[quote]powerful01 wrote:
Insecure? No. But if this shit is so dumb why did you read it in the first place? Just a question?[/quote]
Lol, I can’t even begin to comprehend how this makes any sense.
And to my knowledge, BG works as a bouncer part time but has a real job as well (don’t ask me what he does, I have no idea who would hire that meathead).
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
I mean on this site it seems like everyone assumes that everybody and their mother thinks men with large muscular physiques is the ideal man, but thats just not true. [/quote]
This statement is simply not true. if you were going to ask what my idea of what a man is supposed to be is, huge muscles would not be part of the list even though above average concern for strength and physical shape would be.
Many of the people on this site do much more than just lift weights. Many here are highly educated, well above what most people ever achieve. Many here have families they take care of. Many here have jobs that require a very well rounded look at all things that requires skill that most will never attain.
All these would go into what creates “the ideal man or women”…but this is a bodybuilding/weightlifting website…which means if we can do all of that shit and still stand out physically, don’t bitch and complain about your lack of time to train or degrade those of us for standing out physically.
I understand what the OP meant because I experience it…often on this site. Many of the people here are just like what the OP discussed…jackasses who think they deserve the same respect for much lesser achievement.[/quote]
Excuse me, I did say ideal man, but I meant to say the Ideal physique for a man. I wasn’t implying that people on this site believe a “real man” has to be big. I was saying that people on this site assume that everyone wants to be big or think big men are attractive and therefor the ideal physique. Thats just not true. I’ve seen a lot of threads on this site where people claim that girls just say they don’t want their bf’s to be too big but in reality they really like big muscular men.
I just think some people on this site have the misconception that everyone envys or is attracted to muscular powerful men. Sorry to break it to everyone but that isn’t true. That may be what we at this site strive for, but out in the real world people my shit on your goals/accomplishments for no other reason then they disagree with them. They don’t necessarily say it because they can’t accomplish it, they say it because they honestly think it’s a waste of time and their priorities are else where.
Not EVERYONE hates on muscular people because they’re jealous is all i’m getting at. People have different preferences and may cap on your physique just like people here cap on fat people. To each their own.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]powerful01 wrote:
Insecure? No. But if this shit is so dumb why did you read it in the first place? Just a question?[/quote]
Lol, I can’t even begin to comprehend how this makes any sense.
And to my knowledge, BG works as a bouncer part time but has a real job as well (don’t ask me what he does, I have no idea who would hire that meathead).
[/quote]
He hunts people with his dogs or something like that. He’s also inventing some new dogfood if I remember correctly.
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
He hunts people with his dogs or something like that. He’s also inventing some new dogfood if I remember correctly. [/quote]
Is that your forearm dude?
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
I mean on this site it seems like everyone assumes that everybody and their mother thinks men with large muscular physiques is the ideal man, but thats just not true. [/quote]
This statement is simply not true. if you were going to ask what my idea of what a man is supposed to be is, huge muscles would not be part of the list even though above average concern for strength and physical shape would be.
Many of the people on this site do much more than just lift weights. Many here are highly educated, well above what most people ever achieve. Many here have families they take care of. Many here have jobs that require a very well rounded look at all things that requires skill that most will never attain.
All these would go into what creates “the ideal man or women”…but this is a bodybuilding/weightlifting website…which means if we can do all of that shit and still stand out physically, don’t bitch and complain about your lack of time to train or degrade those of us for standing out physically.
I understand what the OP meant because I experience it…often on this site. Many of the people here are just like what the OP discussed…jackasses who think they deserve the same respect for much lesser achievement.[/quote]
Excuse me, I did say ideal man, but I meant to say the Ideal physique for a man. I wasn’t implying that people on this site believe a “real man” has to be big. I was saying that people on this site assume that everyone wants to be big or think big men are attractive and therefor the ideal physique. Thats just not true. I’ve seen a lot of threads on this site where people claim that girls just say they don’t want their bf’s to be too big but in reality they really like big muscular men.
I just think some people on this site have the misconception that everyone envys or is attracted to muscular powerful men. Sorry to break it to everyone but that isn’t true. That may be what we at this site strive for, but out in the real world people my shit on your goals/accomplishments for no other reason then they disagree with them. They don’t necessarily say it because they can’t accomplish it, they say it because they honestly think it’s a waste of time and their priorities are else where.
