[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
[quote]-mc- wrote:
[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
Unfortunately you’ve got to deal with it. You walking into a coaches office and telling him how he should be training his players is going to give him a good laugh and keep your kid on the bench for the next four years- especially if he’s got a winning program.
I played for one of the most successful programs in New Jersey when I was in HS, and our lifting was total-body, three days a week- long, grueling workouts with squats, bench, military presses, hang cleans, etc. It was probably the best that you can do for kids that are loaded with all kinds of other shit to do besides worrying about football (although let’s say it was quite a concern for you.)
Leave the coach alone. Do not “step in.” The coach isn’t walking into your gym and telling you how to train your clients, so don’t walk into his and tell him how to train his players.
Regardless of whether you know your shit or not, you will likely seriously offend him, and he’d have every right to be offended.[/quote]
so that happened a lot did it? that a mom asked a question and this was the effect?
Wow, you guys really have a terrible view of a person’s ability to listen to concerns.
Teachers and coaches actually have an obligation to be accountable to parents who effectively pay their salary.
there’s nothing wrong with asking questions or for that matter establishing a rapport with a coach.
i work with quite a few highschool coaches in working with athletes on their teams and it’s rare to find a coach who’s so insecure that questions with respect are not engaged well.
sorry so many of you have had such crap experiences. even in the south.
mc
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LOL. Listen, maybe your coaches were of the sensitive, accepting new-age type, but mine were old school fuckin hardasses.
And if someone’s mother came in and ever told the coach how his players should lift, that poor bastard would not only ride the bench, he’d be laughed off the team by the rest of us.[/quote]
i’m sorry for your experience in growing up with mean spirited, small minded men who had your training, physically and psychologically in their hands, and gave you such foul models of intelligent interaction about same, especially with women, and somehow could only retaliate by taking their in securities about their skills on the field, about their communication and their facility with women out on children.
The important thing is that you - and the rest of your colleagues who have such the same here - have transcended that, are well rounded, strong, independent men, who can engage in a discussion about practice - esp with women - without being reduced to fears for your male member.
WAY TO GO.
mc