[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
I always laugh when guys care about what “the majority of women like.”
The majority of women are fat and ugly. I don’t care what the majority likes.[/quote]
hahaha
Most men are too though and I think women’s answers may be affected by that. I suspect women often change what they say they like to make sure it supports who they are with or know.
But it’s complicated…if a woman likes a guy in the right way then everything about him is attractive, even if he’s fat or scrawny.[/quote]
That’s an interesting point. What do you mean by “in the right way”?
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In that indescribable, irrational and impossible to figure out way lol
I mean that in all seriousness–the mysterious combination of looks, humour, personality and intelligence that sometimes doesn’t make sense. Sometimes women are surprised by who they become attracted to.[/quote]
Well, I’m glad that a lady is saying that it is impossible to figure out! Imagine how hard it is for us fellas to understand haha.
[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
I always laugh when guys care about what “the majority of women like.”
The majority of women are fat and ugly. I don’t care what the majority likes.[/quote]
hahaha
Most men are too though and I think women’s answers may be affected by that. I suspect women often change what they say they like to make sure it supports who they are with or know.
But it’s complicated…if a woman likes a guy in the right way then everything about him is attractive, even if he’s fat or scrawny.[/quote]
That’s an interesting point. What do you mean by “in the right way”?
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In that indescribable, irrational and impossible to figure out way lol
I mean that in all seriousness–the mysterious combination of looks, humour, personality and intelligence that sometimes doesn’t make sense. Sometimes women are surprised by who they become attracted to.[/quote]
Well, I’m glad that a lady is saying that it is impossible to figure out! Imagine how hard it is for us fellas to understand haha.
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nothing to it but to do it
Sounds JUST like the woman who’s opinion I care about.
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Lol, I can’t tell you how many times I used to hear from my Mother, Grandmother, their friends, or even girls in my classes when I was still in school about how they didn’t find muscular men attractive. Great! Because I wanna go out with women who look like figure athletes, not skeleton skinny or fat chicks.
(I never understood why people feel the need to give you their unsolicited opinion in the first place, especially when they know it’s going to be a negative attitude towards your own beliefs)
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But we can’t walk up to a fat girl and say, “You know, I’ve never found fat girls attractive.”
Sounds JUST like the woman who’s opinion I care about.
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Lol, I can’t tell you how many times I used to hear from my Mother, Grandmother, their friends, or even girls in my classes when I was still in school about how they didn’t find muscular men attractive. Great! Because I wanna go out with women who look like figure athletes, not skeleton skinny or fat chicks.
(I never understood why people feel the need to give you their unsolicited opinion in the first place, especially when they know it’s going to be a negative attitude towards your own beliefs)
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But we can’t walk up to a fat girl and say, “You know, I’ve never found fat girls attractive.”
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why not?
Sounds JUST like the woman who’s opinion I care about.
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Lol, I can’t tell you how many times I used to hear from my Mother, Grandmother, their friends, or even girls in my classes when I was still in school about how they didn’t find muscular men attractive. Great! Because I wanna go out with women who look like figure athletes, not skeleton skinny or fat chicks.
(I never understood why people feel the need to give you their unsolicited opinion in the first place, especially when they know it’s going to be a negative attitude towards your own beliefs)
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But we can’t walk up to a fat girl and say, “You know, I’ve never found fat girls attractive.”
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why not?[/quote]
[quote]Marlind wrote:
They’d get mad and cry and shit, cos you know you can’t comment on fat people…[/quote]
That’s just a lack of dignity on their part. Could you imagine a guy getting mad and crying and whining if you called him fat? Nope, most grown men would just be like “screw off” or laugh and agree, or something like that. Brush it right off.
[quote]Marlind wrote:
They’d get mad and cry and shit, cos you know you can’t comment on fat people…[/quote]
That’s just a lack of dignity on their part. Could you imagine a guy getting mad and crying and whining if you called him fat? Nope, most grown men would just be like “screw off” or laugh and agree, or something like that. Brush it right off. [/quote]
Females usually, but most fat people, blame someone/something else for their condition and do not accept their condition. C’mon how many big-boned girls do you know, I bet a lot. They can comment on you being all eww for being muscley but you can’t comment on their fattness.
I don’t hesitate to pull the fat card anymore. If someone is making fun of my height or any other physical flaw (not that there’s a whole lot with me, of course) I go straight to the fat jokes now.
You guys talkin bout pulling the fat card on fat people or commenting om them are just pathetic.
First: live your own life instead of judging others. Secondly; just because you´ve managed to lift in a gym doesn´t mean you are ranked over those “fat people”.
You may have muscles and testosterone, but a guy who has to talk down to a woman ( or a man for that matter) about their physique can never call himself a man.
[quote]therealest wrote:
You guys talkin bout pulling the fat card on fat people or commenting om them are just pathetic.
First: live your own life instead of judging others. Secondly; just because you´ve managed to lift in a gym doesn´t mean you are ranked over those “fat people”.
You may have muscles and testosterone, but a guy who has to talk down to a woman ( or a man for that matter) about their physique can never call himself a man.
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o.O
[quote]therealest wrote:
You guys talkin bout pulling the fat card on fat people or commenting om them are just pathetic.
First: live your own life instead of judging others. Secondly; just because you´ve managed to lift in a gym doesn´t mean you are ranked over those “fat people”.
You may have muscles and testosterone, but a guy who has to talk down to a woman ( or a man for that matter) about their physique can never call himself a man.
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I’m not saying that I walk around insulting fatasses. I’m just saying that if a conversation gets into any sort of ball breaking, I don’t stay away from that because it might get people upset.
I think the reasoning for these “results”, is that women perceive men who are muscular as less likely to shower them in attention 24/7, and as we all know by now, it always has to be about them.
[quote]therealest wrote:
You guys talkin bout pulling the fat card on fat people or commenting om them are just pathetic.
First: live your own life instead of judging others. Secondly; just because you´ve managed to lift in a gym doesn´t mean you are ranked over those “fat people”.
You may have muscles and testosterone, but a guy who has to talk down to a woman ( or a man for that matter) about their physique can never call himself a man.
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Its ok that your fat. No need to go super defense high and mighty over it.
[quote]therealest wrote:
You guys talkin bout pulling the fat card on fat people or commenting om them are just pathetic.
First: live your own life instead of judging others. Secondly; just because youÃ?´ve managed to lift in a gym doesnÃ?´t mean you are ranked over those “fat people”.
You may have muscles and testosterone, but a guy who has to talk down to a woman ( or a man for that matter) about their physique can never call himself a man.
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Its ok that your fat. No need to go super defense high and mighty over it. [/quote]
I do like that he put “fat people” in quotes.
Cause, like, you know… 5’3" and 165 lbs. ain’t fat.