Not EVERYONE hates on muscular people because they’re jealous is all i’m getting at. People have different preferences and may cap on your physique just like people here cap on fat people. To each their own.
[/quote]
Dude, I have never written anything like that anywhere and most here don’t either as far as thinking AL people want or like big muscles. What you often read is in retaliation to the “no one can get laid with big muscles” comments that get thrown around here so fucking often.
Like anything else, there are women who love it and some who associate it with much of the same negative shit the general public does. I will say that aside from women commenting about veins on pro bodybuilders, I don’t see many of these women who hate big muscles especially if a big wallet is attached to them.
I don’t lift for other people…but the way I look causes me to attract the comments and attention of others, which means, yes, if they keep saying stupid shit, excuse me if I ever rant about it once a fucking year.
Back in the early mid 80’s, I lifted at the center city Philly Jewish YMCA. They had a good old school weight room where the 2 largest and hardest-working men training there were African Americans in their 40s.
One day the one guy comes in and starts talking about how he’s taking computer training courses because it’s a good future for it. His friend looks at him and says, “Computers? Whose gonna hire a big ugly nigga like you?” The conversation continued while the computer guy just tried to stay afloat defending his chosen path, while his friend continued with the insults.
I left the gym that day hoping the guy wasn’t swayed by his friend’s derision and ignorance.
Part of the problem here is that many of you care too much.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]HispanicSamurai wrote:
I mean on this site it seems like everyone assumes that everybody and their mother thinks men with large muscular physiques is the ideal man, but thats just not true. [/quote]
This statement is simply not true. if you were going to ask what my idea of what a man is supposed to be is, huge muscles would not be part of the list even though above average concern for strength and physical shape would be.
Many of the people on this site do much more than just lift weights. Many here are highly educated, well above what most people ever achieve. Many here have families they take care of. Many here have jobs that require a very well rounded look at all things that requires skill that most will never attain.
All these would go into what creates “the ideal man or women”…but this is a bodybuilding/weightlifting website…which means if we can do all of that shit and still stand out physically, don’t bitch and complain about your lack of time to train or degrade those of us for standing out physically.
I understand what the OP meant because I experience it…often on this site. Many of the people here are just like what the OP discussed…jackasses who think they deserve the same respect for much lesser achievement.[/quote]
Excuse me, I did say ideal man, but I meant to say the Ideal physique for a man. I wasn’t implying that people on this site believe a “real man” has to be big. I was saying that people on this site assume that everyone wants to be big or think big men are attractive and therefor the ideal physique. Thats just not true. I’ve seen a lot of threads on this site where people claim that girls just say they don’t want their bf’s to be too big but in reality they really like big muscular men.
I just think some people on this site have the misconception that everyone envys or is attracted to muscular powerful men. Sorry to break it to everyone but that isn’t true. That may be what we at this site strive for, but out in the real world people my shit on your goals/accomplishments for no other reason then they disagree with them. They don’t necessarily say it because they can’t accomplish it, they say it because they honestly think it’s a waste of time and their priorities are else where.
Not EVERYONE hates on muscular people because they’re jealous is all i’m getting at. People have different preferences and may cap on your physique just like people here cap on fat people. To each their own.
[/quote]
Dude, I have never written anything like that anywhere and most here don’t either as far as thinking AL people want or like big muscles. What you often read is in retaliation to the “no one can get laid with big muscles” comments that get thrown around here so fucking often.
Like anything else, there are women who love it and some who associate it with much of the same negative shit the general public does. I will say that aside from women commenting about veins on pro bodybuilders, I don’t see many of these women who hate big muscles especially if a big wallet is attached to them.
I don’t lift for other people…but the way I look causes me to attract the comments and attention of others, which means, yes, if they keep saying stupid shit, excuse me if I ever rant about it once a fucking year.[/quote]
Oh don’t get me wrong I have no problem with you ranting about it. I was merely posting to the OP that he shouldn’t assume people who make shitty comments about his physique are jealous of him. I hate that mentality. I think you see that with young females alot, no offense to the females here. They think that if someone looks at them weird or says something to them they must be jealous. I think thats faulty logic but some of the responses in this thread seemed to be going in that direction.
