One Thing that Changed Everything

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:

[quote]Robert A wrote:
I really cannot take the idea that grapplers somehow have less heart/willpower than others seriously. Just reading some of kmcnyc’s posts makes my joints hurt.

My take on who can hang/survive is that people panic/bail out of “unfamiliar” more than anything else.

Guys who aren’t used to taking kicks to the legs start doing stupid shit about the time the 3rd one lands on them.

Guys who aren’t used to getting punched in the face go to pieces when they eat jabs for more than a round.

Guys who aren’t used to rolling can have serious panic attacks just from being under someone with really heavy, tight, control. Something about the 4rth minute of breathing sweat and mat that makes people lose their shit.

I have, multiple times, watched people have a mini breakdown because they never experienced how badly certain wrist locks can hurt. On several occasions these were tough, trained guys. People used to being punched and kicked. I am not saying a nikyo hurts any worse than taking a second or third punch on a broken nose, but it was different enough to be “scary pain” instead of “just pain”.

Regards,

Robert A[/quote]

Totally agree. People tend to play to their strengths and avoid their weaknesses (in general, not just in the Martial Arts/Combat sports arena).

If you take a world champion boxer and put him/her on a wrestling mat against even your average high school varsity wrestler he/she is going to get crushed. Likewise, take a gold medalist wrestler and put him/her in a boxing ring with any decent amateur boxer and the wrestler is probably getting KO’d. Or take a world champion Muay Thai fighter and put him/her into a full contact stick fight against one of the Dog Brothers and the MT fighter is in serious trouble. But put one of the Dog Brothers into a MT fight with that same MT fighter and they are probably getting destroyed.

Whether any of these hypothetical individuals has the drive, desire, and humility to stick with this new skill set long enough to actually develop it to a high level has nothing to do with their original style and everything to do with that individual himself/herself.[/quote]
Truth

As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.[/quote]

I agree; which is why I said ‘competition BJJ’. I think Irish once said that boxing and judo would make for a nice SD combo; I agree.

My apologies to Blaze, because my response below is pretty much the opposite of “one thing that changed everything”, it’s “same rules as last year”.

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.[/quote]

I agree; which is why I said ‘competition BJJ’. I think Irish once said that boxing and judo would make for a nice SD combo; I agree.
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I think BJJ is giving you a hell of a lot more than just “joint manipulation, timing, and strategy.”

I toe the party line with the idea that rolling around on the floor in “dry hump” range is a very bad plan A. It is however a pretty common place to end up when things go purely to hell. MWP’s statement about using his tools to get back to the feet is gold in my opinion.

I am also going to offer up that while “weapons” are usually sighted as being exceptionally problomatic on the ground my experience in training such things is that position matters a hell of a lot to being able to draw and use the weapons you are carrying and to fuck up the other guy’s attempts to do the same. In fact, the positions that favor you in an “armed environment” match up with the classic BJJ hierarchy.

I am not saying that a knife or gun will not wreck your shit, just that you have a better chance of having a happy ending to your story(instead of you being the happy ending for some mortician who’s kid needs braces) if you can get into a good position. Some folks in this thread may think that is lunacy, but I invite them to grab a blue gun for their holster or a drone knife and see how it shakes out.

Not that every, or even most BJJ schools practice or have interest in such things.

Another observation: I am not going to point fingers at anyone specific, but a few of you are about a cunt hair away from falling into the “I’ll just” trap. And I am going to say “I’ll just” never gets it done.

“I don’t need to worry about boxers. I’ll just kick 'em in the balls”

“I don’t need to worry about clinching with a nak muay. I’ll just choke and headbutt.”

“I don’t need to worry about grapplers. I’ll just gouge/bite.”

“I don’t need to worry about getting out struck. I’ll just take them down.”

“I don’t have to fight. I’ll just shoot them.”

This shit never works out. Generally you have to have the fundamentals down before bringing the dirty/nasty/banned from competition stuff is going to do a whole lot of good. Getting off the groin kick when you are eating jabs and straights doesn’t seem to happen. Trying to butt when you are getting ragdolled and kneed is a tall order. Gouging and biting works a hell of a lot better WITH control and position than without. Taking down someone when you are already on queer street is a tall order. It is way, way easier to draw when you have space and time.

