Is It Ever Okay to Hit a Woman?

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]imhungry wrote:
clip loves himself a good women beating thread…

What’s this, about the 4th one you’ve made?[/quote]

I like buttfucking old white guys but you never show up to my parties with any enthusiam. Clearly, you love Clip and Rocko is just on his own.[/quote]

You got that right!

See, you “fuck”… but Clip “makes love”. I DESERVE to be LOVED, Rock!

[quote]imhungry wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]imhungry wrote:
clip loves himself a good women beating thread…

What’s this, about the 4th one you’ve made?[/quote]

I like buttfucking old white guys but you never show up to my parties with any enthusiam. Clearly, you love Clip and Rocko is just on his own.[/quote]

You got that right!

See, you “fuck”… but Clip “makes love”. I DESERVE to be LOVED, Rock![/quote]

Son of a Bitch! ROFLmao

I love you, dude!

That sentiment is just a byproduct of sexism. Sadly, we brought this double standard upon ourselves.

I have to say, the white knights are very funny at the least.

It’s never OK to hit anyone, but sometimes situations will warrant it. There are countless situations where I would deck someone, that doesn’t mean I think it’s a good thing. Then again, when I fly off the handle, I really lose it, so I try to avoid those situations. Last fight I was in I went out of my way to break a guys arm.

Seeing red is not fun.

[quote]CubanMeat32 wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]CubanMeat32 wrote:
I was getting swung at by a chick one time and it was in a crowded room so i really could not escape, I was dodging, ducking, jiving, I made her miss with the first 5 throws or so. She then connected once pretty hard, when she swung again i grabber her arm, she swung with the other i grabbed that one, then she went to kick and i wrapped my legs around hers and then went to the ground with her (not hard, actually fairly slowly), she then started screaming: HE HIT ME HE HIT ME. Other girls at the party were actually giving me dirty looks for doing that, WTF, its like you cant even defend yourself, stupid double standard.[/quote]

Just curious what you did to incite this?

Because most pissed off girls would tell everybody you have a small penis or get her guy friends on you before they got physical themselves.[/quote]

Well she was friends of an ex and she never liked me i never really like her, she was talking shit about me for seriously no reason (she was drunk and I was ignoring her) and then I started talking some shit back, she was getting loud, i then proceeded to make fun of her appearance (disecting her from head to toe i must admit it was not very nice, i probably attacked every insecurity she had from her messed up looking feet, to the hair on her arms, to the size of her nose, shit almost sounded rehearsed) I then looked over at her boyfriend and I said “Hey man curb your dog” she snapped and came at me, she later yelled at her guy for not coming at me, but that guy wouldnt dare fuck with me. I must admit i did completely humiliate her in front of a lot of people I said everything negative about his girl imaginable that nobody ever had the balls to say out loud. I guarantee she cried that night. Im not proud of it though. From her point of you i probably humiliated her to the point where she thought the only way to save face was to swing at me.[/quote]

Aside from tearing her a new one, I think this is how you should handle it. The girls were probably giving you dirty looks for how mean you were, not how you restrained her.

I don’t think any guy here is ever in danger of serious bodily harm from a woman no matter how butch she is. Holding her down until she’s done throwing a fit is ok, straight up punching her in the face is not.

[quote]JaX Un wrote:

Also, i am not proud of this one, but i lost so much weight that i knew she weighed more than me at the time so i made her get on a scale after i did. more crying. She wasn’t fat, i was just grossly thin. Still a win though.

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So my wife asks me what I’m laughing at so hard I have a tear in my eye on the computer…

I proceed to tell her what you actually wrote.

I proceed to nod and agree through a 5 min lecture about women, their self esteem, and how Jax is an evil evil person.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]JaX Un wrote:

Also, i am not proud of this one, but i lost so much weight that i knew she weighed more than me at the time so i made her get on a scale after i did. more crying. She wasn’t fat, i was just grossly thin. Still a win though.

[/quote]

So my wife asks me what I’m laughing at so hard I have a tear in my eye on the computer…

I proceed to tell her what you actually wrote.

