[quote]pushharder wrote:
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- Take nudie photos of HER. Fap to 'em. Let her know you fap to 'em. Let her catch you fapping to them.
She’ll love it.[/quote]
I’m betting she’ll be to prude to let him take pics
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
90% of the guys here would happily nail the shit out of you.[/quote]
And then they would do what?
None of you are helping her.
And her time is running out.
Please, reinforce her belief that “the right one will just come along” and “like her just the way she is”.
Not A SINGLE ONE OF YOU WILL BE THERE WHEN THAT DOES NOT PAN OUT.
But you can feel good about yourself for a single moment because you can “support” he against the mean meanie.
Gentlemen I would entertain the idea that it is not me who is the asshole here.
Her clock is ticking and Prince Charming lives in the land where princesses ride unicorns.
Either you buy her a ticket there or you do not pile on to sabotage her ine the world we actually live in, if that would be at all possible, thank you. [/quote]
She doesn’t need any help, you’re just being a jack ass. I didn’t see where she was asking for your help. You’re just being mean and condescending like you know or something.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
I was just lurking, but this is off the chain. Orion is being a flat-fucking jerk. Ignore him.
There is nothing wrong with you. I don’t know you, but your posts are funny and you seem to have a good personality.
90% of the guys here would happily nail the shit out of you.[/quote]
This was the kindest, most wondefullest…sigh…
Thanks pat. [/quote]
I know, I know… I just say all the right things. Sorry, I didn’t mean to jump in, I have no aganda, it just kinda pissed me off the way he was talking to you for no reason.
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
90% of the guys here would happily nail the shit out of you.[/quote]
And then they would do what?
None of you are helping her.
And her time is running out.
Please, reinforce her belief that “the right one will just come along” and “like her just the way she is”.
Not A SINGLE ONE OF YOU WILL BE THERE WHEN THAT DOES NOT PAN OUT.
But you can feel good about yourself for a single moment because you can “support” he against the mean meanie.
Gentlemen I would entertain the idea that it is not me who is the asshole here.
Her clock is ticking and Prince Charming lives in the land where princesses ride unicorns.
Either you buy her a ticket there or you do not pile on to sabotage her ine the world we actually live in, if that would be at all possible, thank you. [/quote]
She doesn’t need any help, you’re just being a jack ass. I didn’t see where she was asking for your help. You’re just being mean and condescending like you know or something.
[/quote]
Look you dolt, I asked her, and I quote:
“Would you be open to the idea that your life might improve dramatically if you learned at least some?”
Game that is.
Like flirting.
Like how to get a date.
Like how to date to get another one.
Which would lead to things like sex and relationships and, maybe, trust and intimacy and shared mempories…
You know what?
You are right.
I am a monster.
She should clearly do what she is doing, because it seems to be working exceedingly well for her, the mere idea that someone should grow by tackling his or her problems is obviously a pipe dream, and being the ackward cat lady at 40 is really the best once can hope for in this valley of tears.
In short, I did not offer anything, I asked a question, I am right, you are wrong and unless you are willing to put in writing that you will marry, support and love her and her kid when she has turned 35 and it hasnt quite turned out that well, go away.
[quote]RynoSmash wrote:
See, that’s what I have said to her repeatedly. But, she kind of has me by the balls, because I had promised her that I wouldn’t look any more to get her to stop yelling at me.
I typically use private browsing. But I slipped up a few times, and she promptly called me out on it. [/quote]
OP, your entire problem seems to be summed up by the first half of your 2nd sentence.
DON’T make a promise to your wife if you don’t intend on adhering to it.
When you were intitially faced with the problem (yelling, unhappy wife etc.), there were many paths you could have chosen. It is safe to say that the worst possible path is to make that promise if you don’t intend to keep it.
First and foremost, I suggest you retrieve your balls from your wife ASAP. Secondly, explain yourself to her and either ACTUALLY FULFILL YOUR PROMISE…OR put your foot down and tell her how things are gonna be and tell her you’re gonna watch porn and that it’s not open to negotiation…either way, you ought to be able to man up and make a decision…you ought not to have to lie about it or hide anything from someone you have married…
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]jehovasfitness wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
continued
- Take nudie photos of HER. Fap to 'em. Let her know you fap to 'em. Let her catch you fapping to them.
She’ll love it.[/quote]
I’m betting she’ll be to prude to let him take pics[/quote]
There are ways to develop your woman.
That’s right, if a man plays it right, he SHOULD be able to take a normal woman with a decent sex drive, even if she is initially a prude, and help mold her into a more sexy, confident, non-prudish woman. It may take time and finesse but it can be done in my opinion, generally speaking.
Some of the problems that guys have with their women can sometimes be traced to the guy.
Some of you are just assholes.
