I don’t know whats going on I think I’m maturing mentally,I’m 18 and am soon going to college,but for some strange reason I really don’t care anymore if i get girls or not.If I meet a girl I like and she wants to go out with me cool I’ll all for it but if I don’t meet a girl I don’t care.All i care about is enjoying myself and my hobbies and sprinting and getting faster and trying to get fast enough to make the track team.Its just weird becuase like a year ago I used to be like"I really want to get lots of girls but over the past year slowly my veiwpoint has changed and its not a huge concern for me.The past couple my mindset has been alot differnet I’m not worrying about stuff and I just can’t wait to get to college and rock.I have alos been reading like 2 or 3 books every week for the past 3 weeks and I have nether been this mentally sharp.Anyone else notice themselves maturing.
Shock horror I thought it was just me. I turned 20 last week and I find myself less interested in scoring and more serious about bodybuilding and my hobbies. I think we need a pair of spark plugs on our balls beacuse people tell me girls should be the main concern of your youth and I find myself staying in some weakends so I don’t miss my fucking protein shake! By the time i’m 21 i’ll be on the pipe and slippers on a Saturaday nite if I carry on like this. So whats the diagnosis - too dedicated, too lazy or am I simply lacking vitamin-T?
Every day I seem to get about 1/365 of a year more mature.
One piece of advice. Keep doing what you are doing. Live to better yourself, and you will meet someone with the same goals as you, and your life will be led hapily ever after.
I don’t know about you guys. Although I did plenty of studying, training and working on my hobbies at your age, it was all through the dreamy haze of imagining women yielding to my every need. I don’t think my libido actually changed until I was 30 and was married. Don’t worry, though. It is all for the better probably. Guys tend to have more success with the girls when they don’t try so hard.
Are you coming out of the closet?
Well, college is a time for experimentation. I guess you’re in luck.
Okay, in all seriousness, it’s probably just your hormones relaxing. Although I’m 23 and I’m thinking about it more and more each day (damn that Mag-10 anyway). You also may be doing what I did a few years ago. After not being able to resist hot women long enough, I finally decided that I wasn’t going to play their game. My thought was that I did everything on the promise of sex. Then one day I realized “hey hot chick, you’re not going to let me have sex with you. You know that, and I know that. So take your free drink and shove it up your ass.” Kind of liberating. Now, if the promise of sex was there, I’d buy her and her friends the round.
Maybe your a queer!
And maybe Berserker should have paid more attention in English class! It’s “you’re”, dummy.
I don’t know why I’m not worrying about getting girls but this whole idea of not letting girls bother me and not focusing on it started when during the school year someone I knew gave me advice on girls and told me that the best way to get girls was to not worry about getting girls and not even focus on it and that the women bascialy makes the first move,I had trouble tyring not to focus on it but now its summer and I’m not worrying about it .I dont know why now maybe,because I’m not in school at the moment and around lots of girls my own age,but I have a feeling thats not the reason.I hope my testosterone levels arn’t dropping though.
its just a stage, I am 20 and go through it also every once in a while, usually I am a friggin horn dog, but sometimes I just like to take a break from trying to score all the time and just sit at a bar and relax with my bros, shoot the shit and andn of course talk about women hahah…
Ahh yes, always with the intensly funny comediens who cry ‘homosexual’ for anything that involves not thinking about women 27/7.
Hey maybe your the queer boys, you know what they say about those who accuse others of being gay!!
Terminator is going butt pirate. Arrrgh mate. haa aahaa.
Terminator…I don’t have any interest right now myself (and no I’m not a queer). After seeing a relative have a nasty breakup it makes me realize how much freedom there is in NO relationship. I suppose I will again someday but right now I enjoy my freedom and have enough stress in life right now as it is.
I guess this inscident has just put me “on temporary hold” at the moment.
I guess you got all that shit out of your system your senoir year huh??? no worries man just don’t think that becuase your more studious and less drinking and scoring that your responsible enough to get hitched ( big NO NO !!!)
No worries Terminator. I had to get my priorties checked when i got kicked out of my house when i was 17 1/2. Had no guidance and no where to go. I went and Became a Marine and all the stuff I use to do (pot,booze,screwing every girl i saw) didn’t mean jack to me anynore. And to be honest with you i rather be who i am now than be the piece of s!@# i used to be
I am not gay I like girls alot,I’m just saying that I’m not worried about getting girls or not,its not a huge concern,its not the main focus of my life.I don’t drink and I odn’t party alot.
Not being given to much drinking or partying will hopefully help you get through college, but you never know. You’ll go through so many changes, even in the first year. Another thing to keep in mind is the sex thing. At your age it’s possible that you haven’t had it yet. You don’t have to say whether or not you have, I’m just saying that if you get a taste of it (and haven’t had it yet), there will be NO turning back. You will need it like you need air. By the way, what college are you going to?
Ummmmmm Jared you guessed right.Is that really true?
University of Buffalo
Quite true. Your sex drive before ever doing the deed is absolutely nothing compared to the primal need afterward. The need will subside a bit after awhile (a year maybe - depending on how often you’re getting it) or you will possibly not have the need that often, but it’s a whole new world. This is why I suggest being in a committed relationship (hopefully a loving one) when one loses their virginity - so they don’t turn into a whore. I know if I hadn’t been with someone at the time I would have done some awful, regrettable things to get laid. Wait, I still did. Oh well.