[quote]powerful01 wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]powerful01 wrote:
I recently started a new job where with alot of ex-milatry guys like myself work. I came across a guy who thinks he is Lance Armstrong. Lance Armstrong himself would tell him to suck a fat babys dick. He is a real cock muncher. He pretty much told me that my body wasnt shit. I have been told before that I wasnt shit but, Hey let me live my life. He looks like a homo and cant squat his own body weight on a smith machine. Now that I think about it he is a fagg. He told me that he knows someone that is bigger than me but he doesnt know their name.
I know a million people that are bigger than me and I do know there name. I call it being intimidated. Dont tell me that you know someone who does anything if you cant do it. How fucking annoying…I know a woman who can squirt milk out of her tits…Eat a dick. I dont really care who you know. Just a rant…How many people rain on your parade and you want to kick their ass? I really think its funny so I have nothing to say to him. But in reality I feel bad for him. A meathead like myself trains his wife…She is probably getting knocked up as we speak![/quote]
He may be an annoying fuck, but you seriously sound insecure. Does the insecurity fuel your quest for muscle? I’m just asking…
Otherwise, someone hacked your account and posted this dumb shit.[/quote]
Insecure? No. But if this shit is so dumb why did you read it in the first place? Just a question?[/quote]
Simply put, the title was misleading sir.
The guy sounds like a one upper and those types get seriously fucking annoying after awhile. I worked with one a few years back and at first she would make mostly benign but strange comments out of nowhere like, “You have really pretty hair but one of my cousins has the same hair color as you only it’s like twice as long. It is so gorgeous!” I would just give her a strange look and say “Thanks… I think.” and shrug it off but she got progressively worse about it over time. When I missed a day at work because of my grandmother’s funeral, she couldn’t just say something simple along the lines of “I’m sorry for your loss.” like any normal fucking person. Oh no, she had to tell me about how I didn’t even know what loss was because she lost her grandmother, friend and favorite aunt all in the same week! Never mind that it happened 15 fucking years ago. Oh, and her sister’s friend lifts WAY more than I do and some random celebrity has WAY better arms than I do and blah blah blah.
I couldn’t get nasty with her though because we had to work together. It wasn’t as if we both just worked at the same place, we had to work together on projects, just the two of us. Anytime someone would call her on it, she would act hurt and claim that the person misunderstood her. Everybody fucking hated her. Someone would ask me at least once a week “How do you put up with her?”
I dealt with it by responding in an extremely positive way to everything she said and asking to meet the amazing person. This tactic deflated her a bit and she would back off. If her mom’s hairdresser was in such great shape that she made me look fat by comparison, I would say “That’s awesome! Good for her, she must be really dedicated. I’d love to meet her, where does she work?” Since “mom’s hairdresser” didn’t exist she didn’t know what to say.
It’s annoying though and being annoyed doesn’t mean you’re insecure or care about what other people think. It’s similar to working with a mentally handicapped person who asks you the same questions over and over again. You have to work around the person but you can’t have a conversation with them because they always go back to the same old shit. It’s tiring.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I call bullshit. I get noticed in every room I walk in. And I don’t get OP’s rant. I think it’s insecure. [/quote]
Yeah, and I see that bullshit often. I am trying to figure when every random boob on the street went to school for their advanced Psych degree. They must be handing that shit out in cereal boxes.
“Why would he get so big…he must be insecure”
“Why did he buy a car like that, he must be insecure”.
“Why would he lift so much weight…he must be insecure”.
How about, they just like pushing their own limits?
This is a job setting. All you can do in a professional setting is smile and keep walking almost no matter what is said to you if you want to keep that job.
To my knowledge, you work as a fucking bouncer. It is NOT the same.
If I bitch about some ladies at work saying negative shit daily, it is NOT insecurity.
It is a fucking discussion.[/quote]
I never considered myself a random “boob” and I haven’t consumed cereal in quite some time but if you know of any brands that contains some decent toys, I’ll consider your recommendation.
