Dude, we have guys on this site who are only “somewhat sorry” that they fucked their Aunt.
Chillax, will you?
Well, and yes, if it troubles you that much you very either raised by the Amish or there is something else wrong and you should figure out what that is.
Alternatively, get drunk, dress up as a pirate and stick it in someones pooper.
That should do the trick, youd have a whole new set of things to worry abozt, for if you are prone to feel guilty you could at least find something new to feel guilty about every 2 months or so.
[quote]mmf4holymc wrote:
so qhat man??
think, if the girl cheated on his husband once, she’ll doit and did it more times, after 3 years i’m pretty sure that relation ship is over.
no one deserves a cheating whore/bitch/wife/gf/aunt.
Just move on, she was the one who cheated, not you and no one put a gun on her head.
PD: Sometimes i dream about a MMF with Holymac, mmmmm (leaves the room and stares his 6th grade teacher’s pic)[/quote]
What!?!
As far as I remember the Aunt made several blojays but she never cheated on anyone.
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
OP is a fucking nutjob. And whomever is offering him a serious reply is his equal (nutjob). OP is probably catholic. Your God isn’t here priest.[/quote]
Wow! Very helpful!
You can whine all you want, but a REAL MAN helps his fellow man out in times of need. He doesn’t discourage him.
[quote]kodiak82 wrote:
[quote]mmf4holymc wrote:
so qhat man??
think, if the girl cheated on his husband once, she’ll doit and did it more times, after 3 years i’m pretty sure that relation ship is over.
no one deserves a cheating whore/bitch/wife/gf/aunt.
Just move on, she was the one who cheated, not you and no one put a gun on her head.
PD: Sometimes i dream about a MMF with Holymac, mmmmm (leaves the room and stares his 6th grade teacher’s pic)[/quote]
You’re just creepy…[/quote]
x2
this is the creepiest poster on TN
If I was mac I’d be worried.
We need to protect our boy from this weird fuck.
[quote]brandnewtommy wrote:
i know a guy whose wife cheats on him, and i just want to scream it in his face that his wife is a cheating whore, but i keep my mouth shut cause his wife if my girlfriend. but i feel guilty just knowing it and he doesnt. go to confession.[/quote]
Fix’d
IMO it is ALWAYS the fault of the person in the relationship(rape not being a factor obviously). If I was married and my wife cheated on me, sure I would want to beat the shit out of the guy who my wife slept with, but I would lay all fault on her. Maybe this thinking is wrong, but it is how I see it.
[quote]Sarev0k wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
OP is a fucking nutjob. And whomever is offering him a serious reply is his equal (nutjob). OP is probably catholic. Your God isn’t here priest.[/quote]
Wow! Very helpful!
You can whine all you want, but a REAL MAN helps his fellow man out in times of need. He doesn’t discourage him.[/quote]
I’d agree but ya kno. his is the internet. Anyone with guilt issues and a budding (if not full blown) personality disorder needs real help. Bodyguard’s post is fine, because nothing anyone can post here can be held with strength. If these issues are real, theyre too deep for the “fuck bro its just sex” he’ll get here.
OP, honestly, there’s no help here…seek a professional, please.
[quote]Sarev0k wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
OP is a fucking nutjob. And whomever is offering him a serious reply is his equal (nutjob). OP is probably catholic. Your God isn’t here priest.[/quote]
Wow! Very helpful!
You can whine all you want, but a REAL MAN helps his fellow man out in times of need. He doesn’t discourage him.[/quote]
You can add yourself to the nutjob category. Anyone that would think he is “helping” someone here on the internet has an inflated opinion on his “help”. First, you don’t know if his post is real. If it isn’t, you can fall from your real man white horse right now. If his post is real, he is far beyond whatever help you can render, wherein again, you fall from your white horse.
What did we learn today? You have a disconnected view of what a “real man” is; you like to ride an imaginary white horse to “help” your fellow man, and you fall from it quite often. Did I miss anything hero?
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]Sarev0k wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
OP is a fucking nutjob. And whomever is offering him a serious reply is his equal (nutjob). OP is probably catholic. Your God isn’t here priest.[/quote]
Wow! Very helpful!
You can whine all you want, but a REAL MAN helps his fellow man out in times of need. He doesn’t discourage him.[/quote]
You can add yourself to the nutjob category. Anyone that would think he is “helping” someone here on the internet has an inflated opinion on his “help”. First, you don’t know if his post is real. If it isn’t, you can fall from your real man white horse right now. If his post is real, he is far beyond whatever help you can render, wherein again, you fall from your white horse.
What did we learn today? You have a disconnected view of what a “real man” is; you like to ride an imaginary white horse to “help” your fellow man, and you fall from it quite often. Did I miss anything hero?[/quote]
Yes.
There are worse things than falling from a horse every now and then.
Also, windmills are tempting.
OP move on.
If you bring anything up you are going to find yourself in a mess that you will desperately want to get out of.
You need to get over this. Go talk to a therapist.
