want to eat have no appetite 
[quote]Darren1995 wrote:
i have been with this girl 2 years and it was the best 2 years of my life and shes left me because of an argument we had about pictures she was in with other guys anyway i just need advice because i dont care how this sounds i adored the girl and i cant stop crying i sound like a girl but i dont care its affecting everything in my life i dont want to eat have no appetite [/quote]
Just wait a while, you’ll be fine. It takes some time for your brain to return to normal. If you were arguing about pictures she was in with other dudes and she left you for it, it was probably for the best. She sounds like a slut, and she probably would have cheated on you if she wasn’t already. Lucky for you now you can find someone better. Go watch like Predator and Rambo and Scarface and definitely Fight Club and stuff like that. And go to the gym. Don’t worry about your appetite. Your body will stop being a bitch and tell you to eat again before you starve to death.
SLUT
Shit happens you’ll get over it.
I’m glad you’re crying like a baby 'cause that means I can’t make it any worse.
If you’re getting in fights with you’re girlfriend over pictures with other guys, you’re being a bitch and girls have a tendency to dump bitches. That of course is assuming there’s nothing too friendly going on in the pictures. In which case you would be justified in having an issue.
In the Combat section there’s a thread right now about situational awareness. It’s a good thread for how to avoid conflicts and being a victim of violence but people should also apply the same principles to their relationships and the dynamics going on in their careers as well. In your case you should have recognized that you are insecure about other guys AND that it would be a mistake to let her know about your insecurity. Instead you should have figured out what steps to take to mitigate her exposure to other guys that would make you jealous and do it in a way that doesn’t expose your wussyness. Then while doing that, work on being the type of man who doesn’t have to worry about his girl hanging out with a bunch of guys.
Also, whatever you do, do not call her, text her, email her, ask a friend to say hello or send a carrier pigeon. Don’t ask for stuff back, don’t drop her stuff off and for god’s sake don’t make any drive-bys. If she calls you and asked to talk, that’s fine if your still interested. Otherwise just walk off into the sunset.
[quote]on edge wrote:
If you’re getting in fights with you’re girlfriend over pictures with other guys, you’re being a bitch and girls have a tendency to dump bitches. That of course is assuming there’s nothing too friendly going on in the pictures. In which case you would be justified in having an issue.
In your case you should have recognized that you are insecure about other guys AND that it would be a mistake to let her know about your insecurity. Instead you should have figured out what steps to take to mitigate her exposure to other guys that would make you jealous and do it in a way that doesn’t expose your wussyness. Then while doing that, work on being the type of man who doesn’t have to worry about his girl hanging out with a bunch of guys.
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I only partially agree with this. My first assumption in this situation is that she is much too friendly with other males. I would actually default to the position that the insecurity is justified. In which case it’s good that he confronted her about it, and if she isn’t willing or able to maintain appropriate boundaries with other males whilst she is in a committed relationship, then he should happily show her the door.
[quote]on edge wrote:
Also, whatever you do, do not call her, text her, email her, ask a friend to say hello or send a carrier pigeon. Don’t ask for stuff back, don’t drop her stuff off and for god’s sake don’t make any drive-bys. If she calls you and asked to talk, that’s fine if your still interested. Otherwise just walk off into the sunset.[/quote]
I do agree with this. I definitely wouldn’t take her back though if she calls…
Also OP, after your body gets over the initial pathetic emasculation, your testosterone levels should increase higher than before when you were in a long term relationship. That’s what tends to happen. So you’ve got that going for you at least.
Watch this video until you have memorized it. Deadlift, do some mobility work, and move on.
You gotta put dat pussy on a chaaaain-Wax!
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
You gotta put dat pussy on a chaaaain-Wax!
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Ha nice
Your girlfriend broke up with you. You don’t have cancer and you don’t have to walk outside to an out house just to take a shit. You need to man up and quit feeling sorry for yourself.
This reminds me that I actually have a Man Up Nike t-shirt that I haven’t worn in forever. Thanks.
You’ll get over it, there are so many girls in the world. You may feel she was very special now, but with time you may find someone else whom you will feel even stronger feelings for.
PS: For a quicker recovery, google Chateau Heartiste and read everything.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
If you’re getting in fights with you’re girlfriend over pictures with other guys, you’re being a bitch and girls have a tendency to dump bitches. That of course is assuming there’s nothing too friendly going on in the pictures. In which case you would be justified in having an issue.
In your case you should have recognized that you are insecure about other guys AND that it would be a mistake to let her know about your insecurity. Instead you should have figured out what steps to take to mitigate her exposure to other guys that would make you jealous and do it in a way that doesn’t expose your wussyness. Then while doing that, work on being the type of man who doesn’t have to worry about his girl hanging out with a bunch of guys.
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I only partially agree with this. My first assumption in this situation is that she is much too friendly with other males. I would actually default to the position that the insecurity is justified. In which case it’s good that he confronted her about it, and if she isn’t willing or able to maintain appropriate boundaries with other males whilst she is in a committed relationship, then he should happily show her the door.
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You might be right, it depends on what was really going on and what her frame of mind was. I think most the time the guy is just being paranoid and has nothing to worry about. It does seem that most the time people on this site disagree with me and assume the girl was being inappropriate. Whichever is more likely, we don’t really know the specifics for this case so it’s just guess work.
OP, please post the pictures so we can properly help you.
[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Your girlfriend broke up with you. You don’t have cancer and you don’t have to walk outside to an out house just to take a shit. You need to man up and quit feeling sorry for yourself.
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He’s not going to man up and get over it that fast. As everybody else has stated, time heals all wounds.
Sure right now you feel like shit, but it will get better within time. Maybe in a couple of months you will be ready to move on. Go hang out with your friends and try not to contact her at all.
You also need a Pook.
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf
Read that stuff and dont even talk to women until you are sufficiently pookiefied.
Grunt, if you must.
I’ll asume you’re 18 and say then that I understand how things feel at that age.
God how I’d love to feel an 18 year-old again.
[quote]Darren1995 wrote:
i have been with this girl 2 years and it was the best 2 years of my life and shes left me because of an argument we had about pictures she was in with other guys anyway i just need advice because i dont care how this sounds i adored the girl and i cant stop crying i sound like a girl but i dont care its affecting everything in my life i dont want to eat have no appetite [/quote]
You don’t sound like a girl at all, you sound like a real man to me. It takes guts to risk a broken heart and you did it anyway. I know it hurts, but don’t ever regret having feelings for her. Right now you are still in shock but after a short while, you will have your life back with maturity and compassion in spades.
I’m sorry my friend…but you’ll be alright. 
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Nards wrote:
I’ll asume you’re 18 and say then that I understand how things feel at that age.
God how I’d love to feel an 18 year-old again.[/quote]
I’ll assume there is no typo in that last sentence.[/quote]
LOL
Just cause a girl is hot, doesn’t mean she’s right for you
Just cause a girl is desirable, doesn’t mean she’s right for you
Just cause a girl is sucks good dick, doesn’t mean she’s right for you
Just cause a girl is acted like she loved you for a while, doesn’t mean she’s right for you
Just cause a girls hair smells like red fruit loops, doesn’t mean she’s right for you
Find the girl that’s right for you, she wasn’t it.
Good thing you aren’t wasting any more time with her and can move on to find the one that’s right for you.