I proceed to nod and agree through a 5 min lecture about women, their self esteem, and how Jax is an evil evil person.[/quote]

The pic in his avatar must’ve been taken from that time…

If in doubt shake the shit out of that bitch:

I seldom hit a woman, except in self defence of course. In our times there are more modern methods to dominate and rule over them…

In direct response to OP; yes. How else you gonna teach em to make sammiches, take it in the butt and stfu?

My most recent ex and I had just moved in together. She went out with some friends and came home drunk. She started chirpin’ about who knows what and I wanted no part of it. Logically, my not wanting to fight got her even more riled up and she got to talking shit. She goes into the bedroom and slams the door. She’s screaming “Get the fuck outta here” so I walk in and she has the covers pulled over her head and is muttering more shit, I go and pull the covers back and as soon as her fist sees light it comes flyin’.

She tags me in the neck pretty well and I throw the covers back over her and say “I’m out.” She flips and is literally pulling my shirt and clawing at my neck shouting “No, don’t leave! You’re not going anywhere!” All the way to the front door. So, I spin around and put her over my shoulder caveman style while she’s beating on my back like a drum. I carry her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed, run to the door, close it and prop one of the dining room chairs under the door handle so she’s locked in the bedroom.

She’s shouting all kinds of shit and I say “If you’re gonna act like an animal I’m gonna put you in your cage.” I go back to chillin’ on the couch ignoring her screaming and banging on the door and she eventually stopped and passed out. She woke up the next day and apologized profusely.

I’ve been hit a lot harder for a lot sillier shit and didn’t feel the need to bust her back. Thought I handled that pretty well.

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
My most recent ex and I had just moved in together. She went out with some friends and came home drunk. She started chirpin’ about who knows what and I wanted no part of it. Logically, my not wanting to fight got her even more riled up and she got to talking shit. She goes into the bedroom and slams the door. She’s screaming “Get the fuck outta here” so I walk in and she has the covers pulled over her head and is muttering more shit, I go and pull the covers back and as soon as her fist sees light it comes flyin’.

She tags me in the neck pretty well and I throw the covers back over her and say “I’m out.” She flips and is literally pulling my shirt and clawing at my neck shouting “No, don’t leave! You’re not going anywhere!” All the way to the front door. So, I spin around and put her over my shoulder caveman style while she’s beating on my back like a drum. I carry her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed, run to the door, close it and prop one of the dining room chairs under the door handle so she’s locked in the bedroom.

She’s shouting all kinds of shit and I say “If you’re gonna act like an animal I’m gonna put you in your cage.” I go back to chillin’ on the couch ignoring her screaming and banging on the door and she eventually stopped and passed out. She woke up the next day and apologized profusely.

I’ve been hit a lot harder for a lot sillier shit and didn’t feel the need to bust her back. Thought I handled that pretty well.[/quote]

who has outward swinging bedroom doors? I mean seriously

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
My most recent ex and I had just moved in together. She went out with some friends and came home drunk. She started chirpin’ about who knows what and I wanted no part of it. Logically, my not wanting to fight got her even more riled up and she got to talking shit. She goes into the bedroom and slams the door. She’s screaming “Get the fuck outta here” so I walk in and she has the covers pulled over her head and is muttering more shit, I go and pull the covers back and as soon as her fist sees light it comes flyin’.

She tags me in the neck pretty well and I throw the covers back over her and say “I’m out.” She flips and is literally pulling my shirt and clawing at my neck shouting “No, don’t leave! You’re not going anywhere!” All the way to the front door. So, I spin around and put her over my shoulder caveman style while she’s beating on my back like a drum. I carry her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed, run to the door, close it and prop one of the dining room chairs under the door handle so she’s locked in the bedroom.

She’s shouting all kinds of shit and I say “If you’re gonna act like an animal I’m gonna put you in your cage.” I go back to chillin’ on the couch ignoring her screaming and banging on the door and she eventually stopped and passed out. She woke up the next day and apologized profusely.

