I’m 20, last about 25-30 minutes, shorter or longer if needs be. I’ve never gone more than 35 or 40 minutes without the use of drugs. For those of you with reservations about alcohol and pot, from a weightlifting standpoint, ones that I use that help for lasting longer are speed/ice and X. I tend to be able to last about as long as I want while speeding, and the same is true of X, though I usually don’t have sex until after I’ve come down and am just wired.
To whoever asked about lasting longer: try doing kegel exercises (no weight required). They make women more easily orgasmic (so I’m told) and help men last longer (probably stronger orgasms too). Ask your girlfriend or do a web search.
Guys, I’m smelling a bit of bullshit here. Are some of you claiming to have 45 minutes of hard+fast thrusting in the same position before you nut? I mean, full-force, as fast as you can, 5-strokes a second sex?
I call bullshit because top-speed sex is like running at full speed, and I doubt there are many guys who can run at full speed for 45 fucking minutes.
If you're saying that you can go 45 minutes at a slower tempo and then building to the hard+fast strokes, that's possible, sure. Personally, none of my women have ever wanted me to go that long: Most cum far before then, and some got a bit raw.
Another thing that matters is position. I cum quickest in missionary, I take longer in doggie, and I’ve never cum once from girl on top. I had an ex who was multi-orgasmic and she didn’t mind riding me for an hour or more.
10 - 15 minutes is definitly a quicky. More than an hour and I’ll be sore the next day. Average - 30min
I feel that if I can make it all the way in once I’ve accomplished something. Most of the time, halfway in, and it’s all over. 
Seriously though, unless your Mr. Tantric or are on the third time that night, I’d say it’s more minutes than hours(or seconds!).
Well, my wife hates sex, so she wants it to be as quick as possible. She doesn’t want foreplay either. When the time for her “duty” arrives, she gets naked, lies down on the bed on her back and puts a towel under her behind to catch the semen that will soon be leaking out of her vagina. I then have to coat my penis with baby oil (I always have to be first for some reason), then I hand the bottle to her and she spreads it in her vagina (if she didn’t she’d be dry as a bone). Then she lifts up her knees with her hands and spreads her legs and I enter her. She wraps her legs around my behind at this point. I think that feels sexy but she just does it to rest her legs. Then she closes her eyes and purses her lips and waits for me to start. Then I scoot up and enter her and start deep thrusting. She’d like the thrusting to last about 1 minute, which sometimes happens, but I don’t like my pleasure to be over so fast, so I try to stretch it as much as I can, about 3-5 minutes. Once I get over about 3 minutes, she starts complaining that her legs are getting tired, so I have to hurry. Once I’ve decided I’ve pushed my time as much as I can without pissing her off, I speed up my strokes and it takes another 30 seconds or so until it’s over. She gets up as soon as possible to dispose of the semen-soaked towel and comes back in a few minutes dressed in her nightgown. Then it’s lights off. The whole process start to finish is about 10 minutes with my pleasure lasting about 3 minutes.
Just an extra note… our sex might not be the best, but it was enough to conceive 4 kids. I’m just happy that she doesn’t just cut off sex altogether, which she admits she’d prefer. She’s good to me like that. I’m just grateful for the 3 or so minutes of pleasure she allows me those 1 or 2 times a week.
You’ve left me speachless… There’s so much I want to say yet dont know where to begin.
Copsfan, I’m sorry.
If all of you actually have the time during sex to time yourselves - I mean, do all of you have sex with electrodes taped to your bodies with men/women with lab coats obverving w/stop watches? Is it THAT clinical? Procreating is procreating, sex is sex and HOT sex is HOT sex. And I know when I’ve just had HOT sex - I don’t need to time it…geez.
Your wife doesnt love you, it sounds like. Women arent much use anyway, now if this is how she wants to act shes got to go. Do you really like to hear her interesting comments all day long? Do you look forward to doing everything she wants to all the time? Shes just being selfish and I bet she blames you for her not liking a dick. But you deserve it for being a fan of cops Ha ha…
I think Cockmongrel is attempting to convince you to dump your wife for him. He likes cock as you can tell by his screen name, cockmongrel (what is a mongrel but a dog, hence, he’s a cock dog, chasing dick.)
Yes thats correct. Please dump your wife, join Gaysteel and I in a bathhouse. The guy from the anal sex post will be there and we will take turns spanking your “bill h”. No Ratso, you and Rookie cant come…
Anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 and a half hours for me. Not 5 reps a second mind you, but my tempo is still decent.
Depends on a lot of stuff, the possible butt-ugliness of your partner, expirience, mood, time frame, whether you want to impress or just unload, lubrication, condom type, position, intoxication.
Just do your best. I found that clenching my abs or biceps real hard (keeping constant tension, not relaxing) helps me prolong the in-out period.
And if you cum early, no sweat-you still have a tongue and a couple of fingers to work with, until you arise to the situation. Just grin and say: Oh, I expect it to be around any time soon.
Then get busy.
To tell you the truth, I do sometimes get a little depressed and ask myself how I ever let it get this bad. But I guess it’s something that just gets worse over time and you keep thinking it’s going to get better on its own and you don’t spend the time or effort to make it right. Then, the next thing you know, 10 years have gone by and you’ve both gotten used to things the way they are. I guess there are some positive aspects… like it’s predictable. I always know exactly what to expect, and there’s no pressure for me to perform in any way. And believe it or not, for the precious few minutes I’m in her, it is quite pleasurable, and I can try to forget the circumstances. Of course, I do get let down with a bump as soon as it’s over and she jumps up to dump the towel in the washer. But I feel at least I’m better off than guys that have to put up with nothing at all for years on end, which happens more than you probably think. And I bet my situation is also not that uncommon.
Another advantage is the time factor. If we’ve stayed up later than we should and have to get up early… with a normal wife, I would think, hey, no time for sex tonight, I’ve got to get up early. But with her, we both know, it’s only going to take 10 minutes, start to finish, so maybe we do have time.
You’re kiddin’ right?? Have you asked her if she is gay?? I’m not trying to be funny, life is too short!
mikeh I was thinking the same thing… either gay or sexually abused. Tho I hope I’m wrong.
Unfortunately I’m not kidding. Sometimes, if I think on it too long, it brings me to tears. I asked her if she likes women and at first she got pissed that I would even ask such a thing, but she finally answered “no” straight out. I also asked several times if she was abused and she said no.
I really do wonder if she loves me. She keeps saying she does but actions speak louder than words. She doesn’t like hugging, kissing, or touching of any kind either. I really wish I had a normal wife.