I do think you protest too loudly on the insecurity issue though…that’s my personal boob opinion, sans cereal box or degree…but I do know someone lol. To your knowledge - the foregoing is fertile ground I shall ignore, I “work as a fucking bouncer”. Is a random attempted insult the same as a random “boob”? I have a day job, but you knew that. And, I no longer work nightclub security - it was temporary. I too wore a suit and tie for many years…and kept smiling daily and somehow, managed to not come here and start a venomous thread about every perceived slight. The OP was certainly not a simple bitching…it was a bit more than that. Read it again.
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I swear I’d hate to be a woman on the search for a mate, i.e., “a man”. No wonder the penis enlargement/enhancement industry is alive and thriving. No matter how hard you try, some of you will just never be comfortable in their own damn skin. No one cares how big you are. I didn’t know a stupid comment like “I know someone bigger than you” could elicit such a tantrum.
I didn’t know that such a throw-a-way comment could get you guys to circle the wagons and chant, “he aint respectin your accomplishments” LOL. You bust your ass to stand out, for people to notice, and you want everyone to adore you, for all to accept you, to all appreciate you. Get the fuck over it. Go get a hair cut…a bunch of people will like it and admire it, and some won’t. Who gives a fuck? Seriously.[/quote]
OK, now that we know how you feel about the OP, how do you feel about the twit that he was ranting about? you jump at the oppurtunity to bash the OP and completely ignore what this thread is about. BTW, the shit you’re saying reeks of insecurity. [/quote]
I have no feeling about the twit he was talking about. The world is full of twits. If you’re going to let every twit and his stupid opinions be the fuel for random venting on the interwebz, you’re going to have a pretty tough paper route ahead of you. I usually forget twits the moment they stop speaking.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I swear I’d hate to be a woman on the search for a mate, i.e., “a man”. No wonder the penis enlargement/enhancement industry is alive and thriving. No matter how hard you try, some of you will just never be comfortable in their own damn skin. No one cares how big you are. I didn’t know a stupid comment like “I know someone bigger than you” could elicit such a tantrum.
I didn’t know that such a throw-a-way comment could get you guys to circle the wagons and chant, “he aint respectin your accomplishments” LOL. You bust your ass to stand out, for people to notice, and you want everyone to adore you, for all to accept you, to all appreciate you. Get the fuck over it. Go get a hair cut…a bunch of people will like it and admire it, and some won’t. Who gives a fuck? Seriously.[/quote]
Dude, you work at a job that’s entire function is based off of size and fighting skill…yet you turn around and bash people for responding in any way to comments made negatively about their physical development.
That makes no sense. Someone could argue that only someone insecure would even take a job like you have in the first place.
Thia has jack shit to do with being a real man…because a real man knows how hard he worked…and a real man is going to get pissed if you degrade him to his face. How he reacts is what sets him apart.[/quote]
Well first off, for the record, I’ve been an insurance executive for 20+ years now. I have worked during that time, off and on, in the executive protection field (bodyguard) and yes, sometimes moonlighting in a nightclub. For the record, the security stuff is not size and fighting skill. It’s avoidance and diplomacy. I never got paid to be big, and I never got paid to fight. You might argue Mr. Olympia ostensibly gets “paid” to be big, and that a boxer or MMA fighter gets paid to fight. And although I am considered “big” and I can certainly “fight”, I was never compensated for it.
Like I said earlier, if you’re going to let every negative comment move you to come here and rant on the interwebz and get to you, you’re choosing an uphill paper route in life.
You keep talking about “my job”. Last I checked, the insurance industry paid my full salary. The other stuff was moonlighting. If I have the temperment and skill to make side money, why wouldn’t I do that?
So, a real man reacts by posting the OP? Hmmm. I suggest you read it again. If not insecurity, it reeks of immaturity.
[quote]WP wrote:
Part of the problem here is that many of you care too much.[/quote]
For the win…
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I swear I’d hate to be a woman on the search for a mate, i.e., “a man”. No wonder the penis enlargement/enhancement industry is alive and thriving. No matter how hard you try, some of you will just never be comfortable in their own damn skin. No one cares how big you are. I didn’t know a stupid comment like “I know someone bigger than you” could elicit such a tantrum.
