The Worst Thing About Bodybuilding

[quote]hardgnr wrote:
CKMAN wrote:
Sometimes the fact that it’s a ‘24/7 lifestyle’ gets tiring and can make you feel depressed because there are times when you just want to go out and have a good time with your mates and not worry about missing a meal or having a drink and going to bed really late. Although there is no one to stop you from doing this, you know that it will hurt your results if it’s on a regular basis. This makes you feel guilty because you start thinking about how hard you’ve worked up until now and that you don’t want to screw up your gains. So you stay in and have that meal whilst watching TV.

It’s especially hard when you’re still young and single like me.

wtf…some of you guys need to realise that ONE missed meal isn’t going to do shit all. Do you really think in 3 years of lifting, missing ONE fucking meal will make a shit bit of difference? Are you going to look back in 10 years time and think…yea I’m glad I stayed at home and watched TV so I could eat my chicken breast instead of going out having a good time with my friends and scoring some hot pussy.

Seriously, you aren’t in the fucking IFBB.

Jesus fucking christ…
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Did I say anything about never missing a single meal?

I did say …‘if it’s on a regular basis’ didn’t I!

In other words, every week!

[quote]Professor X wrote:
hardgnr wrote:
CKMAN wrote:
Sometimes the fact that it’s a ‘24/7 lifestyle’ gets tiring and can make you feel depressed because there are times when you just want to go out and have a good time with your mates and not worry about missing a meal or having a drink and going to bed really late. Although there is no one to stop you from doing this, you know that it will hurt your results if it’s on a regular basis. This makes you feel guilty because you start thinking about how hard you’ve worked up until now and that you don’t want to screw up your gains. So you stay in and have that meal whilst watching TV.

It’s especially hard when you’re still young and single like me.

wtf…some of you guys need to realise that ONE missed meal isn’t going to do shit all. Do you really think in 3 years of lifting, missing ONE fucking meal will make a shit bit of difference? Are you going to look back in 10 years time and think…yea I’m glad I stayed at home and watched TV so I could eat my chicken breast instead of going out having a good time with my friends and scoring some hot pussy.

Seriously, you aren’t in the fucking IFBB.

Jesus fucking christ…

LOL!!!

I am betting most of the people who act like that don’t have the results to back it up. This may be a lifestyle, but if you are acting like a bodybuilder getting ready for a contest 365 days a year, you have missed the fucking point.

If you aren’t even that big then it makes even less sense.

Unless you make your living off of how you look, missing all social opportunities for this is stupid. Moderation in everything.
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Did I say anything about missing all social opportunities?

No I didn’t!

I said doing it on a REGULAR BASIS.

My interpretation of that would be every week.

That means going out AT LEAST SEVERAL TIMES a week, drinking, getting home really late etc.

That would certainly have an affect on my health and physique.

I guess I’ll try to be even clearer with what I say in future.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:
There are plenty of people who wouldn’t know what someone who works out looks like if they were hit over the head with it. On this very site (and this is going back 2-3 years or more now) there was a thread where pictures of some pretty big friggin guys were posted and teh general consensus was “lulz what fatasses.” Now granted, they were all (i think) powerlifters and strongmen, not bodybuilders, but still, these were guys who had worked very hard for a very long time, and yet there were plenty of people who apparently couldnt tell. These people were not exactly the cognoscenti of the lifting world, but they were not far off from the average guy on the street either.

What does any of that have to do with what was stated? Who cares that people who aren’t serious about lifting can’t tell who is built and who isn’t? Since when do we judge ourselves by the standards of people who are one step removed from being completely sedentary? Most of the people you just described will be looking exactly the same 5 years from now as they do now or worse.

Most people who lift regularly can tell the difference between someone who is out of shape and someone who has built a shit load of muscle. This has nothing to do with what old grandmothers think about muscles.[/quote]

It was in reference to you saying earlier that if no one can tell by looking at you that you’ve been lifting for however long, you’re not a bodybuilder. I just wanted to point out that some people can look at those who lift and still not know. If you want to restrict it to say that if nobody WHO LIFTS can tell that you lift, that’s fine, but I still think you have a higher estimation of peoples powers of perception than I do.