Some of you are just plain stupid.
Some of you need a sense of humor and to learn how to put women at ease.
Some of you are just young and inexperienced and you might just need some knowledge and wisdom to go along with more experience.
[/quote]
Push-
I don’t know where the thread is, but I hope your son is doing better. Best Wishes.
Sorry to hijack/
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
90% of the guys here would happily nail the shit out of you.[/quote]
And then they would do what?
None of you are helping her.
And her time is running out.
Please, reinforce her belief that “the right one will just come along” and “like her just the way she is”.
Not A SINGLE ONE OF YOU WILL BE THERE WHEN THAT DOES NOT PAN OUT.
But you can feel good about yourself for a single moment because you can “support” he against the mean meanie.
Gentlemen I would entertain the idea that it is not me who is the asshole here.
Her clock is ticking and Prince Charming lives in the land where princesses ride unicorns.
Either you buy her a ticket there or you do not pile on to sabotage her ine the world we actually live in, if that would be at all possible, thank you. [/quote]
She doesn’t need any help, you’re just being a jack ass. I didn’t see where she was asking for your help. You’re just being mean and condescending like you know or something.
[/quote]
Look you dolt, I asked her, and I quote:
“Would you be open to the idea that your life might improve dramatically if you learned at least some?”
Game that is.
Like flirting.
Like how to get a date.
Like how to date to get another one.
Which would lead to things like sex and relationships and, maybe, trust and intimacy and shared mempories…
You know what?
You are right.
I am a monster.
She should clearly do what she is doing, because it seems to be working exceedingly well for her, the mere idea that someone should grow by tackling his or her problems is obviously a pipe dream, and being the ackward cat lady at 40 is really the best once can hope for in this valley of tears.
In short, I did not offer anything, I asked a question, I am right, you are wrong and unless you are willing to put in writing that you will marry, support and love her and her kid when she has turned 35 and it hasnt quite turned out that well, go away. [/quote]
You’re the only one who thinks you’re being helpful. Everyone else thinks you’re being a cunt. It’s not “asking a question” or some tough love bullshit, you’re just being an asshat. I don’t see people on here hoping they fucking turn out like you either, so why don’t you just tone it down.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
90% of the guys here would happily nail the shit out of you.[/quote]
And then they would do what?
None of you are helping her.
And her time is running out.
Please, reinforce her belief that “the right one will just come along” and “like her just the way she is”.
Not A SINGLE ONE OF YOU WILL BE THERE WHEN THAT DOES NOT PAN OUT.
But you can feel good about yourself for a single moment because you can “support” he against the mean meanie.
Gentlemen I would entertain the idea that it is not me who is the asshole here.
Her clock is ticking and Prince Charming lives in the land where princesses ride unicorns.
Either you buy her a ticket there or you do not pile on to sabotage her ine the world we actually live in, if that would be at all possible, thank you. [/quote]
She doesn’t need any help, you’re just being a jack ass. I didn’t see where she was asking for your help. You’re just being mean and condescending like you know or something.
[/quote]
Look you dolt, I asked her, and I quote:
“Would you be open to the idea that your life might improve dramatically if you learned at least some?”
Game that is.
Like flirting.
Like how to get a date.
Like how to date to get another one.
Which would lead to things like sex and relationships and, maybe, trust and intimacy and shared mempories…
You know what?
You are right.
I am a monster.
She should clearly do what she is doing, because it seems to be working exceedingly well for her, the mere idea that someone should grow by tackling his or her problems is obviously a pipe dream, and being the ackward cat lady at 40 is really the best once can hope for in this valley of tears.
In short, I did not offer anything, I asked a question, I am right, you are wrong and unless you are willing to put in writing that you will marry, support and love her and her kid when she has turned 35 and it hasnt quite turned out that well, go away. [/quote]
You’re the only one who thinks you’re being helpful. Everyone else thinks you’re being a cunt. It’s not “asking a question” or some tough love bullshit, you’re just being an asshat. I don’t see people on here hoping they fucking turn out like you either, so why don’t you just tone it down.
[/quote]
I.
Literally.
Asked.
A.
Question.
The rest, is all in your head.
And in her qualifying and in your reinforcing her BS.
She.
Cannot.
Get.
A.
Date.
Year.
Old.
Girls.
Can.
Bitch, moan, do a handstand, IT WILL NOT CHANGE THAT.
Anything else?
Oh and unless you are willing to put in writing that you will marry, support and love her and her kid when she has turned 35 and it hasnt quite turned out that well, go away.
The only thing I would suggest to Spock is, whenever you are about to talk to a guy that you plan on saying ‘wanna fuck?’ to, just be yourself and tell him why you are about to say ‘wanna fuck?’ (like you told us) before you say it.
