'Too Many Supplements?' Rant

[quote]Professor X wrote:
GetSwole wrote:
wyrd1 wrote:

As to How I married her, I was fat too.

Fuck your life. That’s possibly the saddest thing I’ve ever read. I hope, for your sake, there was at least SOMETHING else.

LOL @

“Hey, you’re even fatter than me!”

“I noticed. Want some of my Kentucky Fried Chicken 12 piece meal deal? They gave me a whole chocolate cake and I’ve only eaten 3/4 of it”

“Hey…let’s get married!!”

“Burp. I do.”[/quote]

…delayed posting ftl. I swear my laughing at fatties came first.

[quote]wyrd1 wrote:
Here I am.

Thank you for your responses. Especially Octobergirl, JehovasFitness an the Professor. I have a lot to think about.

I agree I am generally lacking in testicular fortitude and have a lot of changing that needs doing.

I have gone to the gym a few times w/ her and go on very very slow walks (so slow the walks can be very aggravating even wearing an extra 60lbs). She pretty much hates going to the gym, too many people, she is very self concious and self-centered too boot.

As to How I married her, I was fat too. And as to why I haven’t posted sonner, I slept 12 hours and had to work.[/quote]

Look at it this way: you’re likely to survive any severe famine or economic downturn. There’s always a silver lining, my friends.

[quote]PRCalDude wrote:

Look at it this way: you’re likely to survive any severe famine or economic downturn. There’s always a silver lining, my friends. [/quote]

I could have swore in other threads discussing this that the athletic people had said something about beating up the fat one’s and stealing their food supplies…Or some such variation.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
GetSwole wrote:
wyrd1 wrote:

As to How I married her, I was fat too.

Fuck your life. That’s possibly the saddest thing I’ve ever read. I hope, for your sake, there was at least SOMETHING else.

LOL @

“Hey, you’re even fatter than me!”

“I noticed. Want some of my Kentucky Fried Chicken 12 piece meal deal? They gave me a whole chocolate cake and I’ve only eaten 3/4 of it”

“Hey…let’s get married!!”

“Burp. I do.”[/quote]

ROFL!

You should show her by throwing out her husband…leave this wildebeest, get in shape, screw her sister.

She may not want you to improve yourself for fear that you may stop loving her.

Some of this is really funny:
(quote)LOL @

“Hey, you’re even fatter than me!”

“I noticed. Want some of my Kentucky Fried Chicken 12 piece meal deal? They gave me a whole chocolate cake and I’ve only eaten 3/4 of it”

“Hey…let’s get married!!”

“Burp. I do.” (/quote)

We have known each other since middle school, dated over 2 years and were engaged almost a year. So there is a lot in this relationship. And she is not completely unsupportive.

Occassionally she will find a new healthy recipe and give it a shot. She is no longer complaining that I excercise too much. She does not buy as much junk food as she used too. She still has a stash and there is icecream in the freezer but the candy is no longer sitting out waiting to be munched.

I think I was most upset because it’s like she does not trust me to take care of my body. It could be she fears what she doesn’t understand and I need to do my part to educate her a little. Maybe show her some studies, books written by M.D.'s and such.

I remember the first few years we were married she was sick a lot. Now it’s not so bad, she has not had strep throat this year, which is something, she had it twice last year. I think a lot of it is some of my healthier eating is rubbing off on her.

It may take a while but I think I can get her too lift a few wieghts, She liked the leg press, refuses to squat or do anything that “looks funny”.

She is naturally built fo the dead lift, strong core and legs, accidentally caused a miscarriage picking up and moving 160lbs of concrete mix without even a warm up, didn’t know she was pregnant so I can’t fault her. I am rambling, it’s late.

I’ve thought out a few new goals of mine 1) get stronger now, lean up when I get deployed 2)get some more protein powder or liquid egg whites (more expensive but it’s “food” hence easier to accept. 3) buy some flowers for no reason at all, been too long 4)find out HER goals and get her to write them down

p.s. thank you for the support and thought provoking messages. I honestly expected people to ignore this rant but got a lot of insight from the outside. Thanx again. Oh and keep the jokes coming! Laughter is often the best medicine.

[quote]caveman101 wrote:
…man, i hate ciggs[/quote]
I like ciggs…

LOL, in that context they’re fine!

“I’ve thought out a few new goals of mine 1) get stronger now, lean up when I get deployed 2)get some more protein powder or liquid egg whites (more expensive but it’s “food” hence easier to accept. 3) buy some flowers for no reason at all, been too long 4)find out HER goals and get her to write them down”

i think you’ve got the right idea now OP, hope it works out

pushmepullme wrote:
caveman101 wrote:
“I don’t think it is right to toss things like supplements. But, I’ve tossed out cigarettes when the hubby started smoking again. It wasn’t something I would tolerate.” ciggarettes-whey and mutivits… not really the same thing. i’d throw away a friends ciggs if they started smoking again after promising to quit. man, i hate ciggs

Yeah, um, perhaps I wasn’t clear enough (happens on teh interwebz), but I was trying to point out that perhaps she is ignorant and thinks what he is doing is as unhealthy and dangerous as smoking

Very likely, i had to give a powerpoint presentation to my family on creatine before they even had a inkling of what it was

[quote]Professor X wrote:
PRCalDude wrote:
She (all 5’8" 280lbs of her) threw away my supplements.

Oh. My. Cerebrovascular incident, here we come!

If it were my house, she would be sitting outside on the sidewalk 5 minutes later…all 280 naked pounds of her.
[/quote]

Ja, but you have the sheer mass to handle 280 lbs that are kicking and screaming.

Not everybody is that lucky.

“I’ve thought out a few new goals of mine 1) get stronger now, lean up when I get deployed 2)get some more protein powder or liquid egg whites (more expensive but it’s “food” hence easier to accept. 3) buy some flowers for no reason at all, been too long 4)find out HER goals and get her to write them down”

personally, i think you need to stop tippy-toeing around your wife (trying to ‘trick’ her by buying egg powder instead of regular protein? seriously, get some balls).

buying her flowers after she THROWS AWAY something of your? is this really what married life is?

when I drink protein shakes at work people call it steroid juice. literally.

[quote]schultzie wrote:
when I drink protein shakes at work people call it steroid juice. literally.[/quote]

LOL!!!

Steroid juice. Wow. LOL

[quote]GetSwole wrote:
wyrd1 wrote:

As to How I married her, I was fat too.

Fuck your life. That’s possibly the saddest thing I’ve ever read. I hope, for your sake, there was at least SOMETHING else.[/quote]

Oh thank you! This and all of the posts that built off of it had my husband and I laughing so hard.

And I’m stealing “steroid juice”, I like the sound of that, rofl.

[quote]hypnotoad wrote:

buying her flowers after she THROWS AWAY something of your? is this really what married life is?[/quote]

No. This situation is bizarre.

I had a nice, long post describing all the reasons married women gave for sleeping with me, but fuck it.

You. Must. Draw. The. Line. And. Let. Your. Balls. Hang.

You really need to evaluate your relationship with the woman at this point. It’s obvious you have different goals in life, and different means of getting there.