My upper trap/ neck area has been killing me for a few weeks. I finally went yesterday and got a deep tissue massage, which I’d not done before. The lady beat me up and did a great job on that area, my lats and my IT bands. I’m crazy sore in my upper traps today, but more like DOMS than the knotted muscle feeling.
I did legs today and used 275 for the slow squats. I then screwed around and did a lot of belt squat and GHR stuff for Instagram videos for the gym - basically how to set up and why to use kind of thing.
In other news, my daughter has become extremely self-conscious. It all stems from wanting to be the most popular person, but she’s worried about every social interaction. She is uncomfortable in all her clothes, wants “abs by Memorial Day” (she’s 10!), and is worried nobody likes her any time they happen to even speak to someone else. It’s a tough time for her. On the flip side, she has decided to work out on her own, and is picking out her own clothes, so I’m proud of how she takes action. I absolutely don’t want her chasing some crazy nonsense and eating nothing and all that, so I’m just trying to focus on keeping healthy foods available (without even really discussing food - that’s just what’s in the house) and praising her performance improvements (like she went a whole spin class the other day!). I think softball starting back up in a couple weeks will be a huge help for all of us. She doesn’t want to hear it from me, because I’m a boy and don’t care what people think, etc.
To complete the role reversal, my son is crushing it and has found some real confidence. He was on their school tv announcements all week, reading what lunch would be, etc., and was totally comfortable. His teacher sent us videos of it all week, which was great to see. He’s in a “running club,” where they work up to a 5k by running a couple times a week, and has been challenging himself to do another lap, etc. each time. We had the junior high briefing this week, where they tell you what kids will be nervous about. Middle school was a year earlier in Georgia, so we’d already kind of prepped once before. The big thing that scares them is their lockers and managing a combination, but he even said “I already practiced, so I’m good;” it’s a nice turn for him to not be in panic mode.
I think that’s all. Everything else is normal work and life. We’re kind of in logistics ambiguity with a couple things right now, navigating which is a comfort zone for me, so no biggies there.