[quote]zraw wrote:
To be perfectly honest I dont even get where you see all this negativity
If me telling you why you werent seeing much visual changes is negative to you well fuck me for being objective
You are doing good with the weight/fat loss… I didnt think I needed to keep telling it to you every few days though.
And please realize that you are doing this FOR YOU… No one is forcing you to do anything… You bought this bike for YOUR FAT LOSS not for this thread…
Im not exactly sure what triggered this response…[/quote]
I think he took some of the post the wrong way… like when he was told he’d get an arm day soon, he took that as something is wrong with his arms… It is very easy to read something and get it mixed up…
HT stay on this shit, just relax, let things slide and don’t take anything to heart. If i can do this you sure as hell can. Zraw and strong are only have your best interests in mind!
I want to comment on your Bourbon rant, because I have seen this before, mainly within myself.
Your body is changing, but your mind still sees yourself as a big, strong, swole, yet a bit chubby self.
The mental image of yourself must change along with your body. You must see yourself as the guy who is big and strong, but no longer carries the fat that hides that awesome muscle you have built.
I know this is hard, because it is the identity you might have had, for maybe a very long time. But more than the physical change, the personal image of yourself you have also must change too.
I personally believe, that this mental change is even more important than the physical change, because you now know within yourself, what it took to achieve these awesome results. You remove personal doubt, one of life’s biggest obstacles.
No matter what life throws you, where it puts you, you will always be Heavy Thrower, the dude who had the sack to say fuck fear and just go for it.
Z and Strong are spot on, they have you on your way. And the T-brothas got your back, bring it home big man.
[quote]zraw wrote:
Im not exactly sure what triggered this response…[/quote]
Sometimes you need to give compassion and sometimes you have to give the stick. I think that HT was just venting and anyone who has gone through a struggle should be able to relate to that.
Thanks for venting HT. It gives us a much better insight into you and I think that in a year when you look through your log you’re going to remember the times you got frustrated and be thankful that you stuck with it.
HT, it’s the Internet.
Who cares what people say?
Someone thinks you’re too fat? So
Someone thinks you’re too small? So
Someone thinks your arms aren’t big enough? So
You’re doing this for you.
Take the advice and let comments that you feel are negative roll off your back.
Maybe have less burbon next time too
Since when did this thread turn into “let’s talk about feelings?”
I thought this was about someone going from #fullhouse to getting absolutely shredded?
I didn’t know you could fit bourbon into your macros?
I’ve never seen so much coddling, if us 20 something’s don’t know how to do things properly, then the men in the over 35 crowd posting in here are menstruating. Good god!
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
Since when did this thread turn into “let’s talk about feelings?”
I thought this was about someone going from #fullhouse to getting absolutely shredded?
I didn’t know you could fit bourbon into your macros?
I’ve never seen so much coddling, if us 20 something’s don’t know how to do things properly, then the men in the over 35 crowd posting in here are menstruating. Good god![/quote]
stop being so negative
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
Since when did this thread turn into “let’s talk about feelings?”
I thought this was about someone going from #fullhouse to getting absolutely shredded?
I didn’t know you could fit bourbon into your macros?
I’ve never seen so much coddling, if us 20 something’s don’t know how to do things properly, then the men in the over 35 crowd posting in here are menstruating. Good god![/quote]
stop being so negative[/quote]
I’m not. I’m just stating facts.
Marzouk has gotten a ton more flack for his weight loss journey an his attitude has been far more
positive. He knows what he has to do to accomplish his goals, why can’t HT maintain a similar level of levelheadedness?
Way to keep it positive.
Follow James’ example everyone.[/quote]
Fair enough, I deserved that.
Sorry D.
james
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I’m just giving you a hard time Jimmy.
No big deal
We are all hear for a little lifting advice, fun and to BS with like minded individuals, it’s all good.
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
Since when did this thread turn into “let’s talk about feelings?”
I thought this was about someone going from #fullhouse to getting absolutely shredded?
I didn’t know you could fit bourbon into your macros?
I’ve never seen so much coddling, if us 20 something’s don’t know how to do things properly, then the men in the over 35 crowd posting in here are menstruating. Good god![/quote]
stop being so negative[/quote]
I’m not. I’m just stating facts.
Marzouk has gotten a ton more flack for his weight loss journey an his attitude has been far more
positive. He knows what he has to do to accomplish his goals, why can’t HT maintain a similar level of levelheadedness?[/quote]
You are still on time out.
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
Since when did this thread turn into “let’s talk about feelings?”
I thought this was about someone going from #fullhouse to getting absolutely shredded?
I didn’t know you could fit bourbon into your macros?
I’ve never seen so much coddling, if us 20 something’s don’t know how to do things properly, then the men in the over 35 crowd posting in here are menstruating. Good god![/quote]
stop being so negative[/quote]
I’m not. I’m just stating facts.
Marzouk has gotten a ton more flack for his weight loss journey an his attitude has been far more
positive. He knows what he has to do to accomplish his goals, why can’t HT maintain a similar level of levelheadedness?[/quote]
You are still on time out.[/quote]
That’s twice HT has threatened to quit if people weren’t “nicer” to him. I honestly haven’t seen one single post that could be reasonably misconstrued as negative. I’m sure he has a lot goin’ on in his personal life, but in this thread he’s being unnecessarily sensitive and defensive, and if he keeps it up he’s gonna blow a golden opportunity. Nothing just written is/was negative. It is fact.
