Always appreciate being in the same line of thinking as @T3hPwnisher! I loved the Muscle Mag Periodization concept because it gave you so much freedom:
First, nothing was a life sentence; if you hated what you were doing, you actually had the freedom to just finish it up rather than worry about it because it’s just a month.
Second, you had the freedom to try anything because, again, it’s just four weeks; how wrong can you go?
Doubling down on our second point, you get the freedom to try anything over the long haul - what we discovered was that lifting the weights was the secret sauce, not how we did it.
So, taking the above (did I just invent some accidental Weider Principles?), we can look for your next route:
Percentages are irritating/ pressuring you. I hate them too. We know that you don’t have to use them (especially for your goals), so let’s throw out anything where that’s the feature.
You don’t want lifting to take up all of your life/ energy, because you’re focused on other things right now. Probably not the time to learn some super intricate system that involves 8 hour workouts.
You like some variety, so you don’t want to be locked into a “grease the groove” type program.
So, now, all the suggestions above make sense and any can work. I’ll throw in a couple caveats:
- You do have to give something time to work. I’ve found I really like the Meadows’ methodology, but the individual programs are all interchangeable. So I’d lean toward giving a “system” a go - you can do that for years (if you want) whilst still leaving lots of room for variation in your weeks.
- I do think there’s value in following a semblance of a plan from someone else. It lets you get your own head out of it, which can be a huge relief, and it protects you - most of us that like this will get too stupid on our own.
So now, I like two of the suggestions above more so:
- Tactical Barbell seems like a great fit. It’s a system that you can plug and play over time, giving you variety, relatively minimalist, fitting into your life, and using all the same movements you know and love, so you don’t have to get irritated learning new things. Most importantly, you seem intrigued.
- Conjugate seems cool too. Even more variety and freedom than the above, but that can be a double-edged sword: you’ll have to do some thinking and some of the days can get long.
- Dan John is obviously a genius, and if the book excites you - go for it. Based on your posts, though, I think you might feel a little trapped right now.
- I also like @FlatsFarmer’s point you can just go in with “8 sets of pull” or whatever. If that feels like it reduces stress, that’s a solid route too. Sometimes that can feel more stressful, because I have to decide what to do.
I also don’t think you have to be focused on making perfect progress all the time. Just lifting weights is the key. If you try something from the list, hate it after 4 weeks and try something else, eventually you’ll settle into a fit and you really didn’t give up any real time in the grand scheme of things. You’ve earned more leeway than somebody trying out their first couple months of lifting.