This a post on how I feel like shit, and what you all would do?
I feel broken, I’ve gotten kicked out of two fraternities, and feel like a bitch in alot of areas of life.
Girls like me sometimes, but I don’t have the guts to follow through with them, they go out of their way.
I’m not depressed, I’m very active, I’m just not sure what to do, I don’t feel qualified, I don’t feel strong enough, and I don’t understand why people seem to reject me.
I’m being rejected by girls and people, and they don’t shit to my face they just talk behind my back. I try to be a socialable and nice guy but it seems like people for whatever reason take me the wrong way, get a bad vibe off me, I don’t udnerstand.
I have no friends, no girl. I need help.
I started driving to New York last night to just say FUCK IT. And start over, but turned back about a quarter of the way, I need advice. What do you all think?
I pretty much feel like i have nothing lift to lose, I have no happiness and no respect from people. I am honestly thinking about just doing a cycle and going fuckign super saiyan, I will not feel unqualified anymore. I might as well just go fucking crazy who the fuck cares.
You said you are are involved with fraternities? It sounds like you are in college. It is time to embrace this period of life before you get bills, married, and all the other responsibilities that go along with it. Don’t worry about getting ‘a girl’ try to get ‘every girl’.
Your outlook on life will determine how you handle situations. Make the best of things.
“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.”
-Tyler Durden (not to bring corny ass movie quotes in here)
I had a similar experience last year–my junior year of college.
The key is to just keep going. Eventually something clicks–something turns on, and it gets better. Forget what people think. Use your frustration and anger to fuel training or to excel academically or in your chosen field.
[quote]Sikkario wrote:
I pretty much feel like i have nothing lift to lose, I have no happiness and no respect from people. I am honestly thinking about just doing a cycle and going fuckign super saiyan, I will not feel unqualified anymore. I might as well just go fucking crazy who the fuck cares.[/quote]
Sounds like you are trying too hard. Stop trying so hard to make friends, focus on your studies, go to games, join clubs, volunteer, but keep your damn mouth shut and just listen to people. Listen, but don’t worry about what they think. In three years, you won’t ever see them again.
I think you need to start praying (if you don’t already) and ask for guidance for your life. In the meantime, like dk44 said, write out a list of goals you want to achieve.
You said you were kicked out of two fraternities (reasons why don’t matter and are none of our business), so I assume you are in college. Just start studying hard and focus on getting your degree, see the big picture.
People will like you for who you are, don’t go out of your way to please anybody. Just focus on the task at hand, be smart, ask for help, and take it one step at a time. You’ll be rockin and rollin in no time!
Good luck, may God guide you in the right direction with your life.
I think I do try to hard, I suppose people have told me I need to listen more, I just need to try to be entertaining, telling jokes and shit. I think people get intimidated by me, cuz I take some shit really personally while other people take it in my opinion just like a lil bitch. I don’t really care, I’m just going to go fucking crazy on training and shit, I really don’t give a fuck.
“I think I do try to hard, I suppose people have told me I need to listen more, I just need to try to be entertaining, telling jokes and shit. I think people get intimidated by me, cuz I take some shit really personally while other people take it in my opinion just like a lil bitch. I don’t really care, I’m just going to go fucking crazy on training and shit, I really don’t give a fuck.”
Relax man, your starting to sound like Charles Manson. It all works out in the end, and if it doesn’t, so what your dead.
[quote]Sikkario wrote:
I think I do try to hard, I suppose people have told me I need to listen more, I just need to try to be entertaining, telling jokes and shit. [/quote]
No, you need to calm the fuck down, and stop trying to be the center of attention. No one will ever disrespect you or kick you out of a frat for minding your own business.
What kind of meds are you on? Were you one of those Hyper-Hypo children?
"No, you need to calm the fuck down, and stop trying to be the center of attention. No one will ever disrespect you or kick you out of a frat for minding your own business.
What kind of meds are you on? Were you one of those Hyper-Hypo children?"
I’m not on any fucking meds. Fuck you. It’s real easy to talk shit on the internet, but I bet you wouldn’t say that shit to my face.
[quote]Sikkario wrote:
Fuck it, I’m through with words.[/quote]
Have you gone back and re-read anything you’ve posted here? You sound like the high strung paniky guy who freaks out when the spaceship crashes and the aliens are eating everyone, and can’t stop talking till someone slaps him. Calm down.
Get 8-10 hours of sleep a night.
Take naps in the afternoon.
Read books.
Study.
Take a class on meditation.
The shit you are freaking out about is nothing. Who cares about some stupid fucking frat boys? You have a great opportunity to get an education, don’t fuck it up because you’re worried the opinions of a bunch of assholes you won’t even know 4 years from now.
And if you can’t handle that, take two years off and work a back-breaking job that pays next to nothing, so when you come back to school you will have the sense to focus on the things that matter and ignore the shit that doesn’t.
Stop trying to please people. Sounds to me like you haven’t found you, you may be spending to much energy trying to be what you think people want you to be, that just won’t work. It’s like creating an image of the girl you want in your head, there is no one like that anywhere.
Get a book on meditation, you may think it sounds gay or religious but it’s not. It’s one of the best ways to get that shit out of your head and see you for who you are.
Honestly, trying to impress people is a real bad idea. Screw them, if they don’t like you for who are, why would you want them as friends anyway.
[quote]Sikkario wrote:
"No, you need to calm the fuck down, and stop trying to be the center of attention. No one will ever disrespect you or kick you out of a frat for minding your own business.
What kind of meds are you on? Were you one of those Hyper-Hypo children?"
I’m not on any fucking meds. Fuck you. It’s real easy to talk shit on the internet, but I bet you wouldn’t say that shit to my face.[/quote]
Is this a troll job or are you this big an asshole for real?
[quote]Zap Branigan wrote:
Sikkario wrote:
"No, you need to calm the fuck down, and stop trying to be the center of attention. No one will ever disrespect you or kick you out of a frat for minding your own business.
What kind of meds are you on? Were you one of those Hyper-Hypo children?"
I’m not on any fucking meds. Fuck you. It’s real easy to talk shit on the internet, but I bet you wouldn’t say that shit to my face.
Is this a troll job or are you this big an asshole for real?
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Me? Well, yes. But if you were asking him I think he pitched a fit because he was looking for a shoulder to cry on.