I’ve been hit a lot harder for a lot sillier shit and didn’t feel the need to bust her back. Thought I handled that pretty well.[/quote]

who has outward swinging bedroom doors? I mean seriously[/quote]

They swung inwards. That’s how I could put a chair under the handle and lock her in from the outside.

This is what happens in society if you slap a woman:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
This is what happens in society if you slap a woman in front of a bunch of guys who want to bang her.

[/quote]

Fixed that for ya.

Really though, you ever see that response to some really unfortunate looking woman?

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
This is what happens in society if you slap a woman in front of a bunch of guys who want to bang her.

[/quote]

Fixed that for ya.

Really though, you ever see that response to some really unfortunate looking woman?

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Only princesses have white knights.

[quote]benos4752 wrote:

[quote]TunaMonkey wrote:
Don’t hit an unarmed woman. Restrain, take down, push, etc. as you feel is necessary, but there is no need to punch a woman who is not carrying a weapon.[/quote]

And that comment is just stupid. So you’re at a bar. Drunk bitch flips out on you for whatever reason and attacks you. You somehow conquer the adrenaline (which the majority of the population wont) and keep a level head. You grab her arms and take her to the ground so you can restrain/subdue her without injury until authorities arrive…you think her friends, bf, bf’s friends are gonna give a shit that she started it and be thankful that you showed restraint? Hell no, even if they know she started it, they’re are going to defend her and beat your ass. And you’ll be on the ground with both hands occupied. You wont even see the attack coming, let alone be able to defend yourself.

Fuck that. I’d rather knock the bitch on her ass and remain on my feet so I can get my ass out of there. Or, at the absolute least, be able to see her friends or whatever coming for me.

I’d rather have to deal with possible legal ramifications than be beat to an inch of my life…or just outright killed. At least in the first situation you have the hope of the bar having video surveillance or witnesses who accurately saw what happened.

Obviously, this is a last resort anyways. First should be to avoid that situation all together. Second to walk away/talk yourself out of it. But that’s not always an option. And if you’re a stranger, and I don’t know what your capable of, I don’t care how big you are or what sex you are, you’re getting the same treatment. As far as I know, even if you’re a 90 pound woman, you are capable of killing me. A punch to the throat can be just as lethal when thrown by a woman as when thrown by a man.[/quote]

You completely misread my post. I never mentioned taking a woman down as the only option. I have worked as a bouncer for almost 10 years and employ the necessary level of force. A crazy woman who is attacking me is getting thrown about 20 feet or getting choked out. Just not punched…there is too much stigma involved in hitting a woman. A woman without a weapon is not a serious physical threat to me.

One time at the club, we were kicking this guy out and her girlfriend tried to claw my eyes. I threw her so hard her shoes came off. No great feat, though, she weighted about 80 pounds. Outside she proceeded to call the cops the N word and spent a nice night in jail.

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
My most recent ex and I had just moved in together. She went out with some friends and came home drunk. She started chirpin’ about who knows what and I wanted no part of it. Logically, my not wanting to fight got her even more riled up and she got to talking shit. She goes into the bedroom and slams the door. She’s screaming “Get the fuck outta here” so I walk in and she has the covers pulled over her head and is muttering more shit, I go and pull the covers back and as soon as her fist sees light it comes flyin’.

She tags me in the neck pretty well and I throw the covers back over her and say “I’m out.” She flips and is literally pulling my shirt and clawing at my neck shouting “No, don’t leave! You’re not going anywhere!” All the way to the front door. So, I spin around and put her over my shoulder caveman style while she’s beating on my back like a drum. I carry her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed, run to the door, close it and prop one of the dining room chairs under the door handle so she’s locked in the bedroom.

She’s shouting all kinds of shit and I say “If you’re gonna act like an animal I’m gonna put you in your cage.” I go back to chillin’ on the couch ignoring her screaming and banging on the door and she eventually stopped and passed out. She woke up the next day and apologized profusely.