Come on guys, we had a lot of comments that alluded to fucking her.
Not one white knight wants to put his committment where is mouth is?
Thought so.
Come on, give me more fluff, feel all chivalrous and righteous while you throw her under the bus for a cheap thrill.
Come on girls, lay it on thick, make her e-swoon, help her ruining her life forever, why dontcha?
[quote]mbdix wrote:
The only thing I would suggest to Spock is, whenever you are about to talk to a guy that you plan on saying ‘wanna fuck?’ to, just be yourself and tell him why you are about to say ‘wanna fuck?’ (like you told us) before you say it.
[/quote]
That will not work, but I appreciate the spirit.
Thank you.
He may not have said it in the most tactful way, but Orion has actually given Spock the most helpful advice. She has said that she literally CANNOT get a date. She’s got to change something. Telling her she’s great just the way she is might very well be true, but that won’t help her get a date. It’s not about changing who she is, it’s about changing how she interacts with the opposite sex.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
The only thing I would suggest to Spock is, whenever you are about to talk to a guy that you plan on saying ‘wanna fuck?’ to, just be yourself and tell him why you are about to say ‘wanna fuck?’ (like you told us) before you say it.
[/quote]
That will not work, but I appreciate the spirit.
Thank you. [/quote]
Maybe I missed something? But, I don’t know why you are thanking me for the post directed at Spock? Unless it is just for contributing? Then…
You’re welcome
[quote]mbdix wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
The only thing I would suggest to Spock is, whenever you are about to talk to a guy that you plan on saying ‘wanna fuck?’ to, just be yourself and tell him why you are about to say ‘wanna fuck?’ (like you told us) before you say it.
[/quote]
That will not work, but I appreciate the spirit.
Thank you. [/quote]
Maybe I missed something? But, I don’t know why you are thanking me for the post directed at Spock? Unless it is just for contributing? Then…
You’re welcome[/quote]
No, its because you are not a part of the “lets dig her hole deeper” crew.
lol do men look at porn…
does a bear shit in the woods?
Fair enough. Why do you say it wouldn’t work?
Lets just say I have been in a bar, or club and I woman approached me and pretty much said ‘wanna fuck’ maybe not in those exact words but, you know. I would go with her and fuck her. And, maybe leave afterwards or the next morning and possibly never think of calling her or maybe forget to get her digits?
Same woman comes up to me and maybe not say the same thing Spock said in her explanation but, close to it, I would probably start talking to her a little more and with my own questions get her personallity to come out and then later go and fuck. Spock seems cool on this site, sweet, and nice why wouldn’t.
What I am trying to say is, for me and women if i am ‘trying’ to get laid or a date it’s a process. I talk to them and get to know them most guys are the same like that. If I get approached with ‘wanna fuck’ and I want to, then it’s let’s go fuck. If I get approached with ‘hey this that is why I am going to say this that’ I am almost certain i would get to know her a little more and probably hang out some and have a really good time because I already know we are going to fuck, then…go bang the shit out of her. And, probably want to hang out again and go from there.
[quote]mbdix wrote:
Fair enough. Why do you say it wouldn’t work?
Lets just say I have been in a bar, or club and I woman approached me and pretty much said ‘wanna fuck’ maybe not in those exact words but, you know. I would go with her and fuck her. And, maybe leave afterwards or the next morning and possibly never think of calling her or maybe forget to get her digits?
Same woman comes up to me and maybe not say the same thing Spock said in her explanation but, close to it, I would probably start talking to her a little more and with my own questions get her personallity to come out and then later go and fuck. Spock seems cool on this site, sweet, and nice why wouldn’t.
What I am trying to say is, for me and women if i am ‘trying’ to get laid or a date it’s a process. I talk to them and get to know them most guys are the same like that. If I get approached with ‘wanna fuck’ and I want to, then it’s let’s go fuck. If I get approached with ‘hey this that is why I am going to say this that’ I am almost certain i would get to know her a little more and probably hang out some and have a really good time because I already know we are going to fuck, then…go bang the shit out of her. And, probably want to hang out again and go from there. [/quote]
It lacks the spark.
It lacks chemistry.
She is not Spock for nothing, I am assuming that she has a strong male nerdish side to her.
Which is great, she must raise hell in bed, but she completely shortcuts the sense of pride and achievement of a man who actually pursued her.
She shortcuts the emotional connection an average man would have after bedding her too.
What she does is the most primitive male game and it only just barely works because she has a vagina.
The most primitive if female game would earn her more respect, better sex, a committed relationship.
It should not be such a stretch for her either, she is nice, she is open, she has a certain feminity to her.
And yet, she refuses to own it.
Debra, if you have still PMs, please, for the love of God, take her under your wings and teach her the basics.