Unfortunately, there are no free rides. People who practice accomplishing something tend to be better at it. It is important that we all resolve to be brutal enough, soon enough. However aggression alone is not cruise control to victory. It is skillfull application of technique coupled with that brutality that gives the best chance.

Same rules as last year.

I wish I had something profound for this thread…I don’t. Maybe I have something useful though.

The Bloody Mary is the greatest of cocktails. Recipe available upon request.

Don’t pull your head back right after delivering a butt.

Getting a “master grip” on your weapon is very important to getting it into the fight. This is a huge weakness for pocket holsters and folding knives because the master grip often happens at the end of the draw.

Check your oil, coolant, and wiper fluid every time you get gas.

I dash of salt in a large mug or a pinch of salt in the grounds can go a long way to “smoothing” out cheap coffee. Less is more here.

When using joint locks in a “no ref” situation, the first pop and then a scream doesn’t mean it’s over. It is just like the first pop with a glow stick. Now all the shaking and twisting will yield results.

Carry a small flashlight.

When going for takedowns on the street a.)try to be on top b.)your hard parts go in their soft parts. These are also the rules for drunken hotel sex.

The above was mostly learned through my own failings. The caution about drunken hotel sex is a story I can only tell drunk.

I am not a subject matter expert so I could well be wrong about this stuff…but not about the Bloody Marys.

Regards,

Robert A

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.[/quote]

I agree; which is why I said ‘competition BJJ’. I think Irish once said that boxing and judo would make for a nice SD combo; I agree.
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This would only be true if it was the judo that was practiced 10 years ago or older. The judo of today has become a pussy sport. Fuck you IJF.

Robert A.: Knowledge is knowledge and if you’ve had more than one moment of clarity, by all means, share.

[quote]Robert A wrote:
My apologies to Blaze, because my response below is pretty much the opposite of “one thing that changed everything”, it’s “same rules as last year”.

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.[/quote]

I agree; which is why I said ‘competition BJJ’. I think Irish once said that boxing and judo would make for a nice SD combo; I agree.
[/quote]

I think BJJ is giving you a hell of a lot more than just “joint manipulation, timing, and strategy.”

I toe the party line with the idea that rolling around on the floor in “dry hump” range is a very bad plan A. It is however a pretty common place to end up when things go purely to hell. MWP’s statement about using his tools to get back to the feet is gold in my opinion.

I am also going to offer up that while “weapons” are usually sighted as being exceptionally problomatic on the ground my experience in training such things is that position matters a hell of a lot to being able to draw and use the weapons you are carrying and to fuck up the other guy’s attempts to do the same. In fact, the positions that favor you in an “armed environment” match up with the classic BJJ hierarchy.

I am not saying that a knife or gun will not wreck your shit, just that you have a better chance of having a happy ending to your story(instead of you being the happy ending for some mortician who’s kid needs braces) if you can get into a good position. Some folks in this thread may think that is lunacy, but I invite them to grab a blue gun for their holster or a drone knife and see how it shakes out.

Not that every, or even most BJJ schools practice or have interest in such things.

Another observation: I am not going to point fingers at anyone specific, but a few of you are about a cunt hair away from falling into the “I’ll just” trap. And I am going to say “I’ll just” never gets it done.

“I don’t need to worry about boxers. I’ll just kick 'em in the balls”

“I don’t need to worry about clinching with a nak muay. I’ll just choke and headbutt.”

“I don’t need to worry about grapplers. I’ll just gouge/bite.”

“I don’t need to worry about getting out struck. I’ll just take them down.”

“I don’t have to fight. I’ll just shoot them.”

This shit never works out. Generally you have to have the fundamentals down before bringing the dirty/nasty/banned from competition stuff is going to do a whole lot of good. Getting off the groin kick when you are eating jabs and straights doesn’t seem to happen. Trying to butt when you are getting ragdolled and kneed is a tall order. Gouging and biting works a hell of a lot better WITH control and position than without. Taking down someone when you are already on queer street is a tall order. It is way, way easier to draw when you have space and time.

Unfortunately, there are no free rides. People who practice accomplishing something tend to be better at it. It is important that we all resolve to be brutal enough, soon enough. However aggression alone is not cruise control to victory. It is skillfull application of technique coupled with that brutality that gives the best chance.

Same rules as last year.

I wish I had something profound for this thread…I don’t. Maybe I have something useful though.

The Bloody Mary is the greatest of cocktails. Recipe available upon request.

