That sounds likely. That’s different from proposing from the line and thinking you’ve accomplished something when she leaves with you.
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Bullshit. I’ve asked you and the thread at large to start defining objectively. Nobody can, so here we are.
How can one define objectively what is clearly subjective?
Probably whatever Scientology worships. Aliens?
Gotcha. So no goal posts then. Just projected insecurity as discussed in my comment.
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Scroll up and see the studies that have been done regarding promiscuity.
In keeping within goal posts, the question is “does body count matter”.
No. But compatibility does. And if you find compatibility but can’t commit because she’s had sex before you, your insecurity is the problem. Not her body count. Let’s stay on the field.
As a 17-yr old, I can’t fathom the amount of happiness that will come from fathering children eventually. What is far more meaningful than lifting some arbitrary weight is to raise another human who will grow up a good person. You get to see what you and another person raised accomplishing things for themselves. It’s the ultimate investment in time, and is so much like lifting. Your kid grows, and hits milestones on the way, just like lifting. They always strive to be better in some way or another and no, getting into x school doesn’t have to be it. But that kind of thing isn’t horrible for the child, it’s awesome for the child. I’ve set my own, impressive goals for years, and I see my parents becoming more fulfilled and proud as I do these things. It’s truly wonderful.
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The equivalent? Your child waking up in the morning.
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I don’t think you know what that means. Body count was being discussed and you mentioned a woman simply not being a virgin.
I’m Italian. We don’t lack confidence and we don’t have problems with women.
Why is it so important to you that that is the case? Does it make you feel better about yourself? Does it make you feel like you are better than men who don’t think like you?
Go back and read the context, it’s not me missing the goal posts.
Define.
You are missing the studies.
I have had no such experiences with the distinction between a man and a woman during my years in search of a woman for a mate. But I suppose much has changed the last couple decades. So, you could be correct. I don’t know.
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You’re twisting the context. If you shy away from a perfect match because she’s had sex before you came along (the overriding premise of this topic thread), she is not the problem.
That could be the problem though. If one holds oneself to the same standards, then it’s morally and logically consistent.
What if he makes her happy tho?
Isn’t that the only thing that matters?
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I could agree with the first part as I think you need to judge the person in front of you. But I wouldn’t judge a man who can’t do it and I wouldn’t assume why he feels that way.
I also believe that promiscuity is not healthy for most women. And the sooner a promiscuous woman realizes it, the better off she’ll be. This is why it shouldn’t be taken lightly and certainly shouldn’t be celebrated or encouraged.
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Whatever, bruh. My cock is just so big that I need to be at the back of the line so that she stands a chance of surviving her encounter with it.
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