Giving Up on Women

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[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
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5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
agreed, what the fuck is that shit? FUck![/quote]

Some people like leggy blonds with big breasts. Or curvy Latinas. Dammit. I’m neither leggy, curvy, or Latina. Please advise.

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[quote]spar4tee wrote:
Orion, you’re killing me[/quote]

Who, me?

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[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
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5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
agreed, what the fuck is that shit? FUck![/quote]

Some people like leggy blonds with big breasts. Or curvy Latinas. Dammit. I’m neither leggy, curvy, or Latina. Please advise.

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And some of us like tiny little white girls! Under 5’4" less than 120. That’s me.

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
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5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]

Doesn’t the sweet spot depend upon one’s own height? I’m almost 5’7" and 5’4" is not in my sweet spot range. For me that would probably be 5’8" and up. That said, my boyfriend is a half inch or so shorter than me and it’s fine. I do feel awkward in heels, though, which he loves for me to wear. That he doesn’t care is sexy, btw.

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People tend to pair up according to their height relative to their genders average.

So, a woman who is in the 70% percentile will probably find a man in the same percentile and vice versa.

Its science.

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[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
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5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
agreed, what the fuck is that shit? FUck![/quote]

Some people like leggy blonds with big breasts. Or curvy Latinas. Dammit. I’m neither leggy, curvy, or Latina. Please advise.

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Squat and deadlift heavy. Short girls always win the ass thigh and calf battle. Also cut your hair short if it already isnt.

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I guess I should’ve elaborated a bit more…
… a great group of friends, and no problem whatsoever talking to girls. [/quote]

It’s been awhile, but I’m gonna take a stab at this. If you do this, you should at least be able to lean in and kiss a girl in the next month or two. BTW, height is not an issue. The sweet spot in terms of attractiveness in men is probably 5’4" to 5’10". I’m not quite 5’2".

Hanging out in a friend group where there are both men and women is not where you want to be. You need to meet a new woman who is not currently a friend, or someone who already hangs out in a large group with you. It’s easier to stay out of the friend zone if you never go there. Do not wait around for one of those girls you are already friends with to make a move.

You are a student. Meet someone new from one of your classes. Ask her to do something with you, NOT with you and a bunch of people. Just you. Even if it’s walking over to the coffee cart so you can look at her notes after class. Whatever. As soon as you can, establish some touching. When you open the door for her, touch her back or waist. If you are crossing a busy parking lot, take her by the hand. If she has her hand on the table, put your hand on her hand and give it a little squeeze. If you are sitting together, touch her knee. This stuff is really subtle, but it makes it clear that you think of her as more than just a friend. It’s a little bit possessive and protective. When you part, give her a hug if you can or take her hand and sqeeze it. If she hugs you back, or lingers, you’re in. Then, next time if you ask her to do something and she blows you off, move on. You might try this with 10 women before you find someone who is unattached and interested. You will know if she reciprocates because she’ll smile and make eye contact more, and won’t pull away.
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5’4" to 5’10"???

Jeez, I’m so far from the sweet spot that I’m downright sour![/quote]
It’s cool bro. Plenty of people like sour shit. Apparently, your lady freyend is one of us.[/quote]
Us?

Lady friend = wife?

Man, you gotta start typing more words.[/quote]
I’ve also liked sour food and wondered why so many people were averse to it.

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Doesn’t the sweet spot depend upon one’s own height?
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Yeah, that was a very uncharacteristic display of egocentrism on the part of our usually profound friend The Puff.[/quote]

She’s Heightist, obviously. They’re all filled with hate.

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Doesn’t the sweet spot depend upon one’s own height?
[/quote]

Yeah, that was a very uncharacteristic display of egocentrism on the part of our usually profound friend The Puff.[/quote]

She’s Heightist, obviously. They’re all filled with hate.[/quote]

“Filled” is easy when you’re barely able to see over the 5’ line. ;-)[/quote]

LOL at hateful heightist. :slight_smile: Emily and Chushin, I’m talking about ME when I said sweet spot. And the OP seems to think being 5’6" is a big deal. I’m just pointing out that it isn’t necessarily an issue. I’m well aware that lots of women prefer taller men, especially if they are tall. BTW, my brother and my dad are about 5’5". My brother’s wife is leggy and blond. If you’ve ever been around the horse racing industry, a lot of jockeys will date women who look like models. I think it’s a status thing. I come from a family with 4 generations of professional jockeys, so that might have something to do with my attitudes, but I think plenty of women will date guys who are 5’6".

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I feel really confident in my zelda shirt maybe ill make eye contact then… that will fall on a thursday. Thanks for the support as always friends![/quote]

It is cool. I dig chics in zelda shirts. I wear my TMNT shirt every Wensday.

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[quote]orion wrote:
People tend to pair up according to their height relative to their genders average.

So, a woman who is in the 70% percentile will probably find a man in the same percentile and vice versa.

Its science. [/quote]

Yep, height and IQ. The only two factors to very likely be similar with married couples.

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[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
People tend to pair up according to their height relative to their genders average.

So, a woman who is in the 70% percentile will probably find a man in the same percentile and vice versa.

Its science. [/quote]

Yep, height and IQ. The only two factors to very likely be similar with married couples. [/quote]
unless you’re rich

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All I have been seeing recently is women in the 5’ to 5’2" range of height.