Don’t pull your head back right after delivering a butt.

Getting a “master grip” on your weapon is very important to getting it into the fight. This is a huge weakness for pocket holsters and folding knives because the master grip often happens at the end of the draw.

Check your oil, coolant, and wiper fluid every time you get gas.

I dash of salt in a large mug or a pinch of salt in the grounds can go a long way to “smoothing” out cheap coffee. Less is more here.

When using joint locks in a “no ref” situation, the first pop and then a scream doesn’t mean it’s over. It is just like the first pop with a glow stick. Now all the shaking and twisting will yield results.

Carry a small flashlight.

When going for takedowns on the street a.)try to be on top b.)your hard parts go in their soft parts. These are also the rules for drunken hotel sex.

The above was mostly learned through my own failings. The caution about drunken hotel sex is a story I can only tell drunk.

I am not a subject matter expert so I could well be wrong about this stuff…but not about the Bloody Marys.

Regards,

Robert A
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A classic! This should be required reading…great post!

Robert,
It has been my personal observation, that individuals who make broad, sweeping statements, such as you listed, have no experience in either street survival or actual combat. 95% of all males (IMHO) are full of shit when they start claiming what they will do or how they are will do it…

[quote]Robert A wrote:

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:
Fighting like a man means not at any point having another man’s balls resting on your chin, or his taint in one or more of your nostrils. [/quote]

Dude, when you train grappling you do it in a totally manly fashion. Like a viking. Albeit a sensitive viking, who loves Barbara Streisand music, and Cher. And who has Boy George concert tickets framed in their loft. But a viking.

Regards,

Robert A[/quote]

Wait, I love Barbara Streisand music. I’ve got this all wrong.

[quote]Robert A wrote:
My apologies to Blaze, because my response below is pretty much the opposite of “one thing that changed everything”, it’s “same rules as last year”.

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As a guy who is currently doing a fair amount of BJJ: competition BJJ is not directly useful for self defense/street scenarios. What it will give you, though, is an understanding about joint manipulation, timing and strategy.[/quote]

Our BJJ program is really structured more toward self defense/street application with competition second. We do train tournament BJJ but my primary focus is knowing what the heck I need to do to get back to my feet if I am ever on the ground. If it’s a sub, a sweep, or whatever, my goal is to get back to a standing position. Too many bad things can happen out of your control on the ground.[/quote]

I agree; which is why I said ‘competition BJJ’. I think Irish once said that boxing and judo would make for a nice SD combo; I agree.
[/quote]

I think BJJ is giving you a hell of a lot more than just “joint manipulation, timing, and strategy.”

I toe the party line with the idea that rolling around on the floor in “dry hump” range is a very bad plan A. It is however a pretty common place to end up when things go purely to hell. MWP’s statement about using his tools to get back to the feet is gold in my opinion.

I am also going to offer up that while “weapons” are usually sighted as being exceptionally problomatic on the ground my experience in training such things is that position matters a hell of a lot to being able to draw and use the weapons you are carrying and to fuck up the other guy’s attempts to do the same. In fact, the positions that favor you in an “armed environment” match up with the classic BJJ hierarchy.

I am not saying that a knife or gun will not wreck your shit, just that you have a better chance of having a happy ending to your story(instead of you being the happy ending for some mortician who’s kid needs braces) if you can get into a good position. Some folks in this thread may think that is lunacy, but I invite them to grab a blue gun for their holster or a drone knife and see how it shakes out.

Not that every, or even most BJJ schools practice or have interest in such things.

Another observation: I am not going to point fingers at anyone specific, but a few of you are about a cunt hair away from falling into the “I’ll just” trap. And I am going to say “I’ll just” never gets it done.

“I don’t need to worry about boxers. I’ll just kick 'em in the balls”

“I don’t need to worry about clinching with a nak muay. I’ll just choke and headbutt.”

“I don’t need to worry about grapplers. I’ll just gouge/bite.”

“I don’t need to worry about getting out struck. I’ll just take them down.”

“I don’t have to fight. I’ll just shoot them.”

This shit never works out. Generally you have to have the fundamentals down before bringing the dirty/nasty/banned from competition stuff is going to do a whole lot of good. Getting off the groin kick when you are eating jabs and straights doesn’t seem to happen. Trying to butt when you are getting ragdolled and kneed is a tall order. Gouging and biting works a hell of a lot better WITH control and position than without. Taking down someone when you are already on queer street is a tall order. It is way, way easier to draw when you have space and time.

