50/50 should be your new mantra. Lol. 50% chance youll score is the key to success
Love the SV reference, @bigmistake2 
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I need that song. Can you link us? LOL
If you just want to get laid, the apps (tinder, etc.) are as easy as it gets. I had no idea. Make them laugh, ask them to drinks, get nasty, repeat. That was a lot of fun… until it wasn’t. After being in a 20+ year marriage I had to learn how to date from scratch. I had no idea it would be so easy. Easy to get laid, that is, not easy to find someone of substance who you want to spend your life with. That’s a different animal all together. If you want to meet someone of substance and get into an actual relationship, just stop worrying about it. Be genuine, be quietly confident and relax. It will happen as soon as you stop trying too hard.
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So sad true. But even if you find someone of substance first you have to fuck her and fuck her well then you can even think of a relationship
OMFG
It’s times like these that I realize why I’m married and why others aren’t…
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You got me at this
at my age… this doesn’t matter lol
untrue, but this kind of mentality is a surefire way to stay single for a while
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Because you’re tall… thats why (just kidding)… the aurora of confidence can be EVERYTHING when it comes to picking up women, which is why I’ve been so unsuccessful (better now though, Europe increased my generalised level of self confidence a LOT)
Dude, I had a wingman who was 5’6" and not much to look at many, many years ago. This guy picked up ten times more women than I ever could on a good day. He wasn’t rich either. Just to say, with women, it has nothing to do with looks or money or height or any of that shit. That’s what single guys use as their excuse when they can’t make anything happen.
I spoke to my wife on the phone for THREE WEEKS before we even met. The day we actually met we were already in a relationship at that point. The sex was just a bonus. People today have things ass backwards. Fuck, and then decide. What???
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And how exactly has this worked for you the other way?
They meet and fuck, then they get to know the one another, try to change each other because they find out stuff they don’t like, then they go to counseling and complain to the shrink, the husband says fix my spouse, the wife says fix my husband.
It’s ridiculous!
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I do not get the stupid shit that goes through your head sometimes and how it makes sense to you. SMFH
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Oh the stories I could tell.
I found the dating world was really different from my mid 20’s to mid 30’s. I was in a long relationship from when I was like 26 to 33’ish, so in that timeframe all sorts of things came about… like socially accepted dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.
I do have to say the mentality of girls I was meeting the last time I was single was totally different than in my 20’s. They had pretty much given up on trying to act like good little girls that were waiting until they found the right guy.
I found I was in pretty high demand this time around. There just aren’t that many early 30’s guys that are decent looking, have good jobs, don’t have kids and have never been married.
Or maybe they were just more interested because I grew my hair out and didn’t look like Eminem anymore, who knows 
But I met my now wife pretty quickly, fortunately before I made any random babies with strangers, because child support would suck
Here’s the other thing that you are COMPLETELY disregarding.
The first time my wife and I had sex it was awkward as hell. We were both so self conscious. Over the course of our relationship she is now, BY FAR, the best sexual partner I have EVER had, and trust me when I say I’ve had a LOT of experiences. I won’t even mention a number because you’ll never believe me anyway. Can you imagine if I had dumped her just because the first time was awkward?? This isn’t how things work. This is the mindset of someone with a complete lack of emotional and intellectual maturity. If you are compatible on the relationship side of things the sex stuff will come on its own, over time, as you become more and more comfortable and open with each other.
I gotta say, some of the stuff you say here just makes me want to scream, and it has nothing to do with your suggested “high E2 levels”. It’s just outright stupid advice.
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Haha, I remember the first sober sex w/my now wife… I was like well, that was pretty awkward, but I guess this is getting more serious?
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Gonna throw some soy on the fire here. Generally, women have more satisfying sex when there is love involved.
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Absolutely true.
If you have a little brains you will
What you describe as your story with your wife is the lucky exception to the rule but it is also a result of having met and been with so many girls before, the experience you ve gained with interaction to women
But in my experience what is described in the romantic movies just doesnt work in real life
My position has a very simple logic.
Im highly sexual and like to have a lot of sex. Sex is one of the most important things for me in a relationship. Now matter how great is the communication with somebody if sex sucks, sorry I have no business there. So I wanna do this screening as quickly as possible.
Guess what. Women are extremely highly sexual(surprise) and except looking for confidence and security in a man they also value sex a lot, even much more than us.
You saying if I have a little brain like you I would understand? I’m not going to dumb myself down, to get you buddy.