[quote]ds1973 wrote:
Can she drink more of her calories? Shakes made with fruit, Metabolic Drive, ice-cream, heavy cream, etc… Maybe visit a calorie counting website - there seem to be a lot of recovering anorexics/bulimics on the one I use to track macros. Google “calorie count”. It’s the one with the “about.com” in the address.
caloriecount dot about dot com. (Not sure if the mods will let me post the link).
There’s a whole community of messed up women there.[/quote]<
Found the link, and appreciated it. I used a site called fitday previously, which sucked balls. I’ve found a good post-bulimia recovery method to be the drinking of half a gallon of whole fat milk a day. I advised her to do that and build up to that gradually, like one glass an hour or such.
[quote]gremlin1267 wrote:
The effects of bulimia on the body can range from severe to mildly troublesome. It just depends on the seriousness of the disorder and the length of time the person goes without seeking treatment. As this has been going on for quite some time though it’s probably pretty severe. You can look up the harmful effects on the body on just about any MedMD web posting they’re all pretty much the same, gastrointestinal issues, trouble with blood glucose, pancreatic problems, digestive problems, etc. One question though, what is the particular reason for your query? You seem to want something more specific than a general answer which as stated earlier can be found easily by a Google search.
I sincerely doubt that your g/f is completely free from this disease. It’s really not something that you get completely rid of just like changing out of an old t-shirt and throwing it away. First and foremost I think you should figure out why she became bulimic…most eating disorders are a psychological way of controlling some aspect of life when you feel as though you are out of control, or as a coping mechanism of some sort. That would be my first issue that I think you should look into. Once you know the source of the problem it’s much easier to acknowledge and understand the problem, although you may never understand the problem completely.
Secondly, I think you should be very supportive and listen to her, if she wants to talk about it. It’s actually quite surprising that you found out about it at all. Bulimics are generally very secretive about their eating habits, and typically you wouldn’t really notice if you weren’t paying very close attention to her habits during mealtimes. Did she tell you, or did you find out second handidly, if you don’t mind my asking? The only reason I mention this is that it will help her along with her emotional issues in combating the disease.
As far as her metabolism is concerned she can build it back up gradually by introducing small meals back into her diet. Nothing large and hard to digest. Every member of the eating disordered community that I’ve ever conversed with has always had certain foods that they felt were comfortable with and were able to eat without feeling like they needed to throw them up or couldn’t digest them.
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The reason for my query is that I’m simply worried about her health. She gets palpitations after mere minutes of running, her hair falls off unnaturally and whenever she eats, she gets nausea. On the other hand, she is strong compared to most women of her age around here with a 100 lbs bench press (very interesting detail since it means she was either very strong before the case or didn’t lose muscle mass), has a blood pressure of 115/68 and a pulse of 61 (MUCH better than me in fact. I thought myself to be pretty healthy until I was diagnosed with hypertension and high haertbeat).
The problem is because she was very heavily insecure, mostly about her appearance at the time the complication began and suffered from depression. One night, she binged and became disgusted by herself, mostly due to her appearance and made herself puke. Then she started having more over-eating cases and she puked again whenever she felt heavy (weighed herself 4-5 times a day that time) and it became a habit. She puked whenever she ate. Her friends back then helped her be rid of the puking by locking the toilets whenever they were together and after a shock diet that lasted for 2 months she became free of puking. She is currently happy and is in peace with herself, and is content with her looks (as well as I am), but she still can not eat because whenever she eats a good meal she gets a nausea and is also afraid she’ll put on weight. And she told me.
Yesterday, I told her about my depression a year ago and she wanted me to learn the only thing she hid from me (as she put it), which was bulimia for 3 years. Through some research we decided that it would be to her benefit to drink half a gallon of whole fat milk alongside 6 very light meals a day. That way she can get around 1800-2000 calories, which probably is a good number for maintenance, no?
And thanks for the support both of you, I appreciate it greatly.