Unfortunately, there are no free rides. People who practice accomplishing something tend to be better at it. It is important that we all resolve to be brutal enough, soon enough. However aggression alone is not cruise control to victory. It is skillfull application of technique coupled with that brutality that gives the best chance.

Same rules as last year.

I wish I had something profound for this thread…I don’t. Maybe I have something useful though.

The Bloody Mary is the greatest of cocktails. Recipe available upon request.

Don’t pull your head back right after delivering a butt.

Getting a “master grip” on your weapon is very important to getting it into the fight. This is a huge weakness for pocket holsters and folding knives because the master grip often happens at the end of the draw.

Check your oil, coolant, and wiper fluid every time you get gas.

I dash of salt in a large mug or a pinch of salt in the grounds can go a long way to “smoothing” out cheap coffee. Less is more here.

When using joint locks in a “no ref” situation, the first pop and then a scream doesn’t mean it’s over. It is just like the first pop with a glow stick. Now all the shaking and twisting will yield results.

Carry a small flashlight.

When going for takedowns on the street a.)try to be on top b.)your hard parts go in their soft parts. These are also the rules for drunken hotel sex.

The above was mostly learned through my own failings. The caution about drunken hotel sex is a story I can only tell drunk.

I am not a subject matter expert so I could well be wrong about this stuff…but not about the Bloody Marys.

Regards,

Robert A
[/quote]

I enjoyed this post. I learned a little, and lol’d a little, and agreed with a whole lot. In my limited experience of the grappling arts, a half decent wrestler can make even the queerest cuddle an excruciating experience, and that’s before any kind of (pro)creative use of digits, limbs or organs. In all seriousness though, you can’t read posts from guys like you, KCMNYC, Sento etc and not appreciate the very real potential well executed grappling moves posses to cause crippling damage.

I would say that personally from a sport perspective I have never seen the attraction of rolling around on the floor with a sweaty bloke, when you can just as well punch him in the teeth. That’s not to say it’s any better or worse, but I do think (again, from a sporting perspective) that it probably attracts different personalities. Based on nothing more than idle anecdote, strikers in my experience tend to be naturally more pugnacious and aggressive than grapplers. Not that either of those things is necessarily an advantage in being a victorious fighter.

The butting point is an excellent one. I was loitering outside a bar a few years back, and some wanker from another group of lads headbutted the head doorman. Unfortunately for him, he pulled his head straight back, and his butt hadn’t done the damage it could have done, so he got a swinging right he never saw coming on the point of his jaw from an enraged, 240lbs former prizefighter, and a kicking followed while his mates all left him and ran.

[quote]Robert A wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
Jesus fucking Christ!
[/quote]

This thread kinda makes me feel old.

As in “stop the shit or I will turn this internet around and take us right home” old.
[/quote]

I don’t get this.

Care to clarify?

How old are you?

Late 40s? :slight_smile:

My moment of clarity realization: Size and pure physicality/athleticism are, a large portion of the time, what is going to win a real fight. I can be as good as I want in boxing / jiu jitsu / muay thai / MMA / etc., but if I am 165 lbs. and am put up against a 240 lbs. beast, the odds are seriously against me. Speaking from personal experience.

I agree with humble that most MMA fighters probably aren’t worth their salt – I think it’s becoming just like traditional martial arts, with 12-year old black belts and soccer moms who now think they can fight well.

I think humble is missing the point, though. If you take a take college wrestler, indoctrinate him into getting hit in the head and teach him how to strike, and then put him into the ring . . . He isn’t someone to be trifled with. It’s hard to hit someone effectively from your back. He is more likely to win against a purist of any sort. I think that’s the point of MMA.

What frightens me the most about striking is the potential for brain damage / cognitive problems after a while of doing it. The brain is a sensitive organ.

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Robert A wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
Jesus fucking Christ!
[/quote]

This thread kinda makes me feel old.

As in “stop the shit or I will turn this internet around and take us right home” old.
[/quote]

I don’t get this.

Care to clarify?

How old are you?

Late 40s? :)[/quote]

Your comment wasn’t included in the making me feel old category.

I was agreeing with you.

The “turn the internet around” was a play on the “turn this car around and go home” threat back when kids got piled into station wagons and driven for hours as part of vacation. This may not translate at all for someone younger, and who(if I recall correctly) grew up in Europe(France?). There is a lot of space in flyover country.