[quote]UNCheavylifter wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Fuck it, I’ll go, too.
Back in high school my girlfriend and I were celebrating our 2 year anniversary. I told my mom about it and she offered to pay for dinner for the 2 of us as a gift. My girlfriend and I agreed and my mom gave us $50 to spend at the Olive Garden. We took the $50 and spent it on McDonald’s and beer.
Whew. Now I feel better.[/quote]
Woah…50 bucks for McDonald’s??? Your girlfriend must be an elephant [/quote]
AND BEEER DIPSHIT LEARN TO FUCKING READ GOSH!!! lol
Pussy
Professor X… is that you?
MODS , COME ON. Some threads shouldn’t be made. ( referring to the aunt thread)
[quote]needadvice wrote:
I created this new account to ask this question because I don’t really want any T- Friends to know who I am because I’d be embarressed.
Basically I feel asbolutly awfull about something I did in the past. I can’t stop thinking about it, sometimes my brain feels “pumped” from all the worrying.
About three years ago I was in a nightclub with a few friends when this girl comes on to me and starts flirting. I go along with it (why not) and before I know it, we are kissin on some seat. After a while we decide to go back to my place. She tells me before sex that shes engaged and has two kids! I tell her no way, I can’t do this and then she tells me " But i Don’t love him" For some reason I interpreted this as “its ok, shes not really in a relationship if she doesnt love him, go for it.”
Of course this was me thinking with my dick. Afterwards, she went back to her home up the North and i Broke off all contact with her. I wanted nothing to do with her.
This happened three years ago. I was 21 at the time, and I didn’t think much about it because i was young, immature, free and single and probably drunk. I cant remember all the details.
Now I am 24 and i have a serious relationship and I’m feeling regret. And I don’t know if i can accept what i did. I feel like I am a scumbag that doesnt deserve happiness in a relatonship. I worry about that man and his two kids up the North, will he be played by some careless woman for the rest of his life? I am ashamed that I was part of her making a fool out of him. I am ashamed that I was weak, and had sex with his Fiance. That last line disgusts me.
I am disgusted
I keep thinking of some decent man up the North with 2 kids, and a cheating fiance, and he doesnt know any better. I feel like he deserves to know the truth but I can’t find him. I don’t know how to deal with this guilt. I used to like who I was, now I dont want to be on my own. I’m nearly crying as i type. If i Had the morals that I Have now back then, I would have kicked that bitch out, and rang her boyfriend off her phone.
But I was 21 and sexually inexperienced, a bit drunk and pathetic. I dont know how to be happy again. I dont want to become clinically depressed, and anxious. I used to enjoy being a positive person. Now whenever I try to be happy this guilt drags me back. A few freinds of mine told me that she was the one in the wrong, that she lured me in and she “knew what she was doing. You were single, you didnt cheat, she did”
But I still feel wrong. I cant get this cloud of misery off my shoulders. I need a different perspective on the situation, one that will help me to get over this.
If you can offer any advice on dealing with guilt I would more than appreciate it. Its effecting my entire life.
I feel like this is something that “isnt who i am” but i cant get away from the guilt. I used to take pride in being a generally decent person, but this memory shakes my foundations. It challenges the way i percieve things, it makes me feel unacceptable, immmoral, prick, fuckin stupid. I dont want to feel like that dickhead who slept with a man’s woman.
I would never approache another man’s woman. Never. Ever. its not something I would ever thought i would do. Its something i take serious, and this memory shakes my whole fuckin life.
The longer this goes on, the more I forget about the details of that night. And the more ambiguous the situation becomes. More to worry about.
Lately I honestly cant remember if she told me before or after sex that she was engaged and had two kids.
All i remember saying was “no i cant do this” after she said it. Im thinking about it so much that anything else is exhausting
She really didnt give a shit. I do.
Can anyone help with this mess, i feel like a cunte.
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bro! I read just a part , because the remaining one was really unneeded and unmeaningful!
Ypu had a fuck, you pleasured yor cock, and it was good! she pleasured her pussy as well! she created that. you co-created this… there is no reason, absolutely no reason to look back…and to feel guilty.
You are the creator of your reality and if you keep generating a low vibration with such negative thinking you are going to ruin your days, NOW, and it is what u are doing.
You just have to think to your life, YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO, it is not your business and should not affect your living. IF YOU WANT TO LIVE GOOD AND BE HAPPY!
Choose better feeling thoughts and forget the guilt
if you have to keep thinking to the lady, just think to how her pussy felt good and how you pleasured yourself
ciao!
[quote]mmf4holymc wrote:
no one deserves a cheating whore/bitch/wife/gf/aunt.
[/quote]
this is bullshit!
That woman is still a human being as we all are and so no more no less deserving and beautiful creature than we all are!
we gotta grow on those themes!!!
This is MUCH more common than you can possibly imagine, and I’ll spare the details.
To you, relax yo. No need to repent…you did what ANY normal man in your position would have done.
To the rest, all I have to say is: