I just talked to her about an hour & a half ago & the whole time, she was looking at me like I was an escaped mental patient (or like I had 3 heads, etc)& pretended she didn’t know who I was. Does she hate my guts or is she just mad at me fr not doing anything sooner? I think she was just mad at me because this sort of thing has happened at least 2x before & she’s come back. I kind of think I should confront her sometime & say ‘this has been going on for more than 2yrs now you want it to go on longer, fine, I can wait just as long as you’ (something like that).
Are you sure you aren’t an escaped mental patient? Just say hi, do you wanna go “insert activity” with me sometime. It’s not freaking rocket science. If she likes you or is not repulsed by you she’ll say yes, if not then she’ll say no. Maybe I’m missing part of the story here, but I did read your last post, and it doesn’t seem all that complicated.
Quit reading Maxim and get real. Take the time you would read maxim for and read a self help book on self image and self esteem. If you have to ask this question it really doesn’t matter what she feels about you cause you are pushing her away anyway. Good luck you got a long road ahead of you.
Plan something then tell her you’d really like her to join you… don’t just ask for a date… have something in mind, and tell her it’d be great if she went… then their is no mis-understanding… the ball would be in her court… if she wants to go she will, if she can’t she’ll tell you… is she doesn’t want to then she’ll also tell you. Time to grow some balls… suck it up… ooze confidence Man!.. only way to get confidence is to work at it… show up at her work!
I agree - you have been trying too hard. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, hang out with you, then forget her. She isn’t worth it. If she is playing games with you, it won’t change if you ever enter a relationship with her - she will continue to play games with you (that is a sweeping generalization, but mostly true). There are other girls out there.
Burrito Jimmy - where is Whistlin’ Pete? (are you from Dallas?)
Hmmmmmmm! So she thought you were a mental patient. Try talking to her again. Maybe the next time she won’t think the same about you. Be relaxed and play it cool next time.
hehe, oak you were the first one to catch that reference. Okay, so Im unoriginal, but i still think it’s a cool nick.