[quote]Professor X wrote:
jjoseph_x wrote:
There’s a guy at my gym who’s quick to offer help to anyone. If he sees someone lifting incorrectly, he’ll politely tell them that their form is wrong and he’ll tell them why. He’ll suggest exercises, and if he see someone doing something that he’s never seen before, he’ll go over and ask about it for his own edification.
He’s not one of the trainers (he knows more than all of the trainers at the gym put together than multiplied by a thousand)… he just likes lifting and wants to help others too. That’s it.
Ideally, if anything, I think that is what T-Nation (or any site, really) should be about.
I’m not quite sure where you live, but most experienced lifters will tell you that many of the lifters in the gym today wouldn’t even listen to any advice if someone just walked up to them out of the blue. Many would even get offended. That is one reason I keep to myself unless someone approaches me directly.
Look at the several posts in that “poor advice” thread where these guys are laughing at people who told them the RIGHT thing to do. That is the prevailing attitude out there now. every skinny newbie with an internet connection thinks they are more experienced than people who outweigh them by 60lbs of muscle.
It is like some of you are arguing simply because Cali-Law wrote the initial post…in spite of the overall message being correct.[/quote]
You’re right a lot of people won’t listen if someone walks up to them and gives them good advice… but some do.
I remember that there was a kid who was doing BB curls with way too much weight (it looked like he was doing a good morning). The trainer at the gym was pointing it out to another lifter and said “I should tell him something but he’s young and dumb and probably wouldn’t listen anyhow”.
The guy that I was talking about earlier went to the kid and told him that he was lifting too much weight and that he should really watch his form. And, surprise, surprise, the kid actually listened.
I don’t doubt that, in most cases, most people would have blown him off and kept wrecking their backs… but at least he tried and it worked. If the kid didn’t, the guy would probably have never offered him any advice again.
I don’t disagree that people should research before asking questions if possible… but if they don’t, I don’t think that they’re worthless idiots.
Maybe, Biotest could force new users to only have write access to the beginner forums for the first x weeks or months and put some articles in there on searching and references to a bunch of existing articles that deal with frequently asked questions (like Vroom’s compliation).
That way people who don’t want to deal with beginners won’t have to. At the same time, the beginners will be able to learn the ropes and figure out how to use the site to learn stuff on their own.
It’s only a suggestion and it’s far from a perfect solution… but it beats the heck out of simple berating them until they pack-up and go.