I didn’t know that such a throw-a-way comment could get you guys to circle the wagons and chant, “he aint respectin your accomplishments” LOL. You bust your ass to stand out, for people to notice, and you want everyone to adore you, for all to accept you, to all appreciate you. Get the fuck over it. Go get a hair cut…a bunch of people will like it and admire it, and some won’t. Who gives a fuck? Seriously.[/quote]
OK, now that we know how you feel about the OP, how do you feel about the twit that he was ranting about? you jump at the oppurtunity to bash the OP and completely ignore what this thread is about. BTW, the shit you’re saying reeks of insecurity. [/quote]
I have no feeling about the twit he was talking about. The world is full of twits. If you’re going to let every twit and his stupid opinions be the fuel for random venting on the interwebz, you’re going to have a pretty tough paper route ahead of you. I usually forget twits the moment they stop speaking. [/quote]
Why do you care so much why people post and what people post? This forum is just for shits and giggles and rants and stupidity so what’s the big deal? I think you’re the one who takes this shit waaaay too seriously.
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I call bullshit. I get noticed in every room I walk in. And I don’t get OP’s rant. I think it’s insecure. [/quote]
Yeah, and I see that bullshit often. I am trying to figure when every random boob on the street went to school for their advanced Psych degree. They must be handing that shit out in cereal boxes.
“Why would he get so big…he must be insecure”
“Why did he buy a car like that, he must be insecure”.
“Why would he lift so much weight…he must be insecure”.
How about, they just like pushing their own limits?
This is a job setting. All you can do in a professional setting is smile and keep walking almost no matter what is said to you if you want to keep that job.
To my knowledge, you work as a fucking bouncer. It is NOT the same.
If I bitch about some ladies at work saying negative shit daily, it is NOT insecurity.
It is a fucking discussion.[/quote]
I never considered myself a random “boob” and I haven’t consumed cereal in quite some time but if you know of any brands that contains some decent toys, I’ll consider your recommendation.
I do think you protest too loudly on the insecurity issue though…that’s my personal boob opinion, sans cereal box or degree…but I do know someone lol. To your knowledge - the foregoing is fertile ground I shall ignore, I “work as a fucking bouncer”. Is a random attempted insult the same as a random “boob”? I have a day job, but you knew that. And, I no longer work nightclub security - it was temporary. I too wore a suit and tie for many years…and kept smiling daily and somehow, managed to not come here and start a venomous thread about every perceived slight. The OP was certainly not a simple bitching…it was a bit more than that. Read it again.[/quote]
First, that was not an insult. How could I insult you for something I’ve done before? Hell, people still come up to me in the gym and ask if I can be a bouncer at their random parties and meetings. The point was, you had a job that basically REVOLVED around your size and physical presence…yet you turn around and call people insecure for living their lives the same way.
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I swear I’d hate to be a woman on the search for a mate, i.e., “a man”. No wonder the penis enlargement/enhancement industry is alive and thriving. No matter how hard you try, some of you will just never be comfortable in their own damn skin. No one cares how big you are. I didn’t know a stupid comment like “I know someone bigger than you” could elicit such a tantrum.
I didn’t know that such a throw-a-way comment could get you guys to circle the wagons and chant, “he aint respectin your accomplishments” LOL. You bust your ass to stand out, for people to notice, and you want everyone to adore you, for all to accept you, to all appreciate you. Get the fuck over it. Go get a hair cut…a bunch of people will like it and admire it, and some won’t. Who gives a fuck? Seriously.[/quote]
OK, now that we know how you feel about the OP, how do you feel about the twit that he was ranting about? you jump at the oppurtunity to bash the OP and completely ignore what this thread is about. BTW, the shit you’re saying reeks of insecurity. [/quote]
I have no feeling about the twit he was talking about. The world is full of twits. If you’re going to let every twit and his stupid opinions be the fuel for random venting on the interwebz, you’re going to have a pretty tough paper route ahead of you. I usually forget twits the moment they stop speaking. [/quote]
Why do you care so much why people post and what people post? This forum is just for shits and giggles and rants and stupidity so what’s the big deal? I think you’re the one who takes this shit waaaay too seriously. [/quote]
I have to agree. And once again, this happens way too often with this particular OP. You don’t see people come out the woodworks even for the “i can find pants to fit” crowd. yet for this guy, everyone gets upset.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I swear I’d hate to be a woman on the search for a mate, i.e., “a man”. No wonder the penis enlargement/enhancement industry is alive and thriving. No matter how hard you try, some of you will just never be comfortable in their own damn skin. No one cares how big you are. I didn’t know a stupid comment like “I know someone bigger than you” could elicit such a tantrum.
