“Oh, my nipples are so tender! Don’t squeeze them any more!”
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
Two things I LOVE in this world: Waffles and More Waffles
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[quote]skaz05 wrote:
Most people might not think it’s normal, but I grew up listening to that shit all the time between my parents, especially my mom’s second husband. He would get drunk and they would have these EPIC fights that made Mel Gibsons’s rants seem like baby talk. Several times my mom wound up in the hospital, yet she stayed with him for years where they would continue to have these fucking brawls.
I know “internet people” would never disrespect a woman like that, but we all know that people actually DO fight like this, and it’s a pretty common. I don’t see anyone condemning domestic violence, perceived or otherwise, anywhere else unless it involves celebrities or professional athletes - which pretty much sums up where American priorities lie in terms of culture. [/quote]
I grew up listening to that shit as well… I was adopted at a young age and was raised by a psychopath and a serious alcoholic, so I’ve seen some pretty intense fighting myself. When I was in bootcamp I used to tell everyone who got upset about all the screaming and yelling, “are you kidding me, this is nothing”.
But because I grew up around that and realized how much I HATED it I changed myself to make sure I was never like that. Now I will not tolerate screaming at all. I may get mad and my tone may change, but I don’t raise my voice and I don’t cuss at females. I’ve even been in a relationship with a girl who always had that type of relationship and tried baiting me into fighting with her. I eventually broke up with her after trying for months to show her I wasn’t playing her games.
Basically what it comes down to, granted I’m just an interweb nobody to you and I know this so you can take my advice or leave it, but if you really do fight with loved ones this way you need to get out of the relationship that you are in. Then while you are single work on YOU, and figure out what you need to do to stop being that way.
I say end the relationship because there is nothing you can do to change the ways of someone else, but you can change who you are and by doing so you change the type of people you attract and in turn provide a healthier environment for yourself, your children, your wife/ gf, and friends and family you expose to this behavior. This is all easier said than done, controlling temper is not the easiest thing to do.
But the goal is not to NEVER get made or lose your temper, the goal is to change how you react when losing your temper. Just my 2 cents. But like I said, I’m nobody to be giving you advice, I don’t even know you. I’m more writing this for whoever may be reading this and doesn’t understand that fighting like that IS NOT normal. If you’ve only been in relationships where you fight like that, then it’s because YOU are like that and therefor attract others like that or CAUSE others to react like that.
Being in a relationship where nobody yells or disrespects one another even after losing their temper is a wonderful thing.
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
[quote]Mascherano wrote:
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
The “Pack of Niggers” statement has made me lose faith in Riggs. I wonder what Danny Glover is thinking.[/quote]
Does this make it better?[/quote]
Two things I in this world: Cat pics and Waffles
If you weren’t hot, I’d…[/quote]
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
The “Pack of Niggers” statement has made me lose faith in Riggs. I wonder what Danny Glover is thinking.[/quote]
It’s “posse”, honky.
[quote]SickAbs wrote:
[quote]Otep wrote:
So… he did try hitting her.[/quote]
HAHAHA! Someones gotta tell him that only JOKING about hitting women is cool.[/quote]
Wait that’s supposed to be a JOKE? Fuck…
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her. I am all about “peace” in my life right now and can’t stand drama. Unfortunately, I am not sure where you other people live who never see this, because my experience is that most of the women IZ crazy.
I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her. I am all about “peace” in my life right now and can’t stand drama. Unfortunately, I am not sure where you other people live who never see this, because my experience is that most of the women IZ crazy.
I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]
I actually like the crazy broads. Especially the ones with daddy issues. I can deal with the drama, sometimes I like it, probably because it adds balance to my incredibly dull and boring self.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]
So you really are anti-marraige…
My first serious GF and I got in some pretty serious screaming matches. Never touched her, would never touch a girl.
We broke up and got back together constantly. Towards the end, we just didn’t fight like that anymore. I just said no.
You cannot claim to love someone and talk to them like that. I have said fucked up things before, and screamed, and I am ashamed of it. This does happen, but there is no excuse for it.
Being an mature adult means being an mature adult even when you are so irritated you want to scream.
It’s tough, but many times the other person is just trying to egg you on, trying to elicit an angry response. Don’t give it to them. The irony is the calmer one usually acts, the more worked up the other person gets, until that person finally gets the response they were looking for, then it reverses.
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
Most people might not think it’s normal, but I grew up listening to that shit all the time between my parents, especially my mom’s second husband. He would get drunk and they would have these EPIC fights that made Mel Gibsons’s rants seem like baby talk. Several times my mom wound up in the hospital, yet she stayed with him for years where they would continue to have these fucking brawls.
I know “internet people” would never disrespect a woman like that, but we all know that people actually DO fight like this, and it’s a pretty common. I don’t see anyone condemning domestic violence, perceived or otherwise, anywhere else unless it involves celebrities or professional athletes - which pretty much sums up where American priorities lie in terms of culture. [/quote]
I grew up listening to that shit as well… I was adopted at a young age and was raised by a psychopath and a serious alcoholic, so I’ve seen some pretty intense fighting myself. When I was in bootcamp I used to tell everyone who got upset about all the screaming and yelling, “are you kidding me, this is nothing”.
But because I grew up around that and realized how much I HATED it I changed myself to make sure I was never like that. Now I will not tolerate screaming at all. I may get mad and my tone may change, but I don’t raise my voice and I don’t cuss at females. I’ve even been in a relationship with a girl who always had that type of relationship and tried baiting me into fighting with her. I eventually broke up with her after trying for months to show her I wasn’t playing her games.
