Let's Process Our Feelings

I put Spanish twice in there?

Oh my, I guess I just love to fuck them titties…

The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations…

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

Well, not that smooth…[/quote]

What are you saying, that he’s a player?[/quote]

I dont know.

Doesnt sound like one.

But he is pretty straight forward with his intentions, is he not?

I give him props for his no nonsense attitude, but I need to substract points for his lack of smooth operater-ness. [/quote]

How do you operate smoothly online?

And what do you think are his intentions? I’m not sure I can tell.

Also, once again, it was inadvertently me who let the sex talk horse out of the barn. His profile mentioned the European attitude, and I questioned what it meant. [/quote]

Why guuuurl, not only do I enjoy French kissing, I also like the Spanish, Russian and Spanish way of things…

Hamster away…

Thats his sticking point, he is a bit too, you know…[/quote]

Oh shut up, it was one word out of something like a 250 word profile, the rest of which had nothing to do with sex. It was mostly mocking the online dating experience, but also talking about who he is and what he’s looking for (intelligence, humor, grounded, etc - same things I’m looking for).

You’re mean. That’s going to cause your relationships to be crummy, and non-European. So there!

While meanwhile I and Casanova will be enjoying all the best of Europe. IN BED.

(Maybe. Probably not. We’ll see. I still like Iraq and the no kisses guy.)

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself.

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need…

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[/quote]

When a man writes that he wants to bone you he is joking?

Um,…, no?

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need… [/quote]

I totally get that, I do…

But, as a man my age, how many grudge fucks do you get out of life?

Dont take those opportunities for granted.

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need… [/quote]

I think you should say no thanks. Find good sex with someone you like and feel hopeful about. High school is stupid. Let it go, like you said, you don’t need the bad energy. You’ll wind up like Orion, all jaded and mean.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need… [/quote]

I think you should say no thanks. Find good sex with someone you like and feel hopeful about. High school is stupid. Let it go, like you said, you don’t need the bad energy. You’ll wind up like Orion, all jaded and mean.[/quote]

O_O…

ALL jaded and mean?

Through and through?

Oh my…

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.
[/quote]
Well, i think he used too much emphasis with the exclamation and wink.

If you haven’t met him, overextending…

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[/quote]

When a man writes that he wants to bone you he is joking?

Um,…, no?

[/quote]

Oh, no, I’m sure that’s real. I mean joking about doing that first thing to establish whether we resonate.

With emphasis on “overextending” …

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
With emphasis on “overextending” … [/quote]

He’s over 6’, so it’s probably just a short reach for him. . .

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need… [/quote]

I think you should say no thanks. Find good sex with someone you like and feel hopeful about. High school is stupid. Let it go, like you said, you don’t need the bad energy. You’ll wind up like Orion, all jaded and mean.[/quote]

O_O…

ALL jaded and mean?

Through and through?

Oh my…[/quote]

YUP.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[/quote]

When a man writes that he wants to bone you he is joking?

Um,…, no?

[/quote]

Oh, no, I’m sure that’s real. I mean joking about doing that first thing to establish whether we resonate. [/quote]

What he should have done is establishing that a spark is very important thing to him.

You dont need to do the Spanish for that…

One kiss is all it takes:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
The girl in high school who painfully taught me most of what I know about women is trying to weasel her way back into my life by offering sex. These situations should always be avoided but I’m tempted by the experience because I’ve never had her.

I have nothing to offer emotionally.

Temptations… [/quote]

You could do the Spanish, glaze her face and never call her again?

It seems to be all the rage these days…[/quote]
Definitely something with never calling her again involved. She deserves it.

Although the bad energy is not something I need… [/quote]

I think you should say no thanks. Find good sex with someone you like and feel hopeful about. High school is stupid. Let it go, like you said, you don’t need the bad energy. You’ll wind up like Orion, all jaded and mean.[/quote]

O_O…

ALL jaded and mean?

Through and through?

Oh my…[/quote]

YUP.[/quote]

And you are sure you are lacking a mean streak?

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[/quote]

When a man writes that he wants to bone you he is joking?

Um,…, no?

[/quote]

Oh, no, I’m sure that’s real. I mean joking about doing that first thing to establish whether we resonate. [/quote]

What he should have done is establishing that a spark is very important thing to him.

You dont need to do the Spanish for that…

One kiss is all it takes:

[/quote]

I love that song!

But I believe that the way to know if he loves you so is in his behavior. That’s where it is.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
Like Orion, I admire his straightforwardness, but

“So, in the spirit of responding to your concern about how we might be different vis-a-vis sex, yes, I cannot be with someone who is “plain vanilla.” I would surely be very soon restless. That said, I, like you, still do not know if we resonate or not in this arena. I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-)”

is just lame… [/quote]

Meh, these are quotes taken out of their context, which was a fairly lengthy conversation. I don’t think being well-written or wordy are lame (she says defensively).

[/quote]
I’m all for writing “well”; it’s attractive and it helps. But a man saying, “I guess the only way for us to know is to have sex! ;-),” is over extending himself. [/quote]

He was obviously joking, no? I’ve been pretty clear about my own inclinations regarding strangers and sex. I think our big plan is lunch, maybe a beer.

[/quote]

When a man writes that he wants to bone you he is joking?

Um,…, no?

[/quote]

Oh, no, I’m sure that’s real. I mean joking about doing that first thing to establish whether we resonate. [/quote]

What he should have done is establishing that a spark is very important thing to him.

You dont need to do the Spanish for that…

One kiss is all it takes:

[/quote]

I love that song!

But I believe that the way to know if he loves you so is in his behavior. That’s where it is.[/quote]

If you cant kiss a woman as the Good Lord intended her to be kissed, you cant fuck her righteously either…

And without that, you know…