I was born in '79. Which is why feeling old was so irksome. Also the fact people keep thinking I am the same age or older than many of my friends who are in their 40’s. Must be all the clean living I have done.

Regards,

Robert A

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:
The butting point is an excellent one. I was loitering outside a bar a few years back, and some wanker from another group of lads headbutted the head doorman. Unfortunately for him, he pulled his head straight back, and his butt hadn’t done the damage it could have done, so he got a swinging right he never saw coming on the point of his jaw from an enraged, 240lbs former prizefighter, and a kicking followed while his mates all left him and ran. [/quote]

I remember watching old tapes where Rocky Marciano was commenting on fights. He said headbutting was “saying hello to the other guy”. That stuck with me and really it is how I approach/train/teach any of the nasty/foul/ripping/gouging type stuff. It is an introduction/way to open up the guy for what you want to do.

If you butt a guy and keep your head down and drive in a bit HE might pull his head back. In that case he has lifted his chin against a trained man(you). The butt might have cut him, or not, but the next three punches you land are going to do something. Even if you just but him and drive him off balance, maybe step on his foot, enough to rock him back on his heels you can do something with that.

A grappler might have a different kind of “nasty” waiting after the “hello”, but the principal is the same. Use it to set up your foundational techniques. You don’t need a “dirty” technique to end a fight immediately. Hell you shouldn’t plan on anything short of decapitation doing that. All you need is to make the other guy less able to hurt you, and less able to keep you from hurting him. That is basically the game plan/crux of what I think we all train. So go ahead and put it in the “introduction”.

Regards,

Robert A

[quote]Robert A wrote:

Your comment wasn’t included in the making me feel old category.

I was agreeing with you.

The “turn the internet around” was a play on the “turn this car around and go home” threat back when kids got piled into station wagons and driven for hours as part of vacation. This may not translate at all for someone younger, and who(if I recall correctly) grew up in Europe(France?). There is a lot of space in flyover country.

I was born in '79. Which is why feeling old was so irksome. Also the fact people keep thinking I am the same age or older than many of my friends who are in their 40’s. Must be all the clean living I have done.

Regards,

Robert A[/quote]

Only 34… wow. I really thought you were much older.

Well, your comment makes so much sense now.

[quote]Robert A wrote:
The “turn the internet around” was a play on the “turn this car around and go home” threat back when kids got piled into station wagons and driven for hours as part of vacation. This may not translate at all for someone younger, and who(if I recall correctly) grew up in Europe(France?). There is a lot of space in flyover country.[/quote]

Oh hell yes. Long car drives are still a big part of going on a holiday in Europe, especially when you don’t leave the country. Like, a French family from Paris spending a week at the côte d’azur.

(I’m not French, just for the record)

[quote]jgreever1167 wrote:

I agree with humble that most MMA fighters probably aren’t worth their salt – I think it’s becoming just like traditional martial arts, with 12-year old black belts and soccer moms who now think they can fight well.

I think humble is missing the point, though. If you take a take college wrestler, indoctrinate him into getting hit in the head and teach him how to strike, and then put him into the ring . . . He isn’t someone to be trifled with. It’s hard to hit someone effectively from your back. He is more likely to win against a purist of any sort. I think that’s the point of MMA.

[/quote]

Dan Henderson comes to mind. Not that he’s a fantastic striker from a purist’s perspective by any means, but he’s learned just enough to make him all-around dangerous in his overall game.

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

(I’m not French, just for the record)[/quote]

It is a good thing you cleared that up. I tend to assume the worst about people.

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

(I’m not French, just for the record)[/quote]

It is a good thing you cleared that up. I tend to assume the worst about people. [/quote]

That would hurt coming from a Londoner. I lived in Leyton for a while around 2010-11.

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

(I’m not French, just for the record)[/quote]

It is a good thing you cleared that up. I tend to assume the worst about people. [/quote]

Lol. What’s wrong with French People?

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:

(I’m not French, just for the record)[/quote]

It is a good thing you cleared that up. I tend to assume the worst about people. [/quote]

That would hurt coming from a Londoner. I lived in Leyton for a while around 2010-11.
[/quote]

Ye? You’re just a gunshot down the road from me then. I grew up between Shoreditch and Upper Clapton.