I didn’t know that such a throw-a-way comment could get you guys to circle the wagons and chant, “he aint respectin your accomplishments” LOL. You bust your ass to stand out, for people to notice, and you want everyone to adore you, for all to accept you, to all appreciate you. Get the fuck over it. Go get a hair cut…a bunch of people will like it and admire it, and some won’t. Who gives a fuck? Seriously.[/quote]
OK, now that we know how you feel about the OP, how do you feel about the twit that he was ranting about? you jump at the oppurtunity to bash the OP and completely ignore what this thread is about. BTW, the shit you’re saying reeks of insecurity. [/quote]
I have no feeling about the twit he was talking about. The world is full of twits. If you’re going to let every twit and his stupid opinions be the fuel for random venting on the interwebz, you’re going to have a pretty tough paper route ahead of you. I usually forget twits the moment they stop speaking. [/quote]
Why do you care so much why people post and what people post? This forum is just for shits and giggles and rants and stupidity so what’s the big deal? I think you’re the one who takes this shit waaaay too seriously. [/quote]
I have to agree. And once again, this happens way too often with this particular OP. You don’t see people come out the woodworks even for the “i can find pants to fit” crowd. yet for this guy, everyone gets upset.[/quote]
Every time this happens, everyone starts throwing around the 'Why do you care?" card. I say why do you care, you say why do I care that you care, I say why do you care that I care that you care.
It’s fucking stupid. Let’s just burn this fucker down.
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
It’s fucking stupid. Let’s just burn this fucker down.[/quote]
Burn, baby, burn.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I call bullshit. I get noticed in every room I walk in. And I don’t get OP’s rant. I think it’s insecure. [/quote]
Yeah, and I see that bullshit often. I am trying to figure when every random boob on the street went to school for their advanced Psych degree. They must be handing that shit out in cereal boxes.
“Why would he get so big…he must be insecure”
“Why did he buy a car like that, he must be insecure”.
“Why would he lift so much weight…he must be insecure”.
How about, they just like pushing their own limits?
This is a job setting. All you can do in a professional setting is smile and keep walking almost no matter what is said to you if you want to keep that job.
To my knowledge, you work as a fucking bouncer. It is NOT the same.
If I bitch about some ladies at work saying negative shit daily, it is NOT insecurity.
It is a fucking discussion.[/quote]
I never considered myself a random “boob” and I haven’t consumed cereal in quite some time but if you know of any brands that contains some decent toys, I’ll consider your recommendation.
I do think you protest too loudly on the insecurity issue though…that’s my personal boob opinion, sans cereal box or degree…but I do know someone lol. To your knowledge - the foregoing is fertile ground I shall ignore, I “work as a fucking bouncer”. Is a random attempted insult the same as a random “boob”? I have a day job, but you knew that. And, I no longer work nightclub security - it was temporary. I too wore a suit and tie for many years…and kept smiling daily and somehow, managed to not come here and start a venomous thread about every perceived slight. The OP was certainly not a simple bitching…it was a bit more than that. Read it again.[/quote]
First, that was not an insult. How could I insult you for something I’ve done before? Hell, people still come up to me in the gym and ask if I can be a bouncer at their random parties and meetings. The point was, you had a job that basically REVOLVED around your size and physical presence…yet you turn around and call people insecure for living their lives the same way. [/quote]
No, I thought his reaction, with the venom, was immature, perhaps insecure. I didn’t say he was insecure for “living his life the same way” although I have no clue what the heck that means…I thought his response was perhaps insecure…
And for the record, lest this become about me, I never wanted to be “big”. Big was a side effect of my obsession with strength. I never wanted to pass 250 and I’m happily on my way back down under it.