Giving Up on Women

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[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]SickSex6 wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2". [/quote]

5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
agreed, what the fuck is that shit? FUck![/quote]

Some people like leggy blonds with big breasts. Or curvy Latinas. Dammit. I’m neither leggy, curvy, or Latina. Please advise.

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Squat and deadlift heavy. Short girls always win the ass thigh and calf battle. Also cut your hair short if it already isnt.

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Yes!!! like this?[/quote]

Ahhh for fuck sake. Beth grow your hair. You will find a guy here and there who like short hair and half of those will be white knighteres who just say that because they want to get in your pants. The overwhelming majority of men prefer LONG hair. You’ve got that hot body so why limit the impact you make on us poor guys? Grow your hair out, take care of it so it’s shiny and luxurious and make us drool! It’s tuff to have a hot body, why fail at something so easy as hair?[/quote]

Most guys do, I’ll give you that. A. I can pull of the short hair B. I find it attracts the kind of guys I actually want. When I had long hair I got chased by skanky guys who were deficient in intellect. I find hair length seems to be way more important to guys with strong patriarchal opinions. I’m all set with that. I’m not a feminist by any means, and my hair does not detract from my femininity.[/quote]

Nothing wrong with short medium or long hair. [/quote]

I have photographic evidence that might make you think twice, including one where I look like a 12-year-old boy, and then an awkward bob that made me look like the super sexy Alice from Dilbert.

Beth, the cute lip biter can pull it off. I wish I could. There are few who really can.

If you want to go with the numbers, most men will say:

Long Hair
Sundresses, or hemlines above the knee.
Natural Make-up

A red lip or a smokey cat eye sometimes, otherwise most men will line up on all points. I’m always surprised at how many women never wear a dress. “Sundresses are like kryptonite.” - Direct quote from The Mister. :)))

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I’ve cut my hair short a couple of times. As OnEdge mentioned, the first big mistake was cutting it right after I had my first baby. This was the mid-90’s so maybe it would be a better cut now, but at 26, it made me look at least 10 years older.

Then I tried a short shag a few years ago. It got a lot of complements from other women. I think other women frequently like shorter cuts. BUT my husband and son both told me to grow it out ASAP.

And this is the kicker, when I mentioned that I was growing it back out, a male neighbor said, “Thank God! I didn’t want to hurt your feelings, but you are too pretty a woman to have mom hair.”

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[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
I’ve cut my hair short a couple of times. As OnEdge mentioned, the first big mistake was cutting it right after I had my first baby. This was the mid-90’s so maybe it would be a better cut now, but at 26, it made me look at least 10 years older.

Then I tried a short shag a few years ago. It got a lot of complements from other women. I think other women frequently like shorter cuts. BUT my husband and son both told me to grow it out ASAP.

And this is the kicker, when I mentioned that I was growing it back out, a male neighbor said, “Thank God! I didn’t want to hurt your feelings, but you are too pretty a woman to have mom hair.” [/quote]

Well, so you make yourself less attractive to men and women congratulate you on it.

Mmmmhhhh…

Intrasexual competition much?

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
I’ve cut my hair short a couple of times. As OnEdge mentioned, the first big mistake was cutting it right after I had my first baby. This was the mid-90’s so maybe it would be a better cut now, but at 26, it made me look at least 10 years older.

Then I tried a short shag a few years ago. It got a lot of complements from other women. I think other women frequently like shorter cuts. BUT my husband and son both told me to grow it out ASAP.

And this is the kicker, when I mentioned that I was growing it back out, a male neighbor said, “Thank God! I didn’t want to hurt your feelings, but you are too pretty a woman to have mom hair.” [/quote]

Well, so you make yourself less attractive to men and women congratulate you on it.

Mmmmhhhh…

Intrasexual competition much?

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Maybe, but it’s a cynical view. If it’s true I don’t think it’s a conscious thing.

And no, these were not lesbians, hopeful I’d switched teams. :slight_smile:

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[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

Maybe, but it’s a cynical view.
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Mebbe

No, it usually is not.

Mmmmhhhhhh…

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So i havent clicked in this thread since maybe 12 pages ago. What are we still talking about? Can I get a quick summary of the current discussion pa pa pa please?

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[quote]Waittz wrote:
So i havent clicked in this thread since maybe 12 pages ago. What are we still talking about? Can I get a quick summary of the current discussion pa pa pa please? [/quote]

Read the entire thread as I did. You know the rules.

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[quote]dmaddox wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:
So i havent clicked in this thread since maybe 12 pages ago. What are we still talking about? Can I get a quick summary of the current discussion pa pa pa please? [/quote]

Read the entire thread as I did. You know the rules.[/quote]

x2.

