[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
Another related aspect of this debate that has been coming to the fore in my mind lately is the inherent and unavoidable limitations of any interaction that happens between people over a computer network.
No amount of advice, regardless of how sound, can be as good as being there with the person. I just KNOW, a lot of these, especially younger guys, are not working nearly as hard as they think they are. Explaining exercise form is helpful and pointing someone to a video is even better, but says nothing of whether THEY are actually performing it effectively or not despite all their enthusiastic assurances that they are.
This came into very clear focus for me with a kid in the beginners section who really did sound like he wanted to get somewhere. I realized that I could type 50 pages, but still couldn’t really get it across the same as if I was there. One, NO! NO ! NO!, like this or You ain’t done yet!!! tighten it up and get 2 more is worth a million words on a computer screen.
All that said, which group of guys at your gym is most likely to provide the most useful direction and make no mistake, most guys who have worked their asses off to achieve serious results will make some time for somebody who they perceive as having the same drive they did when they started. There’s always exceptions, but most guys with the type of character and perseverance to achieve the most over time in this game also have the character to do some mentoring provided they don’t think they’re wasting their time.
Hanging out here, reading article etc. can all be tools, but nothing will get you as far as a guy who can grab you by the back of your neck and stick your face in some real life training.[/quote]
Perfectly understandable.
I think that it comes down to how much faith you have in the system. You can’t help everyone and my personality would lead me to help one or two people in-depth who seem visibly dedicated as opposed to trying to respond to every single person’s cry for help. But, I have made observations since I joined here a couple years ago that would narrow down the number of dedicated young guys quickly. Think about it this way, the personality traits of very successful trainees who achieve their long-term goals and have everyone asking them for help seems to be pretty common. These type of people are not GENERALLY the ones who post topic after topic about how pissed off they are about new-year resolution lifters coming into “their” gym. They are not the ones who make fun of beginners who appear to be seriously making an effort to improve themselves as MOST of those are in the SRC thread. They are not the ones who walk around the gym with a smug look on their face and usually are not the ones who post topics whose answers can be discovered in a few google searches. They are the ones who are hard to find on the forums because they keep their mouth shut and listen to the vets without having to say “I agree” with others’ opinions.
This is my type of organized system for pinpointing those who care and mentoring those who will appreciate your efforts.