[quote]So what about Marc Bartley. He trained for his show in august of 08 for almost a year. was he not a bodybuilder until mid-may 08? what was he before then? what changed between the beginning of may and memorial day other than a handful of lbs of fat, (if that much)? What about Dave Tate? Hasnt done a bodybuilding show for probably almost 20 years, but for half the year he gets into teh single digit bodyfat and half the year he’s not. So he’s a bodybuilder Jan-July but not Aug-dec? what is he from aug-dec? [EDIT to add:] and when you write “ready to compete in 3 short months” … compete at what level? good enough not to get laughed off the stage? or to take top 3? does it matter how deep the field is? are we talking local level or qualifier?[/EDIT]

What the hell are you talking about? You don’t think Dave Tate qualified as a bodybuilder? He competed in powerlifting but CLEARLY worked on building a shit load of muscle and all of his training wasn’t ONLY for powerlifting. His approach wasn’t much different than mine as far as bulking up yet you think he would run screaming if someone called him a bodybuilder? You don’t think he is one simply because he is also a powerlifter? How does that make sense to you? [/quote]

No I dont think Dave qualified as a bodybuilder. Why do you assume that I think Dave would run screaming if someone called him a bodybuilder? I dont think that, but when did this become about an individuals perception, whether he wants to be called a bodybuilder or not?

Also for the record, I would not consider dave a powerlifter. He hasnt done a meet in I believe 4 years, and has said that he has retired. I would consider him to be a guy who trains with his own goals in mind, and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. (this does bring up the interesting point of how OFTEN one would have to compete to be considered a bodybuilder or a powerlifter, but that’s besides the point of this discussion)

[quote]You are making this complicated for no reason. Are you saying you can’t tell who has built a shit load of muscle and who hasn’t by looking at them? This is that hard for you?

What does what you are writing have to do with what was written previously? [/quote]

I dont think I’m making it complicated at all. What part of this is complicated? No, I’m not saying I can’t tell who has built a ton of muscle and who hasnt. It’s not hard for me. I believe I’ve elucidated on my points above, so that what I’m writing now is pretty clearly connected to what was written previously.

[quote] If you have been lifting for several years and no one can even tell, you are NOT a bodybuilder. You are just some guy who wasted years in the gym who should find a new hobby. You don’t get extra credit just for TRYING.

I dont think it’s as common sense as you present it here. Because what about the grey areas, the guys whose development is impressive to some, starting to get there in the opinion of others, and who looks like he needs a lot of work in the opinion of a third group of people?

What grey areas? You are either muscular or you aren’t. You have either made progress or you haven’t. This is subjective so trying to come up with some perfect description that fits all people makes no sense in the first place. You know it when you see it and no one gives a shit about the opinion of people who don’t even lift seriously. Most of them can’t even tell you the names of the muscles they are looking at.

Anyone who has been serious about this for years can tell whether someone has built enough mass to be impressive even if they aren’t HUGE yet.

Please post pictures of people who are in such a “grey area” that no one can tell whether they have muscle or not yet they are still built. [/quote]

I would put Nate Green up as an example (and if Nate sees this I certainly hope he doesnt take offense, as I mean no disrespect). He has some muscle - not a shit ton, to be sure, but some. And I do believe that if he dieted for a short period of time he could step onstage - at a local show, mind you, not a nat’l level qualifier - and not be embarassed at all. So according to those two criteria, you would consider him a bodybuilder? He’s not what I think of when I think “bodybuilder.” This si what I’m getting at. He has built muscle, but how much is enough to qualify to suit your idea of “bodybuilder?” Some would think he’s well-built and some would not, whereas whether or not he has competed (and I dont know that he has, but I’ve never heard it, so i believe he has not) is not in dispute. So yes, while he may not look like my mental image of “bodybuilder” if he paid his membership fee, put together a routine, dieted down for however long is necessary (but definitely less than 3 months) and got out onstage at a local show, yes I would consider him a bodybuilder even if he isnt my mental “ideal.” It’s just that much more cut-and-dried

