[quote]MassiveGuns wrote:
No one exceptional ever achieved anything by thinking about what their limits were. It was the belief that they could achieve anything and that everyone who says otherwise can go fuck themselves that carried them there.
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I thought about doing it before even posting this and coming here with results, but I’d be willing to bet that plenty of exceptional people thought they wouldn’t achieve what they did. I’m sure we’ve all heard the quote ‘never in my wildest dreams did I think I could ’ spoken by various athletes, entrepreneurs, great men of science(probably slightly different phrasing for them), etc.
There are plenty of hall of fame speeches littered with statements like “I never thought I’d be a hall of famer I just tried to work as hard as I could in practice, play my best in every game, and just be the best I could, and it’s amazing that it got me this far.” There are some RARE exceptions to this like MJ who basically told everyone ‘fuck you I knew I was the greatest’ but in a sort of ironic twist, despite the fact that in most peoples’ eyes he did become ‘the greatest’ his name is actually nowhere near as proliferated in record books as say, Wilt or Russel.
Basically my long winded way of saying ‘absolute statements are silly.’
Also FWIW, as you point out, exceptional people don’t let the words of others deter them from becoming said exception. So, what harm is there in having whatever we’re calling it now(guideline, benchmark, limit, goal, ceiling, you’re not black so you can’t be as developed as a black man, etc) for everyone else, because the opposite psychological effect exists(research has been shown in support of this in the numerous threads of discussion), and people can be deterred from ‘doing their best’ if they start to have unrealistic thoughts of what they SHOULD be capable of. I accept that people deterred by this line of reasoning are also weak willed and probably were never going to achieve peak natural status either, but why is it ok to ‘argue’ for one side and not the other?