Giving Up on Women

Off Topic
302

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Omg lol I can’t pull that off hahhaha

And flilcollar what if an uggo approached you when you were with the bros?!? Only super hot women would make it awesome!![/quote]

First, you described yourself as a 6 which is cute and not uggo.

Second, at 26, you would have a hard time being ugly if you are halfway in shape.

Third, you read this board yet you do not see.

There are superhot girls out there who noone would fuck with a stolen dick if he knew from the getgo just how, crazy, broken, borderline BPD they really are.

So, your solution is not “OMG I cannot do that because I am not pretty enough” it is “Shit, if all those party sluts could not charm their way out of a paper bag and are doing their best to look like zombies at the age of 30, thats my fucking ticket!”

Learn how to wear a dress, be charming, be feminine and the average American male wont know what hit him.

There is a reason why those poor saps fall for EE golddiggers en masse, they never developed defenses against true feminity, they never had too.

303

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Omg lol I can’t pull that off hahhaha

And flilcollar what if an uggo approached you when you were with the bros?!? Only super hot women would make it awesome!![/quote]

Are you suggesting that you are ugly or is this just a hypothetical question?

304

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Omg lol I can’t pull that off hahhaha

And flilcollar what if an uggo approached you when you were with the bros?!? Only super hot women would make it awesome!![/quote]

First, you described yourself as a 6 which is cute and not uggo.

Second, at 26, you would have a hard time being ugly if you are halfway in shape.

Third, you read this board yet you do not see.

There are superhot girls out there who noone would fuck with a stolen dick if he knew from the getgo just how, crazy, broken, borderline BPD they really are.

So, your solution is not “OMG I cannot do that because I am not pretty enough” it is “Shit, if all those party sluts could not charm their way out of a paper bag and are doing their best to look like zombies at the age of 30, thats my fucking ticket!”

Learn how to wear a dress, be charming, be feminine and the average American male wont know what hit him.

There is a reason why those poor saps fall for EE golddiggers en masse, they never developed defenses against true feminity, they never had too.

[/quote]

2nd this!!! Reasonably attractive, intelligent, women over smokin hot, retarded, party sluts. All day long.

305

If she doesn’t want to bite her lip, bite the thing for her.

306

That lipbite is DANGEROUS, no doubt.

My first (semi, 2nd base only) girlfriend did this all the time.
You know, the age, when hot teens naturally experiment how to bend time and space with their pussy magic.
When man wonders how much is instinct or play or maybe childish malice.
We barely knew each other when went to her place to fetch a schoolbook during recess.

Her parents were working, nobody’s home.
I’m standing in the hallway, the door’s not even closed, I think.
“Oh, here it is, got my book!”
She does this lipbite. From nowhere, a word that rhymes with “grape” springs to my mind.

I don’t want to know how much violent, savage cavesex my ancient ancestors got into 10000BC but I know this gesture can summon some powerful fuckvoodoo.

307

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.

308

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Omg lol I can’t pull that off hahhaha

And flilcollar what if an uggo approached you when you were with the bros?!? Only super hot women would make it awesome!![/quote]

First, you described yourself as a 6 which is cute and not uggo.

Second, at 26, you would have a hard time being ugly if you are halfway in shape.

Third, you read this board yet you do not see.

There are superhot girls out there who noone would fuck with a stolen dick if he knew from the getgo just how, crazy, broken, borderline BPD they really are.

So, your solution is not “OMG I cannot do that because I am not pretty enough” it is “Shit, if all those party sluts could not charm their way out of a paper bag and are doing their best to look like zombies at the age of 30, thats my fucking ticket!”

Learn how to wear a dress, be charming, be feminine and the average American male wont know what hit him.

There is a reason why those poor saps fall for EE golddiggers en masse, they never developed defenses against true feminity, they never had too.

[/quote]

^ all this. you’re good to go.

311

First time responding, but I’ve enjoyed reading this thread.

Guys also find confidence in women sexy just as women find it in men. Work that feminine charm and the guys will respond.

I agree with Orion’s reply and there are others who agree with him as well.

If a girl’s too shy, then she’ll never be able to talk with a guy or strum up a conversation, which is how things get rolling. I run into girl’s who are shy, don’t talk much and it doesn’t give me much to work with. Everyone’s taking a chance and it’s all a matter of just doing it.

313

I feel really confident in my zelda shirt maybe ill make eye contact then… that will fall on a thursday. Thanks for the support as always friends!

314

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
[/quote]

5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]

What you 4’8" or something? I am 6’5" so I am way above that number. She has a point though. Look at all the top actors in Movies. All about 5’7"

315

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
[/quote]

5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]

LOL! I wondered if you’d take offense. :slight_smile: I dated someone who was 6’3" so there are outliers, but my husband is 5’8". I frequently see attractive guys who are shorter.

Oh, and I wanted to add to the OP - Kissing someone is totally doable. In the scenario above, if things go well, hug her and give her a little peck on the cheek. Then the next time you do something together and you are saying goodbye, lay one on her mouth. When my husband hugs me, he’ll often lean down and rasp my cheek with his beard a little. If I turn my head up at him, he’s gonna give me a kiss. It might just be a quick peck, but if she responds, then the next time you’re in. You gotta take some risks.

316

I meet my bitches on T Nation.

317

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
[/quote]

5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
It’s cool bro. Plenty of people like sour shit. Apparently, your lady freyend is one of us.

318

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I feel really confident in my zelda shirt maybe ill make eye contact then… that will fall on a thursday. Thanks for the support as always friends![/quote]

Do you wear the Zelda shirt EVERY Thursday, or do you just plan out your wardrobe way in advance?

319

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
[/quote]

5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
agreed, what the fuck is that shit? FUck!

320

[quote]doogie wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I feel really confident in my zelda shirt maybe ill make eye contact then… that will fall on a thursday. Thanks for the support as always friends![/quote]

Do you wear the Zelda shirt EVERY Thursday, or do you just plan out your wardrobe way in advance?[/quote]

Plan, it’s all in the plan…

321

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I feel really confident in my zelda shirt maybe ill make eye contact then… that will fall on a thursday. Thanks for the support as always friends![/quote]

What kind of Zelda shirt? Need the old Triforce of Courage, eh? Awesome!

Whatever gives you the boost you need, run with that. We all have our tricks-o’-the-trade.