What I believe is grey is that some guys would look at his pictures and think “great, that’s what I’d like to look like” some would think “ok, he’s in decent shape, and has a few areas of improvement he could work on” and others would think “he’s a runt and looks like some little abercrombie bitch”

[quote]CKMAN wrote:
Professor X wrote:
hardgnr wrote:
CKMAN wrote:
Sometimes the fact that it’s a ‘24/7 lifestyle’ gets tiring and can make you feel depressed because there are times when you just want to go out and have a good time with your mates and not worry about missing a meal or having a drink and going to bed really late. Although there is no one to stop you from doing this, you know that it will hurt your results if it’s on a regular basis. This makes you feel guilty because you start thinking about how hard you’ve worked up until now and that you don’t want to screw up your gains. So you stay in and have that meal whilst watching TV.

It’s especially hard when you’re still young and single like me.

wtf…some of you guys need to realise that ONE missed meal isn’t going to do shit all. Do you really think in 3 years of lifting, missing ONE fucking meal will make a shit bit of difference? Are you going to look back in 10 years time and think…yea I’m glad I stayed at home and watched TV so I could eat my chicken breast instead of going out having a good time with my friends and scoring some hot pussy.

Seriously, you aren’t in the fucking IFBB.

Jesus fucking christ…

LOL!!!

I am betting most of the people who act like that don’t have the results to back it up. This may be a lifestyle, but if you are acting like a bodybuilder getting ready for a contest 365 days a year, you have missed the fucking point.

If you aren’t even that big then it makes even less sense.

Unless you make your living off of how you look, missing all social opportunities for this is stupid. Moderation in everything.

Did I say anything about missing all social opportunities?

No I didn’t!

I said doing it on a REGULAR BASIS.

My interpretation of that would be every week.

That means going out AT LEAST SEVERAL TIMES a week, drinking, getting home really late etc.

That would certainly have an affect on my health and physique.

I guess I’ll try to be even clearer with what I say in future.[/quote]

We used to get quite a few people on the board who would tell us about their strict diets that were so rigid they only ate steamed oats while chewing down unseasoned virgin chickens that were raised on a plantation built on holy ground. Their training routines were planned down to the 10th of a pound meaning any weights with scratches on them had to be weighed so as to assess their true weight before any lifting was done. These guys had blue prints and spread sheets. They contacted Harvard professors about nutrition and followed the online teachings of rare German Olympic trainers. They could apparently put any pro bodybuilder to shame with their level of stringent attention to detail…but if you asked for a pic the only proper response would be, “where’s the beef?”.

The goal of my previous post wasn’t to single you out. The goal of that post was for people to look at things rationally and to realize that if you are taking this to some obscene level of analysis, you had better have the results to back it up because acting like a competing bodybuilder when you don’t have half the size just makes you look crazy.

Most of the really big guys didn’t make their diets more strict until after their base of mass was built. You simply won’t go from skinny to fucking huge by turning this activity (one that is simply about how much heart you have in the gym) and turning it into a daily experiment just to see how much torture you can deal with.

[quote]KBCThird wrote:
It was in reference to you saying earlier that if no one can tell by looking at you that you’ve been lifting for however long, you’re not a bodybuilder. I just wanted to point out that some people can look at those who lift and still not know. If you want to restrict it to say that if nobody WHO LIFTS can tell that you lift, that’s fine, but I still think you have a higher estimation of peoples powers of perception than I do. [/quote]

Dude, please post pictures of these people who no one can tell lift but who happen to be huge. If there is that much confusion, then they obviously aren’t that built. I could wear a fucking parka and people would know I lift weights.

