[quote]Professor X wrote:
conwict wrote:
You’re an idiot…and I mean that in the softest most endearing way possible. While you are comparing and attempting to control variables, I will continue to look to those who have gotten to where I want to get to.
Come on, do you talk to people like that at work? Casually, to people you’ve never met?
And honestly we’re all wasting our time on this thread. Someone takes a civil tone, explains what they mean, and you call them an idiot? They’re not wasting any more time than you are, articulating what they feel brings success in the iron game. And frankly you two don’t really differ much in opinion.
Why would I be holding a conversation this in depth with someone I never met? For the conversation to even get to this level in a face to face meeting would require some deeper knowledge about a person. Are you holding conversations like this with complete strangers on subways? I write on this forum like I would speak in a room of people I might play basketball with. So, yes, I would speak the same way in that situation. This is NOT my job. I don’t get paid to be here. Please don’t write something so ridiculous again.
In fact, I’ll go one better. Considering how often one might get challenged on this site, do you honestly think many would argue face to face with someone about many of these issues if that person were much larger than them?[/quote]
Okay, so what I’m getting is that the more “in depth” your conversation goes, the more you tend to become belligerent? And no, while I’m not holding conversations of this nature on the subway (nor do I ride a subway regularly) I am a pretty even and truthful guy. I don’t have the type of personality that requires much if any restraint in everyday social situations, nor do I tend to spew vitriol in any situation.
Now, this is the internet, granted, but I tend to hold people whom I speak to on the internet to the same standards I expect them to stick to in real life. Your personality, or internet persona, or whatever I’m dealing with isn’t really of concern to me, so I guess you could call this post and the last one a rant.
And while I can definitely see your point about conversation on the internet being different (for a lot of reasons) than a face-to-face debate, I am totally willing to talk shop with anyone. I just don’t tend to “challenge” people out of hand–on here or in person–without good reason. And ya know, you’re right, people tend to be more agreeable in person regardless of their size.
If you’re implying that a larger person’s size makes them intimidating to the point that no one will argue, I’ll disagree. Confidence isn’t always correlated with size. But I take it you’re saying that a muscular person would command more clout in person than on the internet, and vice versa with a smaller person. I agree.