I’ve been hit a lot harder for a lot sillier shit and didn’t feel the need to bust her back. Thought I handled that pretty well.[/quote]

who has outward swinging bedroom doors? I mean seriously[/quote]

They swung inwards. That’s how I could put a chair under the handle and lock her in from the outside.[/quote]

Hmmmmmm… I don’t know about that? My Extremely limited knowledge of physics makes me think that this is not possible… That the chair would just tip over. Further research seems nesecary.

If you could draw me a very detailed schematic/blueprint outlining each piece of the equation and the movements involved Ty would be quite helpful… Oh and make it to scale.

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]WhiteFlash wrote:
My most recent ex and I had just moved in together. She went out with some friends and came home drunk. She started chirpin’ about who knows what and I wanted no part of it. Logically, my not wanting to fight got her even more riled up and she got to talking shit. She goes into the bedroom and slams the door. She’s screaming “Get the fuck outta here” so I walk in and she has the covers pulled over her head and is muttering more shit, I go and pull the covers back and as soon as her fist sees light it comes flyin’.

She tags me in the neck pretty well and I throw the covers back over her and say “I’m out.” She flips and is literally pulling my shirt and clawing at my neck shouting “No, don’t leave! You’re not going anywhere!” All the way to the front door. So, I spin around and put her over my shoulder caveman style while she’s beating on my back like a drum. I carry her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed, run to the door, close it and prop one of the dining room chairs under the door handle so she’s locked in the bedroom.

She’s shouting all kinds of shit and I say “If you’re gonna act like an animal I’m gonna put you in your cage.” I go back to chillin’ on the couch ignoring her screaming and banging on the door and she eventually stopped and passed out. She woke up the next day and apologized profusely.

I’ve been hit a lot harder for a lot sillier shit and didn’t feel the need to bust her back. Thought I handled that pretty well.[/quote]

who has outward swinging bedroom doors? I mean seriously[/quote]

They swung inwards. That’s how I could put a chair under the handle and lock her in from the outside.[/quote]

Hmmmmmm… I don’t know about that? My Extremely limited knowledge of physics makes me think that this is not possible… That the chair would just tip over. Further research seems nesecary.

If you could draw me a very detailed schematic/blueprint outlining each piece of the equation and the movements involved Ty would be quite helpful… Oh and make it to scale.[/quote]

Wedge the chair so it gets stuck under the handle and the side of the door frame.

[quote]Makavali wrote:
I have to say, the white knights are very funny at the least.

It’s never OK to hit anyone, but sometimes situations will warrant it. There are countless situations where I would deck someone, that doesn’t mean I think it’s a good thing. Then again, when I fly off the handle, I really lose it, so I try to avoid those situations. Last fight I was in I went out of my way to break a guys arm.

Seeing red is not fun.[/quote]

I’m amazed this thread is still going. Mak, Prof. X, Lew, and several others are realists. And I definitely appreciate “real.” I’ve spent almost a decade bouncing at the clubs, as well. I’m currently in a combat zone where these lil fragile women, that most of you “white knights” keep on a pedestal, are side-by-side with us men, trying to stay alive by any means necessary. Same place where some women will pick up a weapon and kill us. Or blow themselves up to kill us.

This is true in the states and elsewhere. Women may be the supposed ‘weaker’ sex, but it doesn’t take a tremendous amount of power to incapacitate a man. I’m not walking away from shit. That involves turning your back, and that is something common damned sense tells me not to do. Just as I’m not going to merely take a hostile woman down on the ground and hold her. Especially if there are more of you “white knights” around. In any physical conflict, it’s them or me. Where you decide to put yourself in that equation is on you.

Whiteflash, I can see your situation, as that was your significant other. I would probably react the same way. But in any other situation, where I don’t know you, and you mean me harm? You’re going to be dealt with swiftly and efficiently. If that involves knocking you into the middle of next month, so be it.

Edgy, keep your emotions out of this debate. As was mentioned already, big difference between abuse and defense. We are discussing defense.

ID, I can understand being hard-wired, however, having been shot by a woman, damn near stabbed, and punched just for being in her vision…I’ve long since taken the kiddie gloves off.