[quote]No I dont think Dave qualified as a bodybuilder. Why do you assume that I think Dave would run screaming if someone called him a bodybuilder? I dont think that, but when did this become about an individuals perception, whether he wants to be called a bodybuilder or not?

Also for the record, I would not consider dave a powerlifter. He hasnt done a meet in I believe 4 years, and has said that he has retired. I would consider him to be a guy who trains with his own goals in mind, and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. (this does bring up the interesting point of how OFTEN one would have to compete to be considered a bodybuilder or a powerlifter, but that’s besides the point of this discussion)[/quote]

Dave Tate was damn near 290lbs before dieting and is now bigger than the majority of the people who have EVER shown pics on this site…yet you think this doesn’t qualify him as a bodybuilder? WTF? So BUILD YOUR FUCKING BODY UP isn’t the criteria you are using? You are making no sense.

Yes…that Dave Tate, according to you, does not qualify as a bodybuilder because building big muscles is apparently NOT the criteria you go by…which just makes tons of sense.

I don’t even know what Nate Green looks like but if he has enough muscle to stand out, then yes, he is a fucking bodybuilder because…get ready for it…here it comes…HE BUILT HIS FUCKING BODY UP.

I am unsure why this is even still going on. I know what a bodybuilder looks like when I see it. If you don’t then I feel sorry for you.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:
It was in reference to you saying earlier that if no one can tell by looking at you that you’ve been lifting for however long, you’re not a bodybuilder. I just wanted to point out that some people can look at those who lift and still not know. If you want to restrict it to say that if nobody WHO LIFTS can tell that you lift, that’s fine, but I still think you have a higher estimation of peoples powers of perception than I do.

Dude, please post pictures of these people who no one can tell lift but who happen to be huge. If there is that much confusion, then they obviously aren’t that built. I could wear a fucking parka and people would know I lift weights.[/quote]

I already referenced that it was a thread containing powerlifters and WSM competitors. I’m not going to bother looking for it but google search vasyl virastuyk (spelling may be off) and zydrunas savickas

[quote]No I dont think Dave qualified as a bodybuilder. Why do you assume that I think Dave would run screaming if someone called him a bodybuilder? I dont think that, but when did this become about an individuals perception, whether he wants to be called a bodybuilder or not?

Also for the record, I would not consider dave a powerlifter. He hasnt done a meet in I believe 4 years, and has said that he has retired. I would consider him to be a guy who trains with his own goals in mind, and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. (this does bring up the interesting point of how OFTEN one would have to compete to be considered a bodybuilder or a powerlifter, but that’s besides the point of this discussion)

Dave Tate was damn near 290lbs before dieting and is now bigger than the majority of the people who have EVER shown pics on this site…yet you think this doesn’t qualify him as a bodybuilder? WTF? So BUILD YOUR FUCKING BODY UP isn’t the criteria you are using? You are making no sense.[/quote]

I disagree.

[quote]I dont think I’m making it complicated at all. What part of this is complicated? No, I’m not saying I can’t tell who has built a ton of muscle and who hasnt. It’s not hard for me. I believe I’ve elucidated on my points above, so that what I’m writing now is pretty clearly connected to what was written previously.

Yes…that Dave Tate, according to you, does not qualify as a bodybuilder because building big muscles is apparently NOT the criteria you go by…which just makes tons of sense.

I would put Nate Green up as an example (and if Nate sees this I certainly hope he doesnt take offense, as I mean no disrespect). He has some muscle - not a shit ton, to be sure, but some. And I do believe that if he dieted for a short period of time he could step onstage - at a local show, mind you, not a nat’l level qualifier - and not be embarassed at all. So according to those two criteria, you would consider him a bodybuilder?