Basically what it comes down to, granted I’m just an interweb nobody to you and I know this so you can take my advice or leave it, but if you really do fight with loved ones this way you need to get out of the relationship that you are in. Then while you are single work on YOU, and figure out what you need to do to stop being that way.
I say end the relationship because there is nothing you can do to change the ways of someone else, but you can change who you are and by doing so you change the type of people you attract and in turn provide a healthier environment for yourself, your children, your wife/ gf, and friends and family you expose to this behavior. This is all easier said than done, controlling temper is not the easiest thing to do.
But the goal is not to NEVER get made or lose your temper, the goal is to change how you react when losing your temper. Just my 2 cents. But like I said, I’m nobody to be giving you advice, I don’t even know you. I’m more writing this for whoever may be reading this and doesn’t understand that fighting like that IS NOT normal. If you’ve only been in relationships where you fight like that, then it’s because YOU are like that and therefor attract others like that or CAUSE others to react like that.
Being in a relationship where nobody yells or disrespects one another even after losing their temper is a wonderful thing.
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I read that this is a sign of a relationship that is in trouble. I don’t remember where, probably in psyche class or something.
I’ve never really been in a relationship like that anyway. But the most fun I’ve had in relationships are with girls that had issues and baggage. I like spitfires. I hope to find a chola loca chick one day. Preferably a foul mouth that has done time.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her.
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I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]
Well, PX, I’ve got some BAD news for you. That particular creature does not exist on this planet. Oh, maybe on another planet or in an alternate universe, but unless you plan on interplanetary/interstellar/interuniversal travel soon, you are out.of.luck.
Close alternative:
Infinitely fuckable, ZERO crazy-bitch.
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her. I am all about “peace” in my life right now and can’t stand drama. Unfortunately, I am not sure where you other people live who never see this, because my experience is that most of the women IZ crazy.
I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]
I actually like the crazy broads. Especially the ones with daddy issues. I can deal with the drama, sometimes I like it, probably because it adds balance to my incredibly dull and boring self.[/quote]
I pretty much accept that this is all im going to ever get and that I might as well make the best of it.
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
I read that this is a sign of a relationship that is in trouble. I don’t remember where, probably in psyche class or something.
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What is a sign that a relationship is in trouble?? If nobody screams or disrespects eachother??
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
Two things I LOVE in this world: Waffles and More Waffles
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Super Saiyan, OG, and Yo Mamma. You’re dead to me.
DEAD TO ME!
I’ve had crazy bitches who screamed, punched, and kicked me and the walls.
My wife on the other hand is one of the most sane, respectful, and peaceful humans I’ve ever known, in spite of being raised in an abusive and toxic environment.
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
Two things I LOVE in this world: Waffles and More Waffles
[/quote]
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Super Saiyan, OG, and Yo Mamma. You’re dead to me.
DEAD TO ME![/quote]
Damn, Wol, everybody knows I’m a pancake whore.
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
I grew up listening to that shit as well… I was adopted at a young age and was raised by a psychopath and a serious alcoholic, so I’ve seen some pretty intense fighting myself. When I was in bootcamp I used to tell everyone who got upset about all the screaming and yelling, “are you kidding me, this is nothing”.
But because I grew up around that and realized how much I HATED it I changed myself to make sure I was never like that. Now I will not tolerate screaming at all. I may get mad and my tone may change, but I don’t raise my voice and I don’t cuss at females. I’ve even been in a relationship with a girl who always had that type of relationship and tried baiting me into fighting with her. I eventually broke up with her after trying for months to show her I wasn’t playing her games.
Basically what it comes down to, granted I’m just an interweb nobody to you and I know this so you can take my advice or leave it, but if you really do fight with loved ones this way you need to get out of the relationship that you are in. Then while you are single work on YOU, and figure out what you need to do to stop being that way.
I say end the relationship because there is nothing you can do to change the ways of someone else, but you can change who you are and by doing so you change the type of people you attract and in turn provide a healthier environment for yourself, your children, your wife/ gf, and friends and family you expose to this behavior. This is all easier said than done, controlling temper is not the easiest thing to do.
But the goal is not to NEVER get made or lose your temper, the goal is to change how you react when losing your temper. Just my 2 cents. But like I said, I’m nobody to be giving you advice, I don’t even know you. I’m more writing this for whoever may be reading this and doesn’t understand that fighting like that IS NOT normal. If you’ve only been in relationships where you fight like that, then it’s because YOU are like that and therefor attract others like that or CAUSE others to react like that.
Being in a relationship where nobody yells or disrespects one another even after losing their temper is a wonderful thing.
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It’s awesome and a huge sign of inner strength that you broke the cycle instead of keeping it going. To people who grow up in those types of situations that IS normal. It says a lot when someone grows up with that being the norm and saying “NO. This is NOT the norm. I do not want to live this way”. Congrats on you and your girl stopping the cycle.
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
I read that this is a sign of a relationship that is in trouble. I don’t remember where, probably in psyche class or something.
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What is a sign that a relationship is in trouble?? If nobody screams or disrespects eachother?? [/quote]
Yeah, something like that. It has something to do with the two not having enough passion in their relationship, or not caring enough about each other, or some other types of shit that I don’t remember. At the time it sounded like it made sense.
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]skaz05 wrote:
I read that this is a sign of a relationship that is in trouble. I don’t remember where, probably in psyche class or something.
[/quote]
What is a sign that a relationship is in trouble?? If nobody screams or disrespects eachother?? [/quote]
Yeah, something like that. It has something to do with the two not having enough passion in their relationship, or not caring enough about each other, or some other types of shit that I don’t remember. At the time it sounded like it made sense.[/quote]
Sounds like psycho-babble.
I know at least 2 old couples who never yell at each other.
Nothing wrong with an altruistic, dignified manner in a relationship.