Oh man, guidance is different from being an asshole.
It really really is.
Please refer to my post above where I quoted all the asshole-related-stuff that asshole said and if you still feel it wasn’t him being an asshole then I don’t know what to say.
I have been raised in a very educated and professional family, we don’t have a habit of throwing shade, throwing insults, mocking people.
I’m sorry, but once again, if that is something you enjoy doing, please do not talk to me (anyone for that matter).
Come on, man. You’re being a bit sensitive. Perhaps that’s how you like to be spoken to, but that doesn’t make it universal.
Let’s look at the inverse: what would we call someone that repeatedly asks for advice from the top participants in a field, and then argues and dismisses said advice when he receives it?
I’m not coming to your log to pick a fight with you, and lifting weights is just a silly hobby we like so who cares, but I think maybe we’re finding ways to get offended about nothing.
Supercar I want you to think of the people here as coaches, not bullies. A coach will directly tell you what you’re doing wrong and what you need to improve on.
Saying “my family is better than yours” to set up the baseline is pretty passive-aggressive.
I may be looking at this the wrong way: did you grow up playing sports? There’s likely just ways many of us are used to receiving coaching that you aren’t. That can create gap here.
You know I didn’t mean something like that, I am just giving you context, in my family, we never grew up with slurs, insults, we were “educated,” to not say things like this. I don’t see this as me saying “my family is better.” In school they should at least teach you to treat people with respect no matter who they are, what they are.
No I didn’t, but I haven’t heard of a coach who shits on his clients you know.
Nah that mf has done it repeatedly, again and again and again.
And he said it pretty damn directly.
It’s no miscommunication. He is an asshole, I don’t want to talk to him.