The lip biting gifs are mandatory viewing.

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This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such!

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[quote]Nman wrote:
This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]

O_O

Did you look at the divorce stats lately?

The majority of divorces is filed by… ?

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[quote]Nman wrote:
This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]
Post more or read more, you may find you are not alone on these boards.

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[quote]Nman wrote:
Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]

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Have we not discussed this ad nauseum?

I will say again that BOTH partners in a relationship of success do what he just posted.

Dude you do realize there are successful relationships in the world, happy healthy relationships?

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]
Post more or read more, you may find you are not alone on these boards.[/quote]

Yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah.

“Women are unique and special”- All of them, nice trick if you can pull it off, he is snowflaking for them, mwua…

“Men are not comitted”- Unfortunately we will never know, because they file the overwhelming majority of divorces.

“How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? …Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own”

Whats in it for me?

Or has the definition of “real man” been changed to freaking idiot?

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[quote]Chushin wrote:
Nice balance of “tough” and “love.”[/quote]

I learned from the best.

I think I was channeling Sensei there, just a little.

I could write a book of pithy SB epigrams, but this one deserves high rank in the list:

“You want to be good…if it’s not too much trouble.”

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]

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Have we not discussed this ad nauseum?

I will say again that BOTH partners in a relationship of success do what he just posted.

Dude you do realize there are successful relationships in the world, happy healthy relationships? [/quote]

So I hear.

But thats not what he wrote.

He advocates supplication and he snowflakes.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]
Post more or read more, you may find you are not alone on these boards.[/quote]

Yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah.

“Women are unique and special”- All of them, nice trick if you can pull it off, he is snowflaking for them, mwua…

“Men are not comitted”- Unfortunately we will never know, because they file the overwhelming majority of divorces.

“How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? …Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own”

Whats in it for me?

Or has the definition of “real man” been changed to freaking idiot?

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Lol, you still cant get it can you?

If you never sacrifice yourself for someone no one is going to reciprocate, period, end of story, yes that takes risk. Some of us choose well and keep it going.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]

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Have we not discussed this ad nauseum?

I will say again that BOTH partners in a relationship of success do what he just posted.

Dude you do realize there are successful relationships in the world, happy healthy relationships? [/quote]

So I hear.

But thats not what he wrote.

He advocates supplication and he snowflakes.

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Maybe, but he has posted 12 times in how long?

I may have read into it more than you. Looking at his avi 1. he lifts 2. he is a father 3. he is strong in his convictions

That normally does not lead me to believe he is a pushover put the pussy on a pedestal type person.

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Nman wrote:
This is a really sad discussion. I don’t usually respond because I don’t spend a lot of times on forums, i usually read the articles and get back to work but this thread name caught my attention and I wanted to see what it was about. I didn’t read it all but I feel like I read enough and I feel like I should give my two cents. A few things, I was a virgin until I got married and was glad. I’m a religious person and was taught about sexual purity and know that it’s a true doctrine. I have two little girls and I’m scared to death of them finding guys like you. Guys that don’t care about who my daughters are, guys that think my daughters are just a good time and have no respect for them. It’s sad! It’s no wonder that the Family in the US is breaking down and the consequences of that are the real problems behind the issues in our country. Men aren’t men anymore. Sure everyone on this site lifts and talks big but how many would give up everything for their wife? How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? How many men are fully committed to their wives/marriages? Look at the divorce stats and you’ll see not many. Being a man to me means being fully committed to your wife, to your kids and to marriage. There are reasons for a divorce (not saying there isn’t) but the current trend is disturbing and shows that men and women aren’t as dedicated to each other as they could/should be. Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own. Women are unique and special and need to be treated as such! [/quote]
Post more or read more, you may find you are not alone on these boards.[/quote]

Yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah.

“Women are unique and special”- All of them, nice trick if you can pull it off, he is snowflaking for them, mwua…

“Men are not comitted”- Unfortunately we will never know, because they file the overwhelming majority of divorces.

“How many men selflessly put their wives needs/wants in front of their own? …Whenever I have issues in my marriage the best solution is to turn away from my wants and my needs and to put my wife’s wants/needs above my own”

Whats in it for me?

Or has the definition of “real man” been changed to freaking idiot?

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Lol, you still cant get it can you?

If you never sacrifice yourself for someone no one is going to reciprocate, period, end of story, yes that takes risk. Some of us choose well and keep it going.

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Lol, you did not read what he wrote did you?

If he always gives in, there is no reciprocating.

There cannot be.

It is logically impossible.