??? uhhh no you don’t…
She’s not going to change.
same goes for women
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Well, I mean I have to, according to her, point blank period.
I’ve listened to a good deal of red pill and agree with most of what they say. Im’ aware of all of this and also that I am a people pleaser. I have no trouble doing more efforts hygiene wise but there are limits…
When she comes home I’ve done the bed, the laundry, the dishes, cleaned the surfaces, vacuumed TWICE. The other day we come home after the gym. She can’t ever chill. She goes straight to doing the cat’s litter (everyday), vacuuming again because he put a couple of pellet on the floor while we were at the gym, does another thing and says “I’m doing everything, don’t you see?”
I think I’m in a nightmare. We both know she has issue but come on.
“You forgot to squish the sponge hard enough. I’m not saying it to bother you but because if you don’t it stinks”.
The day before I went for a walk at 10 pm to finish my 15 000 steps. She refused I kissed her and sulked. The morning after she asked why I didn’t try and come more to her as she was sulking and pouting…
Why was she doing it? She probably thinks I’m talking to girls or even seeing someone on my night walk…
Now I’m coming home, and she’s sulking again, for something else.
Wish me luck
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Yeah, no.
Submission is something women are hardwired for, but it cant be bought or demanded; its earned.
Non-submissive women make my dick so soft it turns into an “innie”.
I’m not sayin that this is what you’re sayin, im just sayin that it sounds like your pee-pee is afraid of women with balls.
Kidding of course.
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My dude, i like you and i sympathize with you. I was you, only worse looking.
If you agree with red pill, why arent you applying it…? Passing shit tests is step 1.
I hope you take this in the way that a friend looking out for another friend would. I want the best for you.
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This is very accurate, if we’re talking literally.
But otherwise, no. I’m not afraid of women at all - i just don’t like women who act like men.
For the sake of clarity, you should specify actual subjugation, or BDSM play.
Im all for the latter, not at all for the former.
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You just haven’t had a woman that buys you cars and pays the mortgage yet.
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Havent you heard?
His money is our money, her money is her money.
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I almost married a woman that offered me an all expenses paid trip to Penn State for mechanical engineering, a car to get around with and basically a life of leisure & lifting.
All I had to do was make her a baby and give her complete control over every aspect of my life.
Suffice to say, I made the deans list at CCAC instead.
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Why didn’t you marry her?
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I dunno. She did butt stuff. Was totally down with being turned into an angry dragon, and had a good career with a massive medical mega-corp with its US home office just a short drive away.
I haven’t done everything right. I make decisions, then leave whether they were good or bad for hindsight.
She also just happens to have started the second phase of her life as a nurse in the same cardiac ICU I was in, so maybe theres still time? 
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In all seriousness, the only chance you have is to push back hard. You will not win this by giving in more. She’s looking for boundaries. If she doesn’t find one, she won’t make one herself.
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The only point i disagree with here is that he should be trying to save the relationship. If he were married, I’d be in 100% agreement - but that kind of work, the clawing back boundary enforcement in someone you’re only dating, just seems too much effort.
I love the direction your advice has gone with this.
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with all due respect, why are you with her?
This relationship (based on the information provided) seems toxic
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Gee my man I don’t even know. We.ve been seeing each other for two years.
Honestly I never tried to apply these but these shit test feel like mind game to me.
My mom would say I’m autistic but I don’t want to cloud my mind with these kind of things.
I guess I mean I don’t really understand these. The need for constant reassuring. For permanent presence with the other person. They would crawl into our heads if they could.
I never really bothered her or try to change her or test her. At some point I said I liked her, so that’s it. I’m aware nobody’s perfect, and everybody has flaws.
But why does it have to be a game? A game which feels like a chore. I just want to be myself and say and think and feel what I want, not submit to the rules of some man/woman secular game.
I guess I prefer freedom to this.
Honestly my thirst for companionship has greatly diminished these last couple of years.
Maybe because I’m more at peace with myself? My job, my purpose and all that.
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I meant this.
your dick, your choice
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Yeah. I’m not big on that. I like for people to be themselves, so that others can make an informed decision about who they’re with and whether or not they should be.
Trying to be something someone isn’t or trying to turn somebody into something they’re not is basically the essence of being inhuman.
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Have you ever tried literally just doing that?
You’ll pass those tests when you do. Seriously.
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For the record, I’m not into enforced subjugation - but I’m a firm believer in willful subjugation.
Many women will choose to submit to a man they deem is their best option. I believe it works better this way, for both the men and women.
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