You judge your women based on 1 sexual experience just like you base your TRT protocol after 6 days.
When are you going to take a step back and wonder if MAYBE, JUST MAYBE, your complete outlook on life needs a re-work from the ground up?
Good sex is developed with time. Sometimes the sex is amazing the first time and sometimes it isn’t (just like with a TRT protocol). These things need WORK and TIME and EFFORT to get good. So if you’re dumping women after one sexual experience because she didn’t blow you exactly the way you wanted her to, you’re NUTS. With time you teach them what you want and they teach you. You become more comfortable with each other and everything gets better.
Your problem is you want immediate gratification. If it isn’t perfect RIGHT NOW you change get rid of it and do something else. Just watch how well that will work out for you in the long run (it won’t, trust me).
I imagine someone with a high sex drive might appear more needy. That makes sense. If someone wants something badly he’s not going to be relaxed about the matter. Actually most womanizers are damn needy.
You can have a crazy sex drive and keep things under control when the time comes. You can want something badly and play it cool to obtain it. You don’t need to show all your cards.
Just to be clear, I"m not saying make women wait a week until you call them, because they will tell you to take a hike. But not right away. At least demonstrate that you have a life, things to do, people relying on you etc… but that you will find the time to reach out to her as soon as you can.
Guys guys… This thread is filled with some funny high school shit. I think we should go back to square one. The OP wants to know how not to repel women. Forget everything else. As stated earlier… dont be desperate. If you get past the dumb shit, you can count on getting your dick sucked, and a ham and cheese sandwich to replenish you. If youre both in fucking mode, it can be fun. If youre off your game and she’s a player that gets dicked by every guy she likes, then forget about it. At this point love and relationships shouldnt be crossing your mind. So dial it back. OP would be happy with a simple handjob from a pretty chick at this point in his life.
I also wouldnt buy that number. I know guys that fuck new girls as easy as picking vegetables from the grocery store and they are not anywhere nearly such numbers
But hey, if he says so it must be true, right Maybe he has a black book with all the names inside lol
I can assure you it is the truth. Keep in mind I’m almost 46. I went through periods of my life, years at a time, where that is all that I did and nothing else. Sounds crazy, but it’s true.
When I say no intent, there is more to it than that. If you come across as interesting, confident etc but not neccessarily show any intent, women will wonder why you’re not showing intent, when most other guys do, and will instead show intent on their end to attract your attention. Even that is probably a poor explanation. There are a lot of places online to learn about this kind of thing and I was definitly not the only one doing it. I’d spot guys doing it after awhile… On the street, in bars. I’d tell them I knew what they were doing and they’d laugh… Oftentimes we’d become friends and wingmen. There are even meet-up groups in most cities where guys get together to learn about it. Then you add the ease of things like Tinder and it was easy to setup 3 dates a day.
And @vonko1988, yes, I had a black book for a long time when I was at around the 400 range but I lost it during a move… That was in my mid 30s.
@unreal24278 Just do the math. A slow week was 3. Even just 3 a week is 150 a year (that’s just 1 year). I’m in my mid-forties. I spent years essentially just ‘sport fucking’ until I got fed up of it.
It’s 2020. If you blind approach women now, except maybe at a club/bar, they will get creeped out and join a movement. If you want to get laid, get on the apps, say something funny, meet for drinks, have sex, repeat as often as you can stand being around the crazies. I made it about 2 years before it got depressing. If you want something real, quit working game and just relax. I met my wife right when I decided I was done with the games and just relaxed. Also, connection equals amazing sex. Find that connection and mind blowing sex will follow. I’m guessing those with high numbers would trade most of them for one transcendent connection.