I don’t even know what Nate Green looks like but if he has enough muscle to stand out, then yes, he is a fucking bodybuilder because…get ready for it…here it comes…HE BUILT HIS FUCKING BODY UP.[/quote]

His picture is in one of his articles that I read. It’s either the dogg crap training article, an interview with dave tate or the most recent one promoting this new I, Bodybuilder campaign Biotest has going. So if you’d like to see a picture of him, a simple author search will handle that

[quote] He’s not what I think of when I think “bodybuilder.” This si what I’m getting at. He has built muscle, but how much is enough to qualify to suit your idea of “bodybuilder?” Some would think he’s well-built and some would not, whereas whether or not he has competed (and I dont know that he has, but I’ve never heard it, so i believe he has not) is not in dispute. So yes, while he may not look like my mental image of “bodybuilder” if he paid his membership fee, put together a routine, dieted down for however long is necessary (but definitely less than 3 months) and got out onstage at a local show, yes I would consider him a bodybuilder even if he isnt my mental “ideal.” It’s just that much more cut-and-dried

What I believe is grey is that some guys would look at his pictures and think “great, that’s what I’d like to look like” some would think “ok, he’s in decent shape, and has a few areas of improvement he could work on” and others would think “he’s a runt and looks like some little abercrombie bitch”

I am unsure why this is even still going on. I know what a bodybuilder looks like when I see it. If you don’t then I feel sorry for you.[/quote]

You know what YOU consider to be a bodybuilder. If a kid gained 10 lbs of muscle, and he’s still 155 or 175 or whatever, is he a bodybuilder? Why not, according to your criteria, he has “built his body.” The fact that it’s only 10 lbs is what im getting after. You’re defining bodybuilding like it’s pornography here, essentially saying “I know it when I see it” and it is not that vague and ineffable.

[quote]KBCThird wrote:

You know what YOU consider to be a bodybuilder. If a kid gained 10 lbs of muscle, and he’s still 155 or 175 or whatever, is he a bodybuilder? Why not, according to your criteria, he has "built his body.[/quote]

Bullshit. A 10lbs gain in muscle mass is called fucking PUBERTY. Any grown healthy male should be able to add 10lbs of muscle by simply going from sedentary to actually moving on a regular basis. Gaining 10lbs of muscle is not “building your body up”. Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.

I am sorry but my standards are a tad higher than the absolute minimum just so you can TRY to get a point across.

[quote]Carlitosway wrote:
I think many would agree with me when I say the amount of money you spend on food some times. Even if you bulk dirty. Adds up fast eating to gain. Yet I’ve learned how to find bargains left and right. I feel like a damn middle aged woman when it comes to finding sales on stuff LOL.

I can’t imagine how much people spend on food who are pushing 230-250 +/[/quote]

this

  • doing the laundry every 4-5 days
  • doing the dishes 5 times a day

[quote]medevac wrote:
Iron Dwarf wrote:
jasmincar wrote:

THIS is the most annoying thing about bodybuiding. I started saving money for a huge travel when I was 15, now I have 10K, preparing to leave to next summer ( I’ll have about 15K).I am gonna travel for about 2years probably. I know I will revert back to benching 135 and deadlifting 275, It is really annoying. I am torn between BB and my dream. It is screwing everything.

Why do you have to make a choice? Why can’t you travel AND continue training? It would be cool to seek out gyms abroad. It would be a great way to get acquainted with the physical culture of every place you visit. Make THAT your focus when you travel. Keep a daily journal. When you finally settle down in 2 years, you’ll have gained quite a bit of perspective, maturity, and hopefully some new muscle.

That would make a pretty awesome book…like Bridges of Madison County, only less gay and with an even smaller target demographic.[/quote]

Seriously, or if that were a blog I would read it. You gotta figure lifting weights will give you a connection with people all around the world. See a jacked person in any country and ask them where they lift, and suddenly you’ve made a new friend.

[quote]jasmincar wrote:
the fact the most people who gets into that are not interesting
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This statement is just… weird.

I don’t particularly enjoy preparing food, but I don’t think “hate” is the way I’d describe it. Honestly I don’t think there’s anything I hate about my life that’s related to weight training. There are plenty of other things to spend my ire on.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:

You know what YOU consider to be a bodybuilder. If a kid gained 10 lbs of muscle, and he’s still 155 or 175 or whatever, is he a bodybuilder? Why not, according to your criteria, he has "built his body.

Bullshit. A 10lbs gain in muscle mass is called fucking PUBERTY. Any grown healthy male should be able to add 10lbs of muscle by simply going from sedentary to actually moving on a regular basis. Gaining 10lbs of muscle is not “building your body up”. Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.

I am sorry but my standards are a tad higher than the absolute minimum just so you can TRY to get a point across.[/quote]

THAT is what I am trying to get a across - they are YOUR standards, and I would genuinely like to know what they are. I’ve already mentioned above that I feel it should be more cut-and-dried than individual standards, but call it a mild curiosity. If a 10 lb gain isn’t enough (and it wouldnt be puberty if it were an adult male, but seeing as how I use ‘kid’ a lot, I can see how I might’ve been unclear) then what is? Is 20 lbs enough? Where is the magic line crossed?

[quote]KBCThird wrote:
Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:

You know what YOU consider to be a bodybuilder. If a kid gained 10 lbs of muscle, and he’s still 155 or 175 or whatever, is he a bodybuilder? Why not, according to your criteria, he has "built his body.

Bullshit. A 10lbs gain in muscle mass is called fucking PUBERTY. Any grown healthy male should be able to add 10lbs of muscle by simply going from sedentary to actually moving on a regular basis. Gaining 10lbs of muscle is not “building your body up”. Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.

I am sorry but my standards are a tad higher than the absolute minimum just so you can TRY to get a point across.

THAT is what I am trying to get a across - they are YOUR standards, and I would genuinely like to know what they are. I’ve already mentioned above that I feel it should be more cut-and-dried than individual standards, but call it a mild curiosity. If a 10 lb gain isn’t enough (and it wouldnt be puberty if it were an adult male, but seeing as how I use ‘kid’ a lot, I can see how I might’ve been unclear) then what is? Is 20 lbs enough? Where is the magic line crossed?[/quote]

This is based on LOOKS, not some specific measurement. I think I have made that clear several times over by now.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.
[/quote]

SO true. I was SO skinny when I started, even after a 20-lb gain in my first month, I STILL looked thin. It took another 20 lbs gain (over the next 2 years) to look somewhat athletic. Fuck… I’m STILL small!

lol

Wanting to know the nutritional info on everything that I eat.

Spending free time daydreaming about the next workout/macro of next meal.

Curbing my behaviour around family and to a lesser extent friends to not come off as weird/obsessed e.g. “you WRITE DOWN what you do in the gym?? Like a …diary? that’s a bit obsessive don’t you think?”.

People not understanding the dedication required or even accepting that what i’m doing is worthwhile just because they’ve never set foot in a gym in their life.

From the posts above, not remembering what it was like before the epiphany of this lifestyle (especially food) is something i relate to, but i’m so glad i’m not a shapeless blob of ignorance, it’s like i’ve taken the red pill and this is real life.

I don’t get lectured in the gym like a few people seem to on here. A simple ‘look at me. look at you. who do you think knows more?’ is normally enough.

Oh and the laundry isn’t too bad, get yourself a 20 pack of plain t-shirts and you’re set.

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
jasmincar wrote:
the fact the most people who gets into that are not interesting

This statement is just… weird.

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let me explain this. I am gonna offend a lot of people now

For me, an interesting person is cultivated, different and genuine

The way I see it, most of the people who hangs out at gyms are douchebags. It take a certain kind of person to be attracted at first by curls ,NOxplode commercials and stuff like that.

I lift because it is very satisfying and constructive. It is like a challenge against myself.That’s what I like

I don’t want to mean that someone who goes at the gym isnt interesting, It is just that most of the people there are not the kind of people I want to be with. The kind of people who talks about their car, when they fighted at the bar, swear about their job in the construction, etc.For them the gym is more like a place to hangout than a mean. Those people are usually part of the vast majority who dont train hard, don’t squat, etc.

There is also proportionnately more idiots at my gym than at my school

It is just the way I see it. If there were more T-Nationers at my gym I am sure my views would change

[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Professor X wrote:
Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.

SO true. I was SO skinny when I started, even after a 20-lb gain in my first month, I STILL looked thin. It took another 20 lbs gain (over the next 2 years) to look somewhat athletic. Fuck… I’m STILL small!

lol

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If you’re anything like me it doesn’t matter how much bigger I get. I still think I look small.

Dealing with average joes that are determined to strike down my lifestyle because it upsets them. I don’t know if my dedication is off-putting or if I’m a dick about it and don’t realize, but whatever the reason, every now and then, I seem to come across someone that goes out of their way to make sure I know their feelings on what I do.

I had this guy stop me in the gym (“Stretchy” from my post in People at your Gym) and tell me, outright, that I was going to in a wheelchair before I am 30 if I don’t stop lifting heavy. I asked him three questions. I asked him how long he’s been training, to which he responded eight years. I asked him if he’d noticed any change in my body. He replied that, yes, he’d seen that I’d become leaner. I asked him if he noticed any change in his body. His response was a joke. “Erm, well uh, see, I’ve had this back issue, and I sometimes don’t have as much energy, it’s just that I’m doing this for fun…”

In his eight years of training, he hadn’t dented his beer gut, nor had he made any significant gains in the amount he can lift. He still military presses 85lbs, the same that he did years ago (in the Smith machine with a belt, no less).

Yet, he’s still convinced that I’m an idiot and he’s got all the answers. Ugh.

i hate having to prep my food and sometimes making myself eat
I hate cleaning a hell alot of pots and pans
I hate waking up hella early to work out
I hate forcing my ass to workout after hwk
I hate how my clothes dont fit and I have to buy new clothes all the time, esp pants
but itssss alll worth it, definetly

and i dont think there is a problem going out and drinking and partying, its all in moderation. As we mature we learn to use our judgment so just use it.I lift so I can live happy and healthy, but i dont live to lift. ya dig?!

[quote]Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:
Professor X wrote:
KBCThird wrote:

You know what YOU consider to be a bodybuilder. If a kid gained 10 lbs of muscle, and he’s still 155 or 175 or whatever, is he a bodybuilder? Why not, according to your criteria, he has "built his body.

Bullshit. A 10lbs gain in muscle mass is called fucking PUBERTY. Any grown healthy male should be able to add 10lbs of muscle by simply going from sedentary to actually moving on a regular basis. Gaining 10lbs of muscle is not “building your body up”. Most guys wouldn’t even look that different with a simple 10lbs gain in muscle.

I am sorry but my standards are a tad higher than the absolute minimum just so you can TRY to get a point across.

THAT is what I am trying to get a across - they are YOUR standards, and I would genuinely like to know what they are. I’ve already mentioned above that I feel it should be more cut-and-dried than individual standards, but call it a mild curiosity. If a 10 lb gain isn’t enough (and it wouldnt be puberty if it were an adult male, but seeing as how I use ‘kid’ a lot, I can see how I might’ve been unclear) then what is? Is 20 lbs enough? Where is the magic line crossed?

This is based on LOOKS, not some specific measurement. I think I have made that clear several times over by now.[/quote]

No it’s not. I’m not making it complicated at all, it’s actually rather simple. If you compete, you’re a bodybuilder. A big guy who doesn’t compete is a big guy, but not a bodybuilder. This is neither worse nor better, just different.

[quote]KBCThird wrote:

No it’s not. I’m not making it complicated at all, it’s actually rather simple. If you compete, you’re a bodybuilder. A big guy who doesn’t compete is a big guy, but not a bodybuilder. This is neither worse nor better, just different.[/quote]

Aaaah, so if someone looks like the guy in the middle, you would still call him a “bodybuilder” simply because he competed but you wouldn’t give that title to the guy weighing a solid 235lbs at 8% body fat in the gym who hasn’t competed yet?

That makes ZERO sense but thanks for playing.