[quote]orion wrote:
Then you will like this:
19 minutes in, this has me in stitches, though its really not funny at all. [/quote]
Wow, that was hilarious on several levels. That extreme mockery and those gestures.
Actually, thanks for the video. Someone needed to knock some fucking sense into me. Been in a rut for awhile now.
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Pussy whipped?
A few years ago at a family function, my dad AND my brother both ganged up on me and told me I was pussy whipped. The fact that my wife and I have a successful and happy marriage where we both fall into our necessary roles without nagging had been perceived by my bro and dad to be a weakness on my part.
What a joke. My brother’s marriage didn’t last 3 years, and although my dad’s still married to my mom for over 50 years, he admitted later to me that only 17 of those years were happy.
A little give-and-take, compromise without losing integrity, and open communication within a marriage can sometimes be perceived by others inaccurately - as pussy-whipped.
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My wife and I met when I was nineteen and she was sixteen. Been together since. Ups and downs to be sure but still going strong as ever. It’s scary how compatible we are. I pretty much knew within the first week I was in big trouble with this girl.
The best move she made early in the relasionship was NOT putting out. Actually I made a twenty dollar bet with a friend that I would pop her cherry by a certain date. I lost. Funny thing is I told her about the bet a few months later and she told me she would have put out but aunt Flo was in town lol.
The first couple years I was PW but I was a willing participant. Steady tail was nice.
[quote]bond james bond wrote:
The first couple years I was PW but I was a willing participant.[/quote]
Based on the way you wrote that, it sounds like that changed. When, why, how?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]bond james bond wrote:
The first couple years I was PW but I was a willing participant.[/quote]
Based on the way you wrote that, it sounds like that changed. When, why, how?[/quote]
Short answer. We don’t have to be together ALL THE FUCKING TIME! I’m going out with friends tonight, you ain’t going and BTW I’m also going fishing this weekend so I won’t see you for a few days, you’ll live.
[quote]bond james bond wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]bond james bond wrote:
The first couple years I was PW but I was a willing participant.[/quote]
Based on the way you wrote that, it sounds like that changed. When, why, how?[/quote]
Short answer. We don’t have to be together ALL THE FUCKING TIME! I’m going out with friends tonight, you ain’t going and BTW I’m also going fishing this weekend so I won’t see you for a few days, you’ll live.
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I see what you mean. What caused you to make that transition? I mean, it seems kind of a big jump to seeing each other 24/7, to actually being ok with some time apart. I’m almost certain there was something to spur that.
Just remember that your friends are the ones that gonna carry your coffin, not them girls.
[quote]bond james bond wrote:
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Pussy whipped?
A few years ago at a family function, my dad AND my brother both ganged up on me and told me I was pussy whipped. The fact that my wife and I have a successful and happy marriage where we both fall into our necessary roles without nagging had been perceived by my bro and dad to be a weakness on my part.
What a joke. My brother’s marriage didn’t last 3 years, and although my dad’s still married to my mom for over 50 years, he admitted later to me that only 17 of those years were happy.
A little give-and-take, compromise without losing integrity, and open communication within a marriage can sometimes be perceived by others inaccurately - as pussy-whipped.
[/quote]
My wife and I met when I was nineteen and she was sixteen. Been together since. Ups and downs to be sure but still going strong as ever. It’s scary how compatible we are. I pretty much knew within the first week I was in big trouble with this girl.
The best move she made early in the relasionship was NOT putting out. Actually I made a twenty dollar bet with a friend that I would pop her cherry by a certain date. I lost. Funny thing is I told her about the bet a few months later and she told me she would have put out but aunt Flo was in town lol.
The first couple years I was PW but I was a willing participant. Steady tail was nice.
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Great post! And congrats on your longevity, compatibility, and effort to make things work!
lol @ her not putting out!
I was like you in that all my previous relationships, I “got it” on the first or 2nd date. But my future wife held me off for 5 whole weeks, and by the time we did it, it was HEAVENLY!
Twenty seven years later, still going strong.
I have uncovered the perfect video example of EVERYTHING IN THIS THREAD. Here you will find the American woman in its formative years, bent on its mission of UTTER DOMINANCE. But wait! What is this? Why, it’s the Asian woman, shaking her head gently in disapproval. Can she save our young anti-heroin from her man-pounding ways? Or will our pussy-whipped hero have to take matters into his own hands? WHAT can sweeten the temper of the out-of-control American woman?
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Can she save our young anti-heroin from her man-pounding ways? [/quote]
Probably not.
[quote] WHAT can sweeten the temper of the out-of-control American woman?
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Rum, buggery and the lash.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I have uncovered the perfect video example of EVERYTHING IN THIS THREAD. Here you will find the American woman in its formative years, bent on its mission of UTTER DOMINANCE. But wait! What is this? Why, it’s the Asian woman, shaking her head gently in disapproval. Can she save our young anti-heroin from her man-pounding ways? Or will our pussy-whipped hero have to take matters into his own hands?[/quote]
Lol @ the video and that description.
But in all seriousness, what can one do?
It seems any girl these days who is at all “dating”, has at least a couple guys she’s talking to at one time. Which pretty much means, she’ll be texting them either overtly or covertly if you’re on a date with her. She comes over to your place for the night, and gets at least a couple goodnight texts from the various guys she’s talking to while the phone’s on your night stand.
As a guy, what’s the appropriate way to deal with that without being jealous or controlling or whatever else she wants to throw at you to justify her disrespect? Especially if you won’t put up with it, she’ll just find a guy who will?
And the answer isn’t as simple as “just find a quality girl”… because even the quality girls do that these days, especially with texting being so pervasive.
The appropriate way to deal with that is properly called a “foursome”.
[quote]kamui wrote:
The appropriate way to deal with that is properly called a “foursome”. [/quote]
Be better if she brought her friends.
But seriously…
If most [younger American] women these days play multiple guys as just a matter of course – especially enabled by smartphones and texting – how should you deal with it?
Treating them with an equal level of disrespect just seems like a cop-out solution.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
But seriously…
If most [younger American] women these days play multiple guys as just a matter of course – especially enabled by smartphones and texting – how should you deal with it?
Treating them with an equal level of disrespect just seems like a cop-out solution.[/quote]
You want to treat someone with more respect than he/she treats you?
What for?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
But seriously…
If most [younger American] women these days play multiple guys as just a matter of course – especially enabled by smartphones and texting – how should you deal with it?
Treating them with an equal level of disrespect just seems like a cop-out solution.[/quote]
Just do what comes natural. Shit has to be mutual.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
But seriously…
If most [younger American] women these days play multiple guys as just a matter of course – especially enabled by smartphones and texting – how should you deal with it?
Treating them with an equal level of disrespect just seems like a cop-out solution.[/quote]
DOnt know how old you are but I am 28.
One of the best things I have learned is if women are playing games with you you should get another woman on the scene.
You gotta fight fire with fire when they do that but tell me this, do you want a woman who likes attention from other guys when she window shops?
“hi I’m George, my dick is hung down to my knee and I have a good job”
“Hi my name is mike, I work in the City, pretty good prospects and you should check out my apartment sometime”
“yo bitch, when you gonna give me a hollah out over here? Missing you”
So which one do you want to compete with? All 3 or none at all?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]kamui wrote:
The appropriate way to deal with that is properly called a “foursome”. [/quote]
Be better if she brought her friends.[/quote]
Better ? Not necessarily.
It depends on how